Hi! Just wondering if there is a Facebook group for June 2015 Mommas?? A couple of my friends joined groups and are still in touch with the moms 2 years later!
Not really 100% sure, I wasn't in the fb group. It was either a catfish or someone from the fb group coming onto TB and talking shit about fb group, or some other such nonsense.
It was closed to new members when TB drama went down. We didn't want any of the people who left here or were banned to join just because they got kicked out of here! No drama in the group itself.
Baby 1 - November 2009 *loss* - March 2010 Baby 2 - January 2011 Baby 3 - June 2015 Baby 4 - April 2017 Baby 5 - May 2019
Maybe there are multiple groups? I'm not a part of the one @mommyof3tooooobe is apparently in (or any other, for that matter) so, for all I know, what she's saying could be true. But I remember the catfish thing that @finchfeeder80 is talking about. That caused a HUGE blow up on here.
Yeah, that's not true. So not true. I hate to call you a liar, but...you're lying, @mommyof3tooooobe.
Um, no? Lol
There was a person on TB who tried to cause drama from the FB group but she was cut quickly and didn't actually do anyone any harm. She just wanted to fit in with TB meanies.
Baby 1 - November 2009 *loss* - March 2010 Baby 2 - January 2011 Baby 3 - June 2015 Baby 4 - April 2017 Baby 5 - May 2019
Yeah, that's not true. So not true. I hate to call you a liar, but...you're lying, @mommyof3tooooobe.
Um, no? Lol
There was a person on TB who tried to cause drama from the FB group but she was cut quickly and didn't actually do anyone any harm. She just wanted to fit in with TB meanies.
Actually she made a HUGE deal here when you guys were on FB. I remember her. Was she a catfish??? She was active here and said the FB group was only for bashing us that stayed on TB.
And also whoever @acbdefg is, you apparently keep tabs and read a post you had to comment on. What was it? Did you get banned or did you GBCB? I have no personal connection here but that's just kind of obvious.
This is what happens when Facebook is even mentioned. No way am I giving out my personal info. Unfortunately, for every wonderful bumpy, there is a nasty one. There are some that have even stolen identities, pretended to raise funds for bumpies in need and kept it, etc. I ain't got time for dat!! I was sad to never join my O13 board but I just won't give out my full name.
Franco Paul born 6/4/15 at 39 weeks. Mila Francesca born 10/19/13 at 37 weeks. Both born via C-Section after 6 years of fertility treatments, disappointments and losses. Love them!!
I'm part of the Facebook group, and we closed it to new members when the drama with the bump went down. Yes, part of it was because of someone who was a member of both that mistakenly mentioned that Facebook people were bashing the bump, which we weren't. Everyone who is a part of the Facebook group is supportive, and there is zero drama. Just support. No one has asked us for money or done anything I'm uncomfortable with. And with my privacy settings, none of them can see my pictures, walls of personal information.
I'm part of the Facebook group, and we closed it to new members when the drama with the bump went down. Yes, part of it was because of someone who was a member of both that mistakenly mentioned that Facebook people were bashing the bump, which we weren't. Everyone who is a part of the Facebook group is supportive, and there is zero drama. Just support. No one has asked us for money or done anything I'm uncomfortable with. And with my privacy settings, none of them can see my pictures, walls of personal information.
This. All of this.
