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I'm more prone to feeling angry at my spouse...do anyone else feel this way?

keeyapeacheskeeyapeaches member
in October 2015 Moms
Hi, I'm 7wks and a day pregnant. I discovered my new baby bump at 5wks but my attitude toward my spouse has changed drastically. Everything he does, I find horrible and down right awful. I complain a lot and blame him for a lot of things too. Is this normal cause I'm seeing myself as a monster to him and this is our first pregnancy. Help
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  • keeyapeacheskeeyapeaches member
    Thank you so much. I thought I was the only one. And I must admit. My sex drive has disappeared too. I'm hoping by the 2nd trimester everything will get better
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  • waggy90210waggy90210 member
    Totally want to strangle him. This is my first pregnancy and a big surprise to both of us...all of a sudden all of these changes I have to make and he just continues to do the same thing. It's like do as I say do not as I do. I am only on week 7. This is gonna be a long 40 weeks.
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  • bauerkjbauerkj member
    edited March 2015
    I'm right there with you ladies. My post pardum was worse with my first child than now but this first trimester is more hormonal than ever. I cry and get pissed at him for petty things...same goes with some coworkers and our dogs. Oh and extremely low libido.
    Kathy B.
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  • jessforseejessforsee member
    I'm happy I'm not the only one feeling this way either! My sex drive has completely disappeared! And sometimes I'm so mean to my husband that then I have this big emotional breakdown thinking he is gonna hate me or hate having a baby. Even though I know that is so not true. But I just have been awful :(
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  • FirstTimeMamaArickaFirstTimeMamaAricka member
    I have been quite irritable and it is quite new to me as this is my first as well. Thankfully even when I am unable to control the hormonal attitude my boyfriend has been very kind and understanding about all of it. though he has gone through it before with his ex wife.
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  • sallyg85sallyg85 member
    Completely normal hun..they have no idea what we have to go through..when I talk to my husband about how I'm feeling. ..All I get is 'oh'. How annoying. Sometimes i even argue with him when he's not here...its like I'm preparing for it when he comes home. He only has to breathe for me to snap at him lol
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  • rhiannonbacarhiannonbaca member
    I have the same problem, except it's with my coworker! We sit in a small office and it's just us two (all my other coworkers share different offices) and everything she does drives me crazy!! She chews with her mouth open, she chomps on nuts all day, she is loud, I can't stand it! We normally get along great and I do my best to hide my annoyance but working with someone 40+ hours a week in a small office is torture for me right now.
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  • Clorette2Clorette2 member
    This is my second pregnancy and I started hating my spouse a lot sooner this time then last lol. I think it's because I already know what's coming.
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  • KayleeandryanKayleeandryan member
    My hubby isn't annoying me as much as our roommate and my own son :( I feel guilty but he's 5 and insists on being the center of my attention always!
    Hubby has been making me cry a lot though. Things I used to just kinda get angry with him for now just make me cry.
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  • KCreech12KCreech12 member
    I am the same way everything he does irritates me! And sometimes I just blow off the handle!! Then I feel horrible about it
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  • yoopermom824yoopermom824 member
    DH made these nasty-ass raspberry vinaigrette pork chops and the whole house REEKED of them. Meanwhile I'm about to vomit from life in general and then I smell those things. He even assumed I'd want one... yeahhhh, no way.
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  • Rikki_5Rikki_5 member
    edited March 2015

    Im so annoyed with my husband right now.  He bickers with me about stupid stuff and it drives me crazy.  Then I tell him today I’m nervous about the first ultrasound and he says why would you be worried about that? I’m more worried about being a parent like it doesn’t even matter.  So annoyed.  Last night I was getting a bad coughing attack and he was laughing at me saying it was funny.  He thought I was faking it.  I feel like crying.  It’s weird too because usually he is very sensitive towards me, it’s like he doesn’t even care that I’m going through all these changes.  When I get home tonight I’m not even going to talk to him.

