Hi, This isy first pregnancy and my husband and I both wanted a girl. I thought I would be ok with either though because I know its a 50/50 shot either way. But I've been dreaming about a little girl and have names picked. I felt like it was a girl with everything I've read and I feel a connection when I think about "our little girl". We found out yesterday that it was a boy and he tested positive for chromosomal abnormalities. And now I'm a mess. I don't feel anything when I think about a boy or what he will look like and I'm going crazy over the test results and feel terrible that I'm so upset its a boy and I'm even more upset because he isn't going to be a healthy boy. I don't know how I'm supposed to cope with this, I don't feel anything and I'm just sad thinking about this baby. And I work with babies at the hospital and I just cry every time I see these beautiful baby girls. Any advice?