DH and I loved cruises prekids. Now we don't have a ton of money for vacations, but we're trying to do a nice one every other year. Almost a year ago the kids had just turned 2 and 4 and we did a cruise. We were on the boat for a week, did 1 day in Disney and 2 in the Bahamas. We had a great time! We're planning on doing Disney summer 2016, the kids will be 4 and 6. I'd really rather do another cruise, but I feel like this will be the perfect time to do Disney with the kids. Just yesterday DD, 4, was saying how much fun the cruise was and when will we go again. I told her we were thinking of going to Disney on our next trip. She seemed excited about sleeping there. I felt we got alot out of Disney on our cruise excursion, but we didn't get to see fireworks or any character experiences and certainly didn't see the whole park. My mom has also been saying for years when ever we go to Disney how much she'd like to come with us. She doesn't do cruises and we go down the shore with my in laws every summer. My parents usually show up for a few days, but we're not staying with them, so this would finally be a vacation she could really be included in. However, although DD likes some of the princesses, she's not a huge princess fan and neither kid is all that big on character experiences. DH feels Disney is just an amusement park and no one can really explain what makes it so great. My inlaws go a few times a year, and they never really do have anything special to say about it. The thought of spending all my vacation waiting on lines does not really appeal to me either.
Should I do Disney because the kids will be at a perfect age and I may regret it if we don't, or the cruise because that's what DH and I would rather do and the kids will enjoy that too.
Re: NWMR: Cruise vs Disney
I will say, it sounds sappy but it was sort of magical with the 5 year old. She was young enough to truly believe that she was meeting the princesses, and the characters, etc. And that only lasts for a short while. I'm assuming that this time, at 8 she will wise up to it all (and am hoping she won't ruin it for her brother).