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• louloutte87 member

  March 2015

  I think you need to stop asking the Internet and start asking science.
  
  Get a DNA test and that is the ONLY way you will know for sure.
  
  Good luck!

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• sb184 member

  March 2015

  I got my first positive at home pregnancy test one week after conception.

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• kenziekathleen member

  March 2015

  Indeed it would have. I bought condoms on my way there but we ended up in the hot tub. He was kind of forceful about it happening there. He did at least pull out before he started ejaculating, but of course that can mean nothing. And MUD?

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• cassietegtmeier member

  March 2015

  Magic 8 ball says..... Get a DNA test if you really want to know. No one on here has any way of knowing.

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• jerseymommatobe member

  March 2015

  Oy. No judgement here but I would get DNA test. I can't believe your husband hasn't told you this is a necessity...

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• mb1383 member

  March 2015 edited March 2015

  Can't....help.... It.... Eyes rolling....
  
  Not only should you get a DNA test, but a STD screening.

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• MissRissx3 member

  March 2015

  ... MUD. It's gotta be MUD

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• HSTeacherHeidi member

  March 2015

  Isn't your husband just as concerned as you about who this baby belongs to? Since you said he told you to do this, in the middle of you two trying to conceive? And you told him you had sex without a condom (for part of it)? I would assume since he's fine with this he should be wondering this as much as you.
  
  DNA Test ASAP
  STD test for you and DH ASAP
  
  Be thankful you didn't post this two months ago

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• laurenbrnwed member

  March 2015

  What if your husband is fertile and has been keeping it a secret. He wanted you to have sex with someone else hoping that you'd get pregnant and think it was his.....
  
  Mind. Blown.

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• marthaudani member

  March 2015

  This is almost as good as the post about the mixed baby and the blackness scale.
  
  Please tell me this is fake. Otherwise just call the Springer show for a free DNA test.

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• MissRissx3 member

  March 2015

  This is too much for my mind to handle. You need to go to a professional for this. 

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• kristeenbutler member

  March 2015

  no shame in women these days absolutely disgusting... smh

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• MissRissx3 member

  March 2015

  I'm not one to judge your lifestyle, and what you guys do for excitement, but you honestly can't expect us to be able to answer that question for you. This isn't something that TB is for. You should be asking a medical professional. This isn't judgeing, this is me telling you that I cannot help you with this. And i don't think that this is TB appropriate.

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• kby721 member

  March 2015

  This just became a concern in the middle of your third trimester?

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• scdsutton member

  March 2015

  What is wrong with people??!! Seriously.....

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• khaleesi123 member

  March 2015

  ..... So are any of the people that think we are nasty going to defend this lady? Just out of curiosity.
  
  I'm not judging but there's no way anyone can answer that for you it's 50/50 you need a DNA test.

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• backwoodsbarbie2k15 member

  March 2015

  Ita hard to provide suppoort.. In such a, well... Controversial topic. I personally dont agree with anything in your situation. There is a real possibility this baby is not your husband's. You cant rely on "thinking you were pregnant already". Pregnancy tests are generally pretty accurate... And without tracking your body temperature and knowing the exact day you ovulated.. Its all up in the air. You need tests.

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• dec2018mom member

  March 2015

  
  
  On top of the DNA and STD screening maybe you guys should seek couples therapy.

  

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• kat0217 member

  March 2015

  In case this isn't MUD....
  
  When you're "2 weeks pregnant" you're actually ovulating and that's when conception happens, so it could easily be either guy's baby. Read up on how your body works.

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• sephora468 member

  March 2015

  Are you seriously asking us who the baby daddy is??? I mean geez I'm not judging but really??
  
  If you head over to the bump's homepage I'm pretty sure you will see a common theme---this is a website that discusses all things pregnancy, baby or wanting to be pregnant.
  
  Not WebMD...and I'm pretty sure those folks can't diagnose paternity either.
  
  Like everyone is saying go to the doctors get the testing and there's your answer.
  
  Good luck!!! :-/

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• cpage2211 member

  March 2015

  Oh, I'm judging you. A lot actually. This can't be real. And if it is, shame on you. I'm just sayin'.

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• duynguyen51 member

  March 2015

  This can't be real ! Well at least your husband won't get mad if it is not his baby since he don't mind sharing you with another man. I'm sorry but what is this world coming to? And I think ya need some serious help:(

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• jerseymommatobe member

  March 2015 edited March 2015

  Hahah OP please come back and explain this!

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• HSTeacherHeidi member

  March 2015

  She's gone??? Nooooo

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• mrscimino914 member

  March 2015

  In sorry but how haven't you gotten a paternity test already. And my biggest question is what does you husband think of this!?!? Isn't he wondering also?!? What you guys do on your own time is what you guys do, but if you are due in May like all of us, why haven't you gotten a test yet.
  
  Also how could we help you!?? Lol

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• laurexx member

  March 2015

  Come back and keep us updated.

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• soontobecapek member

  March 2015

  mrscimino914 said:

  In sorry but how haven't you gotten a paternity test already. And my biggest question is what does you husband think of this!?!? Isn't he wondering also?!? What you guys do on your own time is what you guys do, but if you are due in May like all of us, why haven't you gotten a test yet.
  
  Also how could we help you!?? Lol

  Real or not are you going to pay for the paternity test? They are not cheap in utero and insurance doesn't cover them. She would have to wait until after birth. I need a paternity test and have done all the necessary research. I know who baby daddy is but I have to prove my husband isn't before I can get divorced. Most people don't have $1600 laying around for a paternity test when after birth it costs $100 if you do it at DHS or child support offices.
  

