So my best friend gets engaged yesterday and already decided to get married September 12. My Due Date is August 30th. Normally that wouldn't scare me except that she lives/is getting married in Eugene,OR. I live in Albuquerque,NM. Her date is non negotiable because of school/traveling plans for them. Is it dumb for me to even tell her that I am gonna try? Or realistically should I tell her I won't be there? I'm so torn. If it was ANYONE else I wouldn't even think about being a superhero, but this is my best friend of all time. I'm feeling overwhelmed with emotion.