Okay everyone is telling me I should just a convertible infant car seat.... but you can't take those in and out of the car like you would the regular infant carrier... so my question is, (and maybe it's a dumb question) but if you go to the store, what do you do with your child if they're only in the convertible seat? Carry him/her?
Re: convertible carseats?
People who skip the infant carrier car seat usually wear their babies when out and about. But one thing to consider is that our babies will still be tiny during the winter and it's not safe for babies to wear coats in car seats. Do you really want to be getting baby in and out of a convertible car seat when it's freezing outside? I have an almost 2 year old and I hate getting her into the car, it would be even worse if she were a newborn. With the infant seat, you can strap baby into the car seat in the warm building, cover with a blanket, and easily get baby into the car without worrying about how cold he/she will be.
Married to J since 5/05, Mommy to T (10/08), L (08/10) and C (02/13) who was born at home.
To you original question, a lot of mamas I know really love baby wearing. I wore DD1 in an Ergo carrier and it was pretty convenient. Hands free and who doesn't love baby cuddles? Looking forward to trying other types of baby wearing with this LO.
Pro: you can buy a seat that will work from 5 lbs till they outgrow car seats altogether and that means, unless you're involved in a crash, you're only buying one seat per child. Great if you babywear
Con: you can't just pick up the whole car seat with baby inside and put it on the stroller; you have to get them out of the seat, put them in the Ergo/wrap/etc . . . Possibly waking up a sleeping infant. And what if you also have a toddler?
I have a carrier car seat and base from my son, one of those JJ Cole car seat covers for winter, and I plan to get a double stroller that will fit the carrier. I've thought about this since I'll have two in car seats for a while so buying another convertible seat at some point is inevitable. But for the beginning, I'm glad to have a carrier.
One thing though, if you're on a tight budget, it may be more cost-effective to buy an Ergo or other similar carrier and go ahead with a convertible seat. The carriers only last about 6 months before baby outgrows them. If you're planning on having multiple kids, you can reuse the carrier/travel system, though.
This is not the cheapest way to do things, and most women have much better recoveries than I did, so there may be better options depending on your situation.
https://www.amazon.com/Chicco-Keyfit-Caddy-Stroller-Frame/dp/B005JDOYF0/ref=sr_1_4?s=baby-products&ie=UTF8&qid=1424446955&sr=1-4&keywords=chicco+keyfit+30
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