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Just found out I belong here

AWellBornBugAWellBornBug member
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Hi everyone. Just found out yesterday after some bleeding that our baby has no heartbeat and is under developed. I'm supposed to be 8 weeks, 4 days. I am just so devastated. It took us a year to conceive and after so much joy and relief and excitement, it ends this way. I have no idea what to do.
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  • yl1m32015yl1m32015 member
    I'm sorry :(
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    I'm so sorry to hear it. I'm currently waiting to miscarry. I can't imagine how much more it would hurt if it took a year to conceive. My heart goes out to you.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • AWellBornBugAWellBornBug member
    Thank you ladies. CarrieandRoy how far along were you? The waiting is terrible. I've just started passing clots so hopefully it happens sooner rather than later :( does anyone know how long you have to wait to start trying again?
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  • bntfroggiebntfroggie member
    I just found out yesterday that our little one didn't make it.  My Doctor said one normal period until trying again.  I'm in limbo right now because my body still thinks baby is alive and I haven't started the miscarriage part.  I'm beyond sad and scared.  Sorry for your loss @AWellBornBug
    BFP 2/11/15 (EDD 10/13/15). MMC 3/30/15 D&C 4/3/15 "We will always love you"
    DD1 - BFP 7/23/15 (EDD 3/31/16).  "We believe in you rainbow" DOB 4/2/16
    DD2 - BFP 2/9/18 (EDD 10/19/18).  "Grow baby grow!" DOB 10/24/18
    BFP 11/16/20 (EDD 7/31/21).  "Round 3 FIGHT!"
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  • 4N6s4N6s member
    I'm so sorry :(
    It sucks.
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  • tigerfish227tigerfish227 member
    @AWellBornBug all you really can do is try to take it a day at a time. It has been 4 weeks since I found out my baby didn't make it. I had to have a d&c because mine was a missed miscarriage. I still have days where I feel like everything is wrong and I don't feel whole. I was beyond crushed when the US tech told me that my baby had no heartbeat. I should have been 11w6d and baby was only measuring 8w6d. It will get better. You won't forget but you can move on. I know for me, going back to work helped a lot. Getting back to my routine kept me from sinking too deep that I couldn't swim. Hang in there and feel free to PM me if you need someone to talk to.
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  • carrieandrcarrieandr member
    @AWellBornBug, I was 9 weeks when I found out, but the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I'm on day 6 of waiting to miscarry. No spotting or anything yet, but I was told it could take 2 or 3 weeks to start. And my doctor said to have one normal period before trying.
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)
    BFP 2/16/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks      •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)
    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.
    BFP 9/24/18  •      CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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  • cbaker2006cbaker2006 member
    I miscarried yesterday. The emergency room doctors left me with no answers. I was 5 weeks and 6 days. I bled pretty heavy but no clots or anything yet. I'm just so sad now.

    I'm sorry for your loss. It's so hard no matter how far along we are it seems.
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