My IPs are in Europe and won't be here until June. I need some ideas of things to do to make them feel involved. I send a weekly email update with a photo, and a photo whenever we are doing something fun or I think about it. What do your surrogates/carriers do for you?
Mommy to 5, 1st time Gestational Carrier Transfers #1-4 2013/2014 all same DE, all CP Transfer #5 11/16/14, new DE, transferred two fresh 5-day blasts Beta 9dp5dt - 296 Beta 15dp5dt - 6,596! TWINS!! due 8/4/15 Admitted to hospital for preterm labor and 5cm dilated at 32 + 6 Delivered healthy baby girls vaginally at 36 + 4 Baby A 6lb10oz born at 11:58pm Baby B 6lb11oz born at 12:04am (different birthdays!)
We texted a lot with our GC from day one. She sent us pix & then video when DD started moving around. Just keep the lines of communication open. Our GC always referred to baby as our little girl too.
@CinciSurro that must be tough. Our Surro is a close family friend and doesn't live far away, so I am fortunate that I get to attend all of her doctor appointments. We text a few times a week and talk maybe every week or so and we have been at each other's family celebrations.
Failed Matches - December 2012, May 2013, December 2013
Moved on to gestational surrogacy with a family friend who is our angel and due 7/23/15
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