okay I'll start with my weight gain.
I started at 95-97lbs before pregnancy and I am a FTM. I was in a healthy range for my height and have always been petite. In the first trimester, I gained 10 pounds! I'm not exactly sure what it was from. Probably less exercise and increasing my food intake. (Nothing bad, just eating more) then I've gone to the doctor and asked him about it. His response was "you could have used a few more pounds on you!" I was a little annoyed but tried to work out more and make healthy choices becuase I read about people losing weight or just gaining 1-3. I went back the following month and went up 4lbs! I can't win! Now I just checked, I'm 17 weeks 1 day, and up 17 lbs!!!! I know I have been stress eating too...At this rate I will have so much to lose when it's all over...

To add to how great I feel with all this weight gain I've been constipated to the point where my abdomen hurts to the touch and it's hard to eat. My doctor recommended milk of magnesia. I took it and haven't had "luck" but now my stomach pain is worse. I feel bloated and my stomach hurts all the time. Any advice?
Re: Gaining weight, constipation, miserable
I have - prior to pregnancy- intermitten consipation then Ill have a ton of diarhea and then itll start all over again. From all my tests it came down to diet. I wasnt getting enough fiber in my diet. I started nutriblasts with the nutribullet and then Ill add coconut oil to it which they say is great for pregnancy and constipation. fiber pills from metamucil if im not in the mood to have a smoothie. For your issue right now I would go buy something called a Fleet enema. I know it sounds gross but trust me. You may be so backed up that your poop is dry from being in there and alot of other reasons and may need to be kinda unstuck. Especially if milk of magnesia isnt helping. This enema can be bought at cvs wallgreens and is usually on the bottom shelf of the fiber constipation aisle .
Aain I know this sounds weird but it will definitely help. I would also say from reading your post about 6 lbs or more of your gain may be stool.