Hey ya'll ok so today is my 3rd day on my OPK and I swear I see a faint line on my test strip. FF says that I will ovulate on Saturday. I read some where that we should only BD every other day (to conserve sperm) but I read some where else that we should BD every day when in my fertile window. I am so confused!
Faint like on an OPK is not a positive. The second line has to be as dark or darker than the control line. When you get the that then you should ovulate within the next 12-24 hours I believe. Unless your partner has sperm issues EOD is fine leading up to ovulation. If you want to make sure you hit the bullseye you can go every day for a few days once you get your positive OPK. Sperm can live for days in you so as long as you get one day in right before o you are good. With all that said, at our ages I believe we only have a 10% chance of conceiving each month. So even with perfect timing your chance of conceiving is small. I know it's not encouraging but unfortunately it's true so finding a good RE is key after 6 months.
Re: 1st week of OPK (BD TMI)
Unless your partner has sperm issues EOD is fine leading up to ovulation. If you want to make sure you hit the bullseye you can go every day for a few days once you get your positive OPK.
Sperm can live for days in you so as long as you get one day in right before o you are good.
With all that said, at our ages I believe we only have a 10% chance of conceiving each month. So even with perfect timing your chance of conceiving is small.
I know it's not encouraging but unfortunately it's true so finding a good RE is key after 6 months.
Me:39, DH:40
DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04
TTC#3
NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13
Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks
CP 2/14
All welcome