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Just annoyed and need to vent

megewymegewy member
in September 2015 Moms
So here I am puking my brains out, SO is down the street at a neighbors house drinking with the neighbor guys... My daughter has school tomorrow and needs to go to bed and she won't stay in bed so between puking I'm trying to get her to bed ( which she's sleeping in our bed because the painters are painting her room and other areas of the house and haven't gotten to the master yet). I text him to ask him to come help me get her to bed and that I'm throwing up. He tells me 10 mins. He gets here and is upset that he had to come home for nothing because I had just stopping throwing up and got her to lay down. Sorry but when I'm sick I'm sick I can't help it and a little support and help would be nice! AGH!!! I mean is that too much to ask for. I'm ssssoooo sorry I still wasn't puking/dry heaving when he came home. It's not like this sickness has an on off switch!

Ok end rant. Thanks ladies
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Re: Just annoyed and need to vent

  • MiromiMMiromiM member
    Sometimes it's good to just get these things out. I'm sorry you had to go through this and hope you feel better. :)
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  • megewymegewy member
    @MiromiM‌ thanks. I am feeling better now. Haven't gotten sick in about 30 mins! Yay. And thanks for listening/reading.
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  • snikaisnikai member
    Men!! Enough said!! My DH would roll his eyes every time I said my breasts were sore or that I felt nauseous until I got all emotional on him one day and now he is much more sympathetic!
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  • kjs08kjs08 member
    Hope you're feeling better! Next time he's throwing up, he should try to take care of your little one at the same time and see how easy it is to do. 

    I actually told my husband that he should give up alcohol with me lol! I knew he wasn't going to, but it was worth a shot. He's been getting a kick out of some of my symptoms as my stomach talks louder than the tv some nights, but has been very sympathetic to the rest of them. 
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  • jennifer26jennifer26 member
    They will never get what it's like to be pregnant, so frustrating!
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  • JosefinKJosefinK member
    My OH tries very hard, but one thing he just doesn't get is the nausea and food aversions. He thinks I'm just being picky and a drama queen!!
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  • Jamilla9Jamilla9 member
    I'm so sorry! I was in the same boat last week. I had just gotteny son out of the tub and got so nauseous I couldn't even get his clothes on before I threw up. I had to get him to bed and clean myself up. It was rough. Husband was at work.
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  • jenybatsjenybats member

    Oh yeah, so frustrating! I totally get it. My SO hasn't pulled anything like that yet, but then again, I am only 10 weeks lol, he still has 39 to go! 10 minutes for him would be more like 40 though I could just picture it now.

    The situation isn't funny, but I had a good laugh when you said "I'm sooo sorrrrryyyy I wasn't puking/dry heaving when he got home". It's like he was bummed that you were feeling better. Haha, oh MEN! Gotta love 'em.  


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  • rablissfulrablissful member
    edited February 2015
    kjs08 said:

    Hope you're feeling better! Next time he's throwing up, he should try to take care of your little one at the same time and see how easy it is to do. 


    I actually told my husband that he should give up alcohol with me lol! I knew he wasn't going to, but it was worth a shot. He's been getting a kick out of some of my symptoms as my stomach talks louder than the tv some nights, but has been very sympathetic to the rest of them. 
    This! Next time he is any kind of horribly sick (vomiting would be best) hand him the baby and run out the door. He'll understand he was an ass at that point.
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  • mrscate88mrscate88 member
    Sorry he was a butthead, that's super annoying. Typically I'm very prideful and independent so my husband is practically begging for me to give him something to do, and I just always try to do everything myself. There will come a time when I need more help from him, and I can only hope he will be understanding. But for those times that our guys aren't so understanding, we just have to accept our limitations and do what we can, even accept that we just can't rely on them sometimes. Then, after the moment passes and we're not angry anymore, try to tell them how we're feeling and tell them we need more help, especially in these rough first months! Hang in there
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