Hello! My name is allie and my husband is in the Army. He was stationed in Virginia through out our whole relationship and I live in Georgia. We saw each other every other weekend or once a month. When he re-signed, he chose to go to Hawaii, I wasn't thrilled but still supported him. We weren't married when he left. We spoke about it b it were still young and I only had a few semesters left of school so we chose to wait until I graduated. The day I took him to the airport to leave, I knew I had the worst feeling, like I need to go with him. Come to find ouT, I was 8 weeks pregnant and we had no idea. I went out there not even a month after he left and we decided to get married. He hasn't got orders yet, but we're positive he's deploying in June so I came back home and he's out there. were not sure if he will be home for the birth and it's just so hard on both of us. He has never deployed and I've never experienced it either. He's especially depressed bc he's alone and I have my family and his family when I see them. I don't know how to cheer him up when I'm upset too. Any advice for anyone going through something similar?