Me (29)DH (29)ODS (8/07)DS (6/09) And adding a team green baby via rc/s 6/1/15
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
Actually I don't know who she is... so there's that. I also made no point of keeping who I was secret. I like to think I'm way smarter than to keep my signature line and avatar if I truly wanted to be incognito. It's just ridiculous that it was okay to be lurker previously because people were scared of the mean girls but now if someone is lurking it's BECAUSE they are mean girl? and it's thought of as bad (or common sense, as you put, that she should banned for lurking?) Please, give me a break lady.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
I'm more than a little horrified here - it's not like she was trolling the boards, she just expressed an opinion that one user's characterization of something that happened a while back wasn't accurate with her recollection. I agree that it was pretty clear that she had left TB and rejoined with a new username but you have no idea under what circumstances she previously left (maybe she was banned, maybe she left of her own volition but wanted to see if things had gotten better around here and decided to rejoin) - there are a number of possibilities. You have been here long enough to know that TB admins are banhammer happy and really not interested in using any modicum of common sense when deciding who to ban so WHY would you report someone who posted such a benign comment? Not cool, man.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
I'm more than a little horrified here - it's not like she was trolling the boards, she just expressed an opinion that one user's characterization of something that happened a while back wasn't accurate with her recollection. I agree that it was pretty clear that she had left TB and rejoined with a new username but you have no idea under what circumstances she previously left (maybe she was banned, maybe she left of her own volition but wanted to see if things had gotten better around here and decided to rejoin) - there are a number of possibilities. You have been here long enough to know that TB admins are banhammer happy and really not interested in using any modicum of common sense when deciding who to ban so WHY would you report someone who posted such a benign comment? Not cool, man.
This. You reported someone and got them banned @devyns2nd just because you thought it needed pointing out? What was your reasoning? That's laughable.
So because I called her out I reported her?!?! Umm no! What's laughable is that she hasn't made a single comment on a single thread until she wanted to call someone a liar. If she or anyone else wants to come here and call us liars when all they do is "lurk" then yes it's a problem. If anyone wants to get butthurt over something like that I could care less. If she had been involved in day to day conversation or even posted a few supportive words no one would care if she popped up again. She hasn't though and if she wants to cause problems there's no need for her here. Anyone who isn't offended by a person coming here just to call out a person who is involved and does contribute to our CURRENT community horrifys me! She has no business here if she isn't going to contribute more than a smart ass comment.
...like I said I didn't have to report her. She made her own bed. If anyone doesn't like what I have to say when defending someone who wasn't in the wrong then you can get over it. Also, if you want to accuse me of reporting her when I didn't then GO AHEAD.
So because I called her out I reported her?!?! Umm no! What's laughable is that she hasn't made a single comment on a single thread until she wanted to call someone a liar. If she or anyone else wants to come here and call us liars when all they do is "lurk" then yes it's a problem. If anyone wants to get butthurt over something like that I could care less. If she had been involved in day to day conversation or even posted a few supportive words no one would care if she popped up again. She hasn't though and if she wants to cause problems there's no need for her here. Anyone who isn't offended by a person coming here just to call out a person who is involved and does contribute to our CURRENT community horrifys me! She has no business here if she isn't going to contribute more than a smart ass comment.
...like I said I didn't have to report her. She made her own bed. If anyone doesn't like what I have to say when defending someone who wasn't in the wrong then you can get over it. Also, if you want to accuse me of reporting her when I didn't then GO AHEAD.
You call this place a community?? Haha!! The community left a long time ago.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
I'm more than a little horrified here - it's not like she was trolling the boards, she just expressed an opinion that one user's characterization of something that happened a while back wasn't accurate with her recollection. I agree that it was pretty clear that she had left TB and rejoined with a new username but you have no idea under what circumstances she previously left (maybe she was banned, maybe she left of her own volition but wanted to see if things had gotten better around here and decided to rejoin) - there are a number of possibilities. You have been here long enough to know that TB admins are banhammer happy and really not interested in using any modicum of common sense when deciding who to ban so WHY would you report someone who posted such a benign comment? Not cool, man.
This. You reported someone and got them banned @devyns2nd just because you thought it needed pointing out? What was your reasoning? That's laughable.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
Did @acbdefg really get banned because of this thread?... WTFG professional mods if that's the case.... never heard of something so asinine.
She was probably banned for making a "secret" profile. That is against TOU!!
Let me guess... you reported that as a TOU violation? I reset my account and changed my name during the course of everything (you know, because I didn't want all my pics to be property of TB, nor have them benefit from all the wisdom i provided before they went all shitty (ha), and because for Internet safety when we had some catfish and holy-liars-batman), what makes you think hers was "secret" anything?
