Hi, mamas,
Did any of you have your older kids at the new baby's birth? Our daughter will be 3 and a month when our second is due, and we're debating whether to include her in our birth experience.
Any advice or stories (good or bad)?
Thanks in advance! :-)
Re: any other siblings present during birth?
I will say, we don't live near family so if our sitter options fall through he may end up being there. My hope is a nurse can keep an eye on him in the waiting room when it comes time for delivery.
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I think if you are having a home birth and have someone there to specifically watch the older sibling, it would probably work out ok. There is absolutely no way that my 3 year old will be in the hospital delivery room with me. First off, I've seen the stuff that lands on the floors in those rooms, and I definitely don't want my 3 year old crawling, rolling, playing, coloring on them. I also completely agree that DH would have his hands full with her. I mean, keeping her in one room for 2 hours is a struggle, 4 hours or 6 hours or 28 hours of labor? No. And if I had to get rushed into a c section or something? DH would have to stay with DD and wouldn't be in the room with me.
DD will be staying with grandparents and may visit after baby is born.
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