April 2015 Moms

Re: HDBD 2/18

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  • 30 Weeks and just had my friend who's a photographer take maternity photos so I had to post :)
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    FTM & TEAM BLUE!!!

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  • 30 week's! Count down is on.
  • Taken on Sunday at 33 weeks
  • Taken on Sunday 33 weeks and 3 days
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  • 33weeks 4 days! Finding it hard to believe my belly can continue to grow!

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  • All your bellies are so small :) Could be Im o baby four so Im HUGE for 32 wks...Wish my pic would load.. grrr congrats ladies
  • All your bellies are so small :) Could be Im o baby four so Im HUGE for 32 wks...Wish my pic would load.. grrr congrats ladies

    People don't really like having their belly size critiqued.

    Reason number 1,647,978,231 that I don't post here anymore.
  • Since most people in the States probably don't know what a durian is (the apparent size of this kid @ 33 wks) ... here ya go! And yes, they DO smell that bad.
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  • Just about 34 weeks! Almost there!
  • 33 weeks in picture, 33 weeks, 2 days today! :-)

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  • All your bellies are so small :) Could be Im o baby four so Im HUGE for 32 wks...Wish my pic would load.. grrr congrats ladies

    People don't really like having their belly size critiqued.

    Reason number 1,647,978,231 that I don't post here anymore.
    Just my opinion :) I dont post much but love seeing all the different shapes and sizes of the baby bumps.
  • All your bellies are so small :) Could be Im o baby four so Im HUGE for 32 wks...Wish my pic would load.. grrr congrats ladies

    People don't really like having their belly size critiqued.

    Reason number 1,647,978,231 that I don't post here anymore.
    Just my opinion :) I dont post much but love seeing all the different shapes and sizes of the baby bumps.
    Well, many people would consider your opinion quite rude.
  • Hmmmmm... ok I guess. Unfortunetly comments like yours not mine are the ones that kinda sound rude. I just thought the baby bumps were cute not like I said "OMG so in so is huuuuge"... but point taken I suppose. My intentions are ALWAYS friendly and good. Sorry if I offened.
  • Hmmmmm... ok I guess. Unfortunetly comments like yours not mine are the ones that kinda sound rude. I just thought the baby bumps were cute not like I said "OMG so in so is huuuuge"... but point taken I suppose. My intentions are ALWAYS friendly and good. Sorry if I offened.

    Yes. Well. Body comparisons are never ok. And it's your opinion that my comment is rude. Judging other people's bodies is, in reality, what's rude.

    But in case that answer isn't good enough for you, imagine someone internally fixating because she's so worried, she hasn't gained as much weight as she thinks she should, and you tell her, "Oh my gosh! Your belly is so small!!!!" Her mind tells her she's doing something wrong, her baby isn't growing enough, and she starts worrying and comparing, afraid she's not taking good enough care of her child.

    Don't compare bodies. Everyone is different. That's a good life rule, not just a good pregnancy rule.
  • Saying "so-and-so is huge" is also not ok, but I think you probably already know that.
  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.
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  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.

    Yawn.

    I forget no one around here remembers what it was like when everyone cared about the other members of the community here. Enjoy your harmless comments, and remember how you think these comments are fine the next time some random in your real life asks you how much weight you've gained and if you're sure there is only one in there.
  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.

    Yawn.

    I forget no one around here remembers what it was like when everyone cared about the other members of the community here. Enjoy your harmless comments, and remember how you think these comments are fine the next time some random in your real life asks you how much weight you've gained and if you're sure there is only one in there.
    I get twin comments all the time and take them with good humor. I honestly forget how cranky some women are. Fyi a small bump doesnt mean an unhealthy pregnancy. My bumps been different all 4 times.
  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.

    It seems like you are inconsiderate.
  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.

    Yawn.

    I forget no one around here remembers what it was like when everyone cared about the other members of the community here. Enjoy your harmless comments, and remember how you think these comments are fine the next time some random in your real life asks you how much weight you've gained and if you're sure there is only one in there.
    I get twin comments all the time and take them with good humor. I honestly forget how cranky some women are. Fyi a small bump doesnt mean an unhealthy pregnancy. My bumps been different all 4 times.
    I don't think being considerate for others makes someone "cranky". To you having a small bump might mean nothing, but not everyone thinks that. Having a small bump CAN indicate that baby isn't growing enough and that there may be an issue. You're not a doctor so don't go telling people false information just because it wasn't the case for you.
  • It seems like you're overreacting. It was a harmless comment.

    Yawn.

    I forget no one around here remembers what it was like when everyone cared about the other members of the community here. Enjoy your harmless comments, and remember how you think these comments are fine the next time some random in your real life asks you how much weight you've gained and if you're sure there is only one in there.
    I get twin comments all the time and take them with good humor. I honestly forget how cranky some women are. Fyi a small bump doesnt mean an unhealthy pregnancy. My bumps been different all 4 times.
    Look at you jumping to conclusions. I never said it did. I'm sorry if my made up, purely explanatory scenario was too complex.

    I honestly forgot how inconsiderate and incapable of accepting minor criticism some women are.

    Again, people used to give a shit around here. It's a shame how shallow this place has become, but at least now someone is logging in often enough to argue with me.
  • This is glorious.
  • Oh go get yourself outside and get a life. She didn't mean any harm!!! 'I never post on here anymore' well off you trot then :D absolute horrors! I don't mind when people tell me my bump is small bump or god you're showing big now! Harmless
  • nicpeylee said:

    Oh go get yourself outside and get a life. She didn't mean any harm!!! 'I never post on here anymore' well off you trot then :D absolute horrors! I don't mind when people tell me my bump is small bump or god you're showing big now! Harmless

    I believe telling people to leave is against the terms of use.

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  • I agree with @frownyface‌. It's rude to comment on a pregnant woman's stomach size, big or small.
  • nicpeyleenicpeylee member
    edited February 2015
  • This is rediculous, if you have a body image issue then don't post photos of yourself. I enjoy reading peoples post and pictures then it because catty bullshit of a harmless comment. Geez ladies, clearly some of you are way to sensitive and have far to much time on your hands.
  • A "harmless" comment to one may not be harmless to everyone. We are all in the end of our pregnancies. We are all hormonal. This should be kept in mind for everyone.
    And it is rude to comment on someone's size, big or small, pregnant or not. This is why people don't ask others their pant size and why we don't discuss weight on here. Common courtesy.
  • This is rediculous, if you have a body image issue then don't post photos of yourself. I enjoy reading peoples post and pictures then it because catty bullshit of a harmless comment. Geez ladies, clearly some of you are way to sensitive and have far to much time on your hands.

    I think I got most of that.

    So, you're a total peach, huh? Glad to know you don't care about others' feelings. That's a nice quality.

    And, I can't help but notice you yourself have plenty of time to log in and cuss at people.

    So...
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    * "...ridiculous. If..."
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