Shower for a second baby

Re: Shower for a second baby

• FemShep member

  February 2015

  You don't need to attend or send a gift, just be sure to RSVP that you're not able to attend.

  

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• KonaCoffeeBean member

  February 2015

  Send a gift if you would have purchased a gift regardless of the shower. My best friend recently had her second, and I gave a gift, but it's not something I would do for second-time parent who I had a less close relationship with.

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• sschwege member

  February 2015

  I wouldn't send a gift and I wouldn't feel bad about it.
  

  
  
  
  
  
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• VOR member

  February 2015

  If you wouldn't have given her a gift otherwise, no, you don't need to give her a gift now - just because you were invited to her shower.
  

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• gypsea1109 member

  March 2015

  If I can't attend an event, I usually don't send a gift. However, if it's a family member or a very close friend, I might send a gift...but I'd never miss their events either, so I have not run into that problem. 
  
  I'd just RSVP that you aren't going to make it...no biggie. If she isn't someone you'd invite to your Shower, why buy and send something for hers? (It sounds like you aren't close like that!)

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• michellersayer member

  March 2015

  having a shower for a second baby isn't even normal. so no. don't feel bad.

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