So this will be my first newborn, I have a 5 year old daughter, but she is my boyfriends from a previous relationship and I came into her life when she was 3!
So I'm excited/scared/anxious about having one of my own!
I'm just trying to get ideas on what we should get first, what kinds of things we absolutely need.
We are on a bit of a budget and aren't getting much from family or friends so we want to get what we need before we go all out on the fun stuff!
I'm thinking;
- Crib (mattress, sheets etc..)
- Car seat
- Stroller
- Bathtub
- Clothes
- Blankets
And obvi diapers and wipes!
I know that's not nearly half of the things we need, but is there anything else I need first and foremost??
Any suggestions or advice is helpful!
Re: Buying stuff for baby help/advice!
Also I would add items that are not obvious. For instance laundry detergent...you'll be cleaning up lots stained baby clothes. Also items that you grocery shop for; so you don't have worry about going out unless you got help.
As STM I registered at babies r us. Not because I'm expecting a shower but I wanted that completion discount. Yet they changed the rules and now giving you cash back rewards for buying things off your registry. So since this time we will be purchasing most of the stuff on our own it's a great way to get cash back.
Good luck!
I also recommend looking to consignment sales. Just Between Friends is a national one that has regular sales all over the country and you can get things super cheap. Like $2 outfits and a $10 high chair.
A swing is nice but not necessary. I'm getting the Fisher Price one with the removable seat so I can leave the base in the master bedroom and carry the seat around the house to do chores. The one I want is on sale at Toys R Us for about $160.
You might not need one but a swaddling blanket saved me so much heartache with my son. He was always relaxed and calm when swaddled. If you like you should get the thinner muslin fabric ones since you're due in May and it will be pretty warm. I've seen them at TJMaxx for 3/$14 in a pack. Or sometimes the hospital will let you take one home for free. Those are pretty perfect but definitely not as cute.
I hope this helps.