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  • toshaleanntoshaleann member
    YES! Thank goodness. I'm pregnant with my first, this is his third. My biggest fear was that he wasn't going to understand every woman is different. I have blown up on him about absolutely anything and everything. If he doesn't look at me the right way, I cry. I'm leaving for can cun in a week and his main concern is about attending his old high schools basketball game instead of spending time with me and says I can either go or not, but he's going. Next week is so crazy already, so of course I want to spend time with my man before I leave him like a free puppy for a whole week. And get this ladies, according to him we choose when to be in a good mood or a bad mood........
    Lord give me strength lol
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  • ShaquilaStewartShaquilaStewart member
    I feel like divorcing my husband right now on the spot ! He is the biggest wanker on earth ! All he does is stress me out sometimes he's perfect other days he's a dog ! He's gone outside to smoke and I feel like locking him out there in the rain X(
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  • abyronjabyronj member
    I am the same way with my hubby!! I feel so bad after the fact! It seems like everything he does just worries the shit out of me!! Hopefully this will pass...I feel like a terrible wife at times!
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  • juestejueste member
    Wow , I'm not alone , I find myself arguing with my OH and he's not even home from work , I'm having a full conversation with myself and then I ignore him when he gets home im only 7 weeks , God help me and him xxx
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  • Knottie98842384Knottie98842384 member
    I hate my DH right now. The thought of him makes me angry. He'll be home soon and that makes me angry. Literally the sound of him putting on his belt this morning made me want to take it and beat him with it. So I told him he needs to get dressed in the bathroom from now on. And in my head, all of these feelings are completely rational. Poor guy.
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  • ShaquilaStewartShaquilaStewart member
    After I had that little rant on here , my husband bought me up a cup of decaf tea and said ' please don't be angry with me , please , I've bought you tea just how u like ' I heard the plea in his voice and obviously started bawling my eyes out ! Then we cuddled . I no longer feel like locking him outside in the rain . I feel sorry for our men ! We are crazy !
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  • Baby&AshBaby&Ash member
    I have been totally fine with my partner until I woke up this morning to go in the living room to him playing his stupid X box (which he does every morning and has never bothered me before) half and hour I sat there after he had said I'll turn it off now for him to still be playing it I just want to rip his X box out and smash it!
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  • sbeltresbeltre member
    I've been snapping more than usual and I apologize. And I've had no patience with our toddler. But I'm getting better! And as for sex drive I have absolutely none!!!!!! It could be because I've been sick for weeks. But I don't want to "get it on" if I feel like I'm going to vomit lol
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  • ImanganImangan member
    My poor husband just has to look the wrong way and I'll snap his head off :-/ I go from zero to "your breathing is annoying me" in about 4 seconds. I'm either angry at him for breathing to loud, for not having to make any adjustments to his life (while I feel like my life right now is just to be an incubator) from feeling terribly guilty for being a bad wife and a miserable bitch! 10 weeks gone, Hoping the hormones calm down soon before I have a nervous breakdown.
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  • ImanganImangan member
    ShaquilaStewart said:

    After I had that little rant on here , my husband bought me up a cup of decaf tea and said ' please don't be angry with me , please , I've bought you tea just how u like ' I heard the plea in his voice and obviously started bawling my eyes out ! Then we cuddled . I no longer feel like locking him outside in the rain . I feel sorry for our men ! We are crazy !

    This made me laugh so hard!!! " I no longer feel like locking him outside :-) " thank god for this site and the honesty we can share I would crack Up otherwise :-)
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  • mamahall1519mamahall1519 member
    @Knottie98842384 I just laughed so hard! Hope it's been a little better.

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  • mamahall1519mamahall1519 member
    Today I am 7 weeks and 1 day. A few weeks prior to finding out we were expecting I noticed I was very emotional and very angry towards my husband. Any and every little thing sets me off. I do a 360 in 5 minutes. Laughing one minute, yelling the next, crying, and then apologizing. On Tuesday morning I was getting ready for work and I could not find my sweater so as I was looking for it. All I heard was my hubby snoring and I felt as though it was right in my ear!!!! It was like he was boring into an amplifier I SNAPPED and started crying, "why do you have to snore so loud, I just want my sweater." It woke him up and I felt terrible. :) When I feel mad and I'm just not having it I warn him and just let him know, I'm very irritable so just give me a few minutes. It's working out. :)
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  • ImanganImangan member
    So this morning I get up and can hear noise downstairs...... Very hopeful that DH is cleaning..... Open the kitchen door pots and dishes everywhere from last nights dinner, and an empty beer bottle DH greets me with delight because he is "busy" cleaning the car !!!!!!!!!!!!!

    FFS!!! THE CAR?!? What about the kitchen- that's right in front of you, that is clearly messy ??????


    God help me and him... So angry I have gone back to bed to calm down
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