  
  

  

  
  

  

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• OnceInLoveWithAmy member

  March 2015

  No one quoted the OP??????
  
  Oh grasshoppers, you have much to learn.

  
  

  
  

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• mrscimino914 member

  March 2015

  soontobecapek said:

  mrscimino914 said:

  In sorry but how haven't you gotten a paternity test already. And my biggest question is what does you husband think of this!?!? Isn't he wondering also?!? What you guys do on your own time is what you guys do, but if you are due in May like all of us, why haven't you gotten a test yet.
  
  Also how could we help you!?? Lol

  Real or not are you going to pay for the paternity test? They are not cheap in utero and insurance doesn't cover them. She would have to wait until after birth. I need a paternity test and have done all the necessary research. I know who baby daddy is but I have to prove my husband isn't before I can get divorced. Most people don't have $1600 laying around for a paternity test when after birth it costs $100 if you do it at DHS or child support offices.
  

  
  I get what you are saying, but if you read what she wrote she's asking what can she do. As if I know who the father of the child or someone else on the bump knows. If she wants to know get a paternity test. And not post it here, if she was wanting to know so bad then her and her DH can save and get the test or wait like you are doing. I'm sorry about your situation but I don't think that has anything to do with what I said nor give you the right to tell me your situation. This lady is asking what can she do, she is worried who's the daddy. Well get a frigging paternity test and don't post it on here and ask, knowing there really is no answer she can get here. Just people like us wondering why she hasn't gotten one already.

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• khaleesi123 member

  March 2015

  soontobecapek said:

  mrscimino914 said:

  In sorry but how haven't you gotten a paternity test already. And my biggest question is what does you husband think of this!?!? Isn't he wondering also?!? What you guys do on your own time is what you guys do, but if you are due in May like all of us, why haven't you gotten a test yet.
  
  Also how could we help you!?? Lol

  Real or not are you going to pay for the paternity test? They are not cheap in utero and insurance doesn't cover them. She would have to wait until after birth. I need a paternity test and have done all the necessary research. I know who baby daddy is but I have to prove my husband isn't before I can get divorced. Most people don't have $1600 laying around for a paternity test when after birth it costs $100 if you do it at DHS or child support offices.
  

  
  You obviously didn't see what OP wrote before she deleted it..
  

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• kenziekathleen member

  March 2015

  Why would I keep you updated when you've been nothing but judgemental and rude? Obviously you couldn't tell me who the father is, but I also don't have an extra 1600 laying around. I won't be getting a DNA test because my husband and I got ourselves into this and he will raise baby and love him as his either way. I posted basically asking if the test was positive after 7 days how likely it could have happened that day. I have the answers I need. Thank you everyone for your input. If you didn't have the answer, maybe you should have kept your nasty judgemental comments to yourself.

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• scdsutton member

  March 2015

  We have a right to judge you when your OP was so absolutely trashy. Don't put something on an open discussion board that you only want a positive response to.

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• cassietegtmeier member

  March 2015

  kenziekathleen said:

  Why would I keep you updated when you've been nothing but judgemental and rude? Obviously you couldn't tell me who the father is, but I also don't have an extra 1600 laying around. I won't be getting a DNA test because my husband and I got ourselves into this and he will raise baby and love him as his either way. I posted basically asking if the test was positive after 7 days how likely it could have happened that day. I have the answers I need. Thank you everyone for your input. If you didn't have the answer, maybe you should have kept your nasty judgemental comments to yourself.

  
  :ar!

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• khaleesi123 member

  March 2015

  Well at least you didn't get scared off and posted another discussion on the bump.. Good for you

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• soontobecapek member

  March 2015 edited March 2015

  khaleesi123 said:

  soontobecapek said:

  mrscimino914 said:

  In sorry but how haven't you gotten a paternity test already. And my biggest question is what does you husband think of this!?!? Isn't he wondering also?!? What you guys do on your own time is what you guys do, but if you are due in May like all of us, why haven't you gotten a test yet.
  
  Also how could we help you!?? Lol

  Real or not are you going to pay for the paternity test? They are not cheap in utero and insurance doesn't cover them. She would have to wait until after birth. I need a paternity test and have done all the necessary research. I know who baby daddy is but I have to prove my husband isn't before I can get divorced. Most people don't have $1600 laying around for a paternity test when after birth it costs $100 if you do it at DHS or child support offices.
  

  
  You obviously didn't see what OP wrote before she deleted it..
  

  Yea I did, it's not my situation at all. I think if OP was a little smarter about how her body works and a bit less drama seeking she wouldn't have to feel attacked and would have realized this was a completely ignorant request. I was just stating that paternity tests in utero are expensive and it's not really difficult to see why someone wouldn't get one.
  

  
  

  

  
  

  

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• HSTeacherHeidi member

  March 2015

  kenziekathleen said:

  Why would I keep you updated when you've been nothing but judgemental and rude? Obviously you couldn't tell me who the father is, but I also don't have an extra 1600 laying around. I won't be getting a DNA test because my husband and I got ourselves into this and he will raise baby and love him as his either way. I posted basically asking if the test was positive after 7 days how likely it could have happened that day. I have the answers I need. Thank you everyone for your input. If you didn't have the answer, maybe you should have kept your nasty judgemental comments to yourself.

  You say you and your husband will love and raise the baby either way...but isn't that not fair to the other guy in case he is the real father? Or to your baby to know 100% who his biological father really is? I'm not doubting your husband will raise and love him no matter what, but it's sticky when you won't ever know (unless you do testing after the baby is born and are honest with the other guy in case he's the dad).

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