Breastfeeding

Breast feeding older children?

I wanna keep breastfeeding my daughter until she's probably about 2 years old. I'm wondering how other moms do it. I'm trying to avoid nursing her at that age because I have large breasts and it's hard enough now and my LO is only 2 weeks old :/. So I'm wondering how the veterans breast feed past infancy.

Re: Breast feeding older children?

  • I'm not sure I understand the question?
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  • I wanna know how breastfeeding works with older children. Do you nurse them on your breast or do you pump and give them a bottle or something?
  • Oh. Well, I feed them on the breast when we are together. Before age one, they drank pumped breastmilk from a bottle while I was at work. After age one, they drank sippy cups of cow's milk while I am at work. Nursing a kid older than one is actually incredibly easy. Once you get past 6-8 weeks, it gets much easier and by the time they're one, it's a walk in the park.
    My TTC History:
    2009: missed miscarriage #1 at 9 weeks (trisomy 16)
    2010: Infertility
    2011: Diagnosis and treatment (low sperm count, anastrozole for DH, clomid for me + IUI)
    2012: Baby #1
    2014: Baby #2
    October 2015: missed miscarriage #2 at 11 weeks (trisomy 22)
    March 2016 BFP#5, due November 2016.

    My Charts since 2009

  • Oh. Well, I feed them on the breast when we are together. Before age one, they drank pumped breastmilk from a bottle while I was at work. After age one, they drank sippy cups of cow's milk while I am at work. Nursing a kid older than one is actually incredibly easy. Once you get past 6-8 weeks, it gets much easier and by the time they're one, it's a walk in the park.

    Awesome thanks :)
  • I'm at 9months breast feeding and as pp said it gets much easier after the first 6-8weeks.
  • edited March 2015
    I bf'd until 19 months. I nursed at the she we were together and just gave cows milk when I was out so I wouldn't have to pump. I still nursed him in cradle position with my Boppy but I know other moms find other positions that work, like LO sitting on your lap facing you.
    ETA, the cows milk was after a year, before that it was pumped milk :)


     

  • I find that nursing a toddler is much much easier than nursing a baby. He understands so much now. If I ask him to have a more gentle latch or switch sides or be all done, he understands. Toddlers can also understand "not now" which is nice for times where I don't want to nurse him right then and there.

    I pumped at work through 18m. Around that time he stopped wanting breastmilk in a cup. So I stopped pumping it because that was a waste, but he is still nursing a year later.

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  • I'm still nursing my 19 month old. He can ask for it himself now and says more when he wants the other breast. He never drank from a bottle so I didn't pump. Like pps said, it's so much easier to nurse a toddler. He climbs up on my lap and just goes to town. I don't have to worry about positions and latching anymore.
    Good luck to you! I hope you can nurse as long as you want to.
  • I nursed my DD until she was 19 months. Toddler nursing was incredibly easy. I never had to pump past 10-11m or so because my supply was so regulated. I nursed her comfortably in the glider or on the couch or laying in bed. Much easier than having to position a baby, that's for sure!
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  • Nursing a toddler is great, once past the baby stage it's easy to establish boundaries as far as how the nursing relationship is to continue. At around 18 months I no longer felt comfortable nursing in the grocery store, even though DS was in a carrier. I had to explain to him that it wasn't time to 'nur' but that once we got home I would love to snuggle and nur then. Of course, he wasn't happy about it the first time, but by the second or third trip he was A-ok to nurse once we were home.

    Nursing is still a wonderful bonding experience and a comfort for toddlers. It can help calm them from a fright or hurt, and allow them some one on one time.

    My DS and I are still currently nursing at 29 months and I'm also pregnant with #2
  • I nursed my DD until she was 2.5 yrs (when she weaned herself).  She'd jump up on my lap, nurse, ask to switch sides, etc.  It was a breeze.  When she wasn't with me she'd drink either pumped milk or raw cow's milk from a sippy cup.  
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