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How long did it take you? (loss mentioned)

adrimolinaadrimolina member
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Hi, I had a MC in October and I just recently started TTC again after a 3 month wait, as advised by my Dr. I just got AF and it feels like such a slap in the face and reminder of what I lost. I wanted to know how long it took you to get PG again after a MC? Thank you and congrats to you all! Praying I can be joining you soon :)

Me: 38 DH: 42.
Married: 9/2008.
4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
12/2010 - DS born.
8/2014-TTC#2 
10/2014 BFP
10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
5/2015 BFP
8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
DOR
Hypothyroidism
MTHFR
DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
AMH .65
8/2016 FET #1 BFN
9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • smcniffsmcniff member
    We started trying again right away. Took 6 months.


    BFP #1 11/02/13, EDD 07/04/14, BO diagnosed 12/12/13 at 9w5d
    BFP #2 6/12/14, DD born 2/21/15

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  • pblgepblge member
    This exact question was just asked a few days ago:
    https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12530078/of-months-ttc-before-and-after-loss#latest
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    ***Losses mentioned.*** TTC #1 since May 2012. Me: 37, OH: 41. Ectopic August 2012 => tubal damage. :'(  Stage 1 endo removed June 2013. IVF #1 Oct/Nov 2013: Long Lupron with Gonal-F. 7R, 7M, 7F. 2 txfer@3d. Nothing frozen.  => M/C @ 8 wks. :'( Selected RPL panel all normal. Very hyper and brittle response to stims. IVF #2 (antagonist protocol) Feb 2014 => Converted to IUI (Perfect conditions). BFN. IVF #2.1 w/ new RE June 2014: Antagonist protocol. 33R, 31M, 30F, 19 blasts to test!!! I made it through without crashing!! :) Hats off to Dr. Fancypants!! ET of one 5AB blast. BFN. 13 10 CCS'ed snowflakes! FET #1 PUPO as of 7/29 Betas: 8/7@24, 8/9@97, 8/11@334 (etc.) Two sacs on 8/15, one seen on 8/18 after a bleed. U/s 8/25 (6+3) "perfect": 5.9 mm + HB@120bpm! U/s 9/4 (7+6): 15.9 mm + HB@172 bpm! Please, PLEASE stick this time!!!!
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  • kaynix21kaynix21 member
    We took a month off (plus I had a ruptured ovarian cyst). My loss was in January I got pregnant in August.

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    TTC: Started May 2012
    Bloodwork - potential ovulation issue which seemed to be fixed by clomid.
    SA - Mot (36%) and count low 9.3 mil (updated) 
    HSG - Oct 16 2013 - came back clear
    Clomid #1 - Nov. 2013 - BFN
    BFP#1 =  Clomid #2, Dec. 2013 - EDD 9.9.14 Loss Jan 9
    Femara #1 + Trigger (2/21) Feb. 2014 +ruptured ovarian cyst - BFN
    SIS clear
    April 2014: 50IU Follistim CD3-CD9 + 25IU CD10-CD13+CD13 trigger 1 mature follie= BFN
    IUI #1: May 2014 50IU Follistim + trigger + IUI = BFN
    IUI #2: June 2014 50IU Follistim + IUI (3 mil sperm)=  BFN
    TI #2: June 2014 50IU Follistim  + Trigger = BFN
    BFP#2 = IUI# 3: Aug 2014 75IU Follistim+ Trigger + IUI (2 mil sperm) EDD May 15

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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
     I did notice the same question had been asked recently but it was too late to delete post. :) Thanks for your responses! Congratulations!! :)

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • Campow83Campow83 member
    My previous loss was in feb.2014, we started trying again after 2 months off and got pregnant 5 months later.
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    @Campow83 Congrats! :) XO

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • RositaRaeRositaRae member
    I had a loss in October and we conceived again beginning of January. So far this pregnancy is going much better *knock on wood*
    Me: 28 DH: 29
    TTC since July 2013
    September 2013 period still hasn't started since getting off BC
    October 2013 OBGYN prescribed 4 months of unmonitored Clomid
    3 Months of Clomid, ovulated once
    Opted to not do 4th cycle without proper testing found new OBGYN
    January 2014 new OBGYN diagnosed me with PCOS ordered ultrasound
    January 2014 Ultrasound found possible uterine septum
    February 2014 MRI confirmed uterine septum, referral to RE
    March 2014 RE scheduled septum removal for late June
    Benched due to possible miscarriages if falling pregnant, back on BC
    June 2014 Septum Removal surgery, hysteroscopy