I have a midwife but my insurance will only cover a hospital delivery. I have hired a doula but I am still nervous about the hospital staff. How do I keep the number of hospital staff to a minimum ans out of my room? Also can I refuse to sign anything other than say billing forms? I just don't trust them and I don't want to sign anything that would compromise my rights. I am so afraid of the hospital staff I am tempted to try to deliver at home but I know my midwife won't come to my house so I'd be stuck with just me and DH. Of this whole experience the only part that I find really terrifying is going to the hospital but I cannot afford an out of pocket birthing center. Help!