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How bad would it be, really...

ILoveErichILoveErich
in TTC After a Loss

..to not go out of our way to TTA before my first AF after a D&C? I know this gets asked a lot, but it's the kind of thing that didn't apply to me with the first loss, so I didn't pay attention.

Physically, I'm feeling really good since my D&C two weeks ago. DH and I hate condoms, and I feel like if my body is not ready to get KU again, it won't. I plan on asking my doctor at my follow-up next week just how important it is to TTA, but I was just wondering if anyone here had any ideas.

Thanks!

PS: I miss you girls. I'm feeling pretty adrift lately... :

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Re: How bad would it be, really...

  • MrsGhappilyeverafterMrsGhappilyeverafter
    I had the same frame of mind after my D&C that if my body wasn't ready then it wouldn't get pg.  So we didn't TTA and I didn't get pg anyway. 
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  • Tonya_GTonya_G member
    **throws you a life preserver and reels you back to the TTCAL boat** Dont' be adrift- you know we're here! I truly believe, your body wont' get pregnant until it is ready to. So if it's meant for you to get pg after your D&C, you will. I know the reason many dr's want you to wait is so you can date the pregnancy- but if you chart, and your body gets back to normal and you can pin point when you O, it wouldn't be all that bad!
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  • Grk_NatashaGrk_Natasha member
    We didn't TTA after my first D&C either. If it happens, then it was meant to be.
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  • melisb25melisb25
    I thought the same thing after my D&C but decided to follow the dr's orders. I'm sure like the PP said, it will happen if is meant to. Good luck!
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  • ILoveErichILoveErich
    Thank you all for your input! Pretty much confirms my thoughts. I don't expect to get KU soon anyway, but if I do, yay!
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  • vera1127vera1127 member
    I was told to wait 2 months, but I decided to only wait 1. I did think that my body just needed to heal. It had been going crazy with hormones with the pregnancy and then all of a sudden the pregnancy is gone, my hormones are going nuts, and my uterus has had things done to it that had never been done before. I just felt like my body needed a break even though emotionally I wanted a baby more than ever. So to compromise I did wait the one month, but started TTC right away anyway. I ended up having to wait the two cycles because I haven't ovulated yet! GL!
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