Pretty sure I'm miscarrying :(

juneandboo · February 2015

I'm heartbroken. I'm 6w3d, and last night I started to get mild to medium cramps. I was spotting a bit. As the cramps got worse, the bleeding picked up a lot Still bleeding this morning, although a little less so. Had bloodwork done today to check hcg levels, and going for an ultrasound tomorrow. It's not looking promising at all, and my hopes are certainly not up. This is the hardest, most gut-wrenching 24 hours I've ever experienced. Seeing that bright red blood last night, my stomach just dropped. Your prayers and words are appreciated

Amazing450 · February 2015

So sorry. I am hoping for the best and feel your pain.

Cissce1313 · February 2015

Lots of prayers and sometimes there is bleeding. Wait to see what happens.

jkssmith696 · February 2015

Oh no ! It's never a good feeling seeing blood. I am in a similar situation, I've had brown spotting for two days now. I'm going for more blood work tomorrow. As hard as it is try and stay positive my sister is 30 weeks pregnant, when she was 8 wks she started bleeding and it turned out to be a hemorage. I can't remember the exact medical term but the baby ended up being fine. You just never know ! Good luck tomorrow, I'll be praying for you !

guerrerotwin · February 2015

I too started spotting and cramping did increased at 6wks, this is normal. I'm staying positive for you. Prayers are going your way.

hldubble · February 2015

I'll say a prayer for you! Hang in there

KBass85 · February 2015

Praying for you and hoping you get good news!

BabyRolls · February 2015

@juneandboo‌ I experienced a chemical pregnancy last summer at 5 weeks. It's heartbreaking. Seeing that blood made me feel so helpless and upset. Get some rest and feel better. Thinking of you.

ohyeeesi · February 2015

I'm so sorry

praying everything goes good!

@BabyRolls‌ when and how did you find out you were experiencing a chemical pregnancy? If you don't mind me asking

MamaOwl15 · February 2015

I had a miscarriage on September. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

DeidreHarr · February 2015

This is also my first pregnancy... And 2 days ago at 7w 2d, I went to the restroom and saw blood, red blood! I panicked and called my mom, which in turn called 911. Long story short, get to the hospital they do blood and urine test, levels were still good and high... Did u/s and baby was good, heart beating 157 bpm, however I have a low lying placenta which he thinks may have caused the bleeding. I go to my first OB appt tomorrow, so she'll be able to shed more light. However, don't you dare give up! I almost did in that ER until my husband said... "Mustard seed faith"!! God bless you and your unborn child. Keep the faith.

juneandboo · February 2015

DeidreHarr, how long were you bleeding and how much? I'm still bleeding today, but it has tapered off a little. It's consistent but light. Last night was pretty heavy bleeding though.

juneandboo · February 2015

Honestly, thank you everyone for your kind words. I'll keep you guys posted when we see the doc tomorrow. This has been an insane 24 hours....<3

The good news -- we got preggo the very first month we were TTC, so I'm hopeful that we'd be able to give it another shot without much "time off." Also good -- I was one of those ladies that was excited but also feeling some uneasiness about how I'd adjust my career/life to have a child. This experience has shown me where my priorities really do stand, and I think that if it does end in a miscarriage as I suspect it already has, I know my heart is in it 100% now.

last14real · February 2015

Sending thoughts and prayers your way!

ChristyD6 · February 2015

Big hugs!

StefH1973 · February 2015

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I went through the same thing at about 6 weeks for my last 2 pregnancies, and was diagnosed with unexplained infertility, but against all odds, i am at 7 weeks this time. Please don't give up hope.

BabyRolls · February 2015

@ohyeeesi‌ I had a positive pregnancy test at 3 weeks. 2 weeks later I woke up just not feeling right. Started bleeding like a period times 1000. It was awful. Went to the doctor 3 days straight to have my levels tested and be examined and it was confirmed.

MrsJohnston&Labradors · February 2015

I'm so sorry you're going through this, like others I've heard of low placentas causing bleeds where the baby was okay. Regardless, we're here to support you no matter what<3 you're in my thoughts and prayers

cderitz · February 2015

My heart is breaking for you. I went through that last October at 6 weeks and miscarried. Had that feeling. I had light bleeding over a weekend that started to turn lightly red by a Monday. Darker bleeding by Wednesday then prompted me to call the doc. An ultrasound at that time did not show anything but bloodwork showed I was pregnant. The following day I miscarried. It was so hard. The only thing I will say though is that not all bleeding is due to a miscarriage! Rest up, see your doc and know we are all here for you. Wishing you the best!

marylynn07 · February 2015

I'm so sorry. I'll keep you in my thoughts and hope you get good news.

xcitdmomma · February 2015

Any update? FXFY! Don't give up hope yet!

KelleyLR · February 2015

Praying for you! I'm going through something similar and am at the ER as I write this.

JustHyr · February 2015

Sending Prayers!

michellelynn6 · February 2015

Thinking of you today! I hope everything turns out.

DeidreHarr · February 2015

So sorry about the outcome! Will keep you in my prayers.

juneandboo · February 2015

Hi ladies, I posted a separate thing here today, but just to confirm -- we went for an ultrasound, but already knew the outcome. It's so hard and helpless to realize how things changed in the blink of an eye. We told our parents the news today. It's been very hard emotionally, mentally and physically -- more than I ever imagined. Even at 6 1/2 weeks, I felt a bond with the little baby growing inside me that I didn't know was possible. Doc says to wait a cycle, then to start trying with the next cycle. For now, I'm just trying to breathe and figure out a way to find some peace. This group has been a blessing, and it's a been an emotional 6 1/2 weeks that I'll always remember. Best wishes to all of you

jenniferh2015 · February 2015

Sooo sorry my prayers are with you

mjhut · February 2015

Sorry for your loss. Prayers to ease your pain.

lauralise81 · February 2015

I can totally empathize as I had a miscarriage in October at 6 weeks. We too got pregnant after only one month of trying. After giving my body the rest of two full cycles I got pregnant again in January. I just had a scan at 6.5 weeks last week and the baby looks great. Miscarriages, especially so early are really common. The next bit of time will be tough but here are my suggestions and what helped me get through: treat yourself to some nice things (i.e. a massage, new dress, etc). Also remember that 1 in 3 pregnancies end in miscarriage but from what I am told, two consecutive ones are not very common. Next time will work and next time will be soon. Good luck to you!

juneandboo · February 2015

Thank you Lauralise81. It almost felt too perfect to get pregnant right away. I really relate to your experience and your words, and wish you the best. We'll be trying again as soon as we're able, and focusing on healing in the meantime. I bought some yellow flowers to plant around a tree in our front yard as a sort of way to honor this experience.

Synnovus · February 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss

lauralise81 · February 2015

That's a really beautiful way to honor the experience. I know some people have mixed feelings about these words, but it made me feel better knowing I could get pregnant. I think our bodies just get kind of confused the first time and then make up for it the next time around. Be kind to yourself and take it easy.