Yeah sure I reported her or, it was obvious she was lurking and waiting for the right drama to get involved in. I wouldn't have to report her. That's just common sense. People are getting banned for stirring the pot. I will probably get banned after this. It's also clear that people who hated the "new" bump and either got banned or deleted their accounts still lurk incognito. We know that. We know who you are. Your picture is the same. You didn't sit back and wait for something you didn't like to be said so no one has had a reason to say anything to you. So just because you may know her or you may think she a vet and can do whatever she wants dont blame me for her getting banned. I could care less who does what. I just happened to point her out and someone picked up on it as well.
You said you reported her.
Actually no I didn't! If you read it again you can see I was being sarcastic! I even said that I didn't need to report her in other places. I made it clear that I didn't have to report someone else picked up on what she was doing.
So because I called her out I reported her?!?! Umm no! What's laughable is that she hasn't made a single comment on a single thread until she wanted to call someone a liar. If she or anyone else wants to come here and call us liars when all they do is "lurk" then yes it's a problem. If anyone wants to get butthurt over something like that I could care less. If she had been involved in day to day conversation or even posted a few supportive words no one would care if she popped up again. She hasn't though and if she wants to cause problems there's no need for her here. Anyone who isn't offended by a person coming here just to call out a person who is involved and does contribute to our CURRENT community horrifys me! She has no business here if she isn't going to contribute more than a smart ass comment.
...like I said I didn't have to report her. She made her own bed. If anyone doesn't like what I have to say when defending someone who wasn't in the wrong then you can get over it. Also, if you want to accuse me of reporting her when I didn't then GO AHEAD.
You call this place a community?? Haha!! The community left a long time ago.
I call it what it means to me. If you don't agree I can't help that. There are some of us who stayed and still care.
So because I called her out I reported her?!?! Umm no! What's laughable is that she hasn't made a single comment on a single thread until she wanted to call someone a liar. If she or anyone else wants to come here and call us liars when all they do is "lurk" then yes it's a problem. If anyone wants to get butthurt over something like that I could care less. If she had been involved in day to day conversation or even posted a few supportive words no one would care if she popped up again. She hasn't though and if she wants to cause problems there's no need for her here. Anyone who isn't offended by a person coming here just to call out a person who is involved and does contribute to our CURRENT community horrifys me! She has no business here if she isn't going to contribute more than a smart ass comment.
...like I said I didn't have to report her. She made her own bed. If anyone doesn't like what I have to say when defending someone who wasn't in the wrong then you can get over it. Also, if you want to accuse me of reporting her when I didn't then GO AHEAD.
You call this place a community?? Haha!! The community left a long time ago.
Can people just stop whining about the people who left? I don't get why people who are so heart broken about people freely choosing to leave... Either move on or join them in their new community... Hope they found happiness there and maybe you can too.
Re: Facebook group for June 2015??
Baby 1 - November 2009
*loss* - March 2010
Baby 2 - January 2011
Baby 3 - June 2015
Baby 4 - April 2017
Baby 5 - May 2019
There was a person on TB who tried to cause drama from the FB group but she was cut quickly and didn't actually do anyone any harm. She just wanted to fit in with TB meanies.
Baby 1 - November 2009
*loss* - March 2010
Baby 2 - January 2011
Baby 3 - June 2015
Baby 4 - April 2017
Baby 5 - May 2019
I dont have FB so I can't confirm that end.
Franco Paul born 6/4/15 at 39 weeks. Mila Francesca born 10/19/13 at 37 weeks. Both born via C-Section after 6 years of fertility treatments, disappointments and losses. Love them!!
And adding a team green baby via rc/s 6/1/15
...like I said I didn't have to report her. She made her own bed. If anyone doesn't like what I have to say when defending someone who wasn't in the wrong then you can get over it. Also, if you want to accuse me of reporting her when I didn't then GO AHEAD.
Can people just stop whining about the people who left? I don't get why people who are so heart broken about people freely choosing to leave... Either move on or join them in their new community... Hope they found happiness there and maybe you can too.
What happened to her posts, though? Usually they are still there, just with the "User Banned . . ." avatar. Spooooky!