How does DH irritate you?

bambinthumper · March 2015

I'm just a little curious, what does your DH do that can really work your nerves? Prepregnancy I hardly ever got mad or irritated with DH but now little things he does or says make me want to scream!!!

This morning he simply asked me to find a certain pair of jeans. He does this all the time but this morning I just wanted to tell him that he is a grown man and needs to find things himself! .... last night while cooking he comes in and adds spices to what I was cooking... can you not just let me cook why do you have to add your spices? ? Why are these little things pushing my buttons?

Miz_Liz · March 2015

BreezyMeema said:
He will eat a bowl of cereal after supper most days. It drives me bonkers, pregnant or not. If you're still hungry...eat more of the supper I cooked for you!

Next time he asks you, "What's for supper?" you should tell him, "I figured we would have your favorite...cereal, after all,, it is what you will end up eating anyways..."

amk013 · March 2015

BreezyMeema said:
He will eat a bowl of cereal after supper most days. It drives me bonkers, pregnant or not. If you're still hungry...eat more of the supper I cooked for you!

Mine does the exact same thing!! And then every morning I have the lovely chore of washing his spoiled milk bowl!

staciedw · March 2015

Mine takes off his shoes and leaves his socks all over the house ! I'm tired of finding socks on the floor everywhere !
He will also laugh at me when I am trying to say something serious. He likes to make things into jokes. This didn't bother me pre-pregnancy , but I'm worried he will really piss me off with this during labor and delivery.

lelesmom · March 2015

@BreezyMeema @amk013 either our husbands are all related or this is a man thing!!! But usually it'll be 2 bowls stacked bc he gets home from work around 5am and eats another bowl and leaves it for me to clean up.... Every day!

missmarissa711 · March 2015

leaves his big clown shoes In very odd places and I always trip over them!!! ::shakes fist::

pabeybaby · March 2015

We'll have perfectly good leftovers in the fridge to eat for dinner. I hate wasting food. He'll make ramen noodles instead. Seriously?!

Also, we found out we're having a girl earlier this week. Today we were talking about our upcoming anatomy scan and he said something about maybe they'll "catch something" that we couldn't see last time, meaning maybe our baby will magically change into a boy. That really ticked me off!

jessandandy09 · March 2015

Leaves his socks and shoes all over. I understand I have to pick up after our 3 year old, but not my 42 year old child!

Also he plays a video game on his laptop that pisses him off (literally it can ruin his day), but he keeps playing it and that makes me angry. Especially because he ignores everyone in the world to play this game,.

walterjena · March 2015

He speaks out loud. ...poor thing. I have never been annoyed with him, but me waddling while he is still slim irks the shit out of me

jessandandy09 · March 2015

I forgot two things

3) he twiddles his hair

4) he chews noisily

Drives me insane!!!

bambinthumper · March 2015

Mine also leaves his dirty clothes in the floor right next to the dang laundry basket! Why is it so hard to put them IN the basket?

bumpuser10704024 · March 2015

Love all these!! He has been complaining that lately I've been looking at him with disgust, I swear I'm trying to hide it, but if he could not noisily floss his teeth in bed or leave his dirty clothes everywhere then I'd appreciate it. If he doesn't like my "look of disgust" then it's probably a good thing that he can't see the look I give him when he's peacefully sleeping in the middle of the night while I'm on my 3rd potty trip

Miz_Liz · March 2015

bumpuser10704024 said:
Love all these!! He has been complaining that lately I've been looking at him with disgust, I swear I'm trying to hide it, but if he could not noisily floss his teeth in bed or leave his dirty clothes everywhere then I'd appreciate it. If he doesn't like my "look of disgust" then it's probably a good thing that he can't see the look I give him when he's peacefully sleeping in the middle of the night while I'm on my 3rd potty trip

He flosses his teeth in bed?! OMG that would make me INSANE! I think he is lucky all he is getting is a look of disgust.

kelseyrayay · March 2015

Lol I eat a bowl of cereal after I eat dinner. My dad used to do it then I got started on it when I started craving peanut butter cup cereal. My DH doesn't annoy me. Now my dog good grief the smacking and licking himself ughh just stop!

lilhoek · March 2015

My husband is an absolute saint right now. He is a stay at home dad to our two boys, and I am on bed rest, so I am working from home. He gets every meal for me, cleans the kitchen every day, is currently doing my laundry while he is out fertilizing the yard!! So, I am trying REALLY hard not to get annoyed with him EVERY time I walk past and he give me the not-so-subtle hint that he wants to go have sex (we can, I am just already huge with the twins I am carrying and it is not exactly like it feels great). It's like he thinks I might forget he has a penis if he doesnt remind me 17 times a day.

SantistevanMommie · March 2015

My hubby loves to have my sister over to play video games and talks to her all the friggin time. He will come home and I'll be trying to talk to him and he just ignores me and texts her. Didn't bug me before as much as it does now. It makes me want to slap him into next month

whenweawake · March 2015

1- I have worked hard to make a good laundry system for us. NOPE he leaves his clothes everywhere.

2- he loves ranch and ketchup but never cleans off the plates. Doesn't even rinse them. Do you know how gross cleaning old ranch or ketchup is...

ShondaJo · March 2015

My hubby bear is an absolute sweetheart. He makes it his mission in life to treat me like a queen. But last night I got so mad at him for the stupidest reason. I have some sort of bug that's going around so I'd been throwing up, couldn't breathe, and just generally aching all over. I went to bed and when my husband came home he wasn't aware I was sick. He woke me up when he turned on the light lookin for something. This was at 130. This wouldn't have been a problem but I couldn't get back to sleep and was tossing and turning until 3 when he came to bed. He has a book reading light so he can read next to me and not bother me. I have never wanted to destroy a light so badly in my whole life. I lost it and bit his head off and threw the biggest fit. He turned it off and went to sleep which was irritating since I now was mad and wanted to fight. Took me a while to settle myself down and finally got to sleep around four. Spend today sick and tired from not sleeping enough. And feeling really bad about how I treated him. But he wakes up with an it's okay and I love you attitude. I'm glad I have a guy that rolls with my crazy.

srm1987 · March 2015

When I mention "you might have to start doing this soon...." I'm 18 weeks and already huge, and when I try to bend and pick something up or switch laundry over the belly is already in my way and it's only going to get bigger.....he acts like I'm making it up or just trying to get out of doing things

ginger8484 · April 2015

My partner annoys me when I just simply want to mention my or any new symptoms and he says that I am being negative. I'm a ftm and don't have any family to go to with any issues. I get freaked out and worry for a second but if I just talk it out it , well it makes me feel better and I get it sorted it out. I love coming to you guys for support and it does help tremendously . Thank you ladies. I almost cried yesterday because I was concerned if I had enough oxygen to the baby due to low iron levels and all he says is" you need to stop thinking like that and stop being negative" !!! Ugh!

GirlOnTheBeach · April 2015

SantistevanMommie said:
My hubby loves to have my sister over to play video games and talks to her all the friggin time. He will come home and I'll be trying to talk to him and he just ignores me and texts her. Didn't bug me before as much as it does now. It makes me want to slap him into next month

This wouldn't fly with me even if I wasn't pregnant. I think it's wrong that he's prioritizing time with your sister instead of you, his WIFE. :-(

FirstBabyY · April 2015

Mine decided that pregnancy is an opening to burp loudly all the time, like superrrrr loud! am so grossed out like dude I'm the one who's supposed to be gassy ha! Also he keeps cooking salmon and the smell is so horrible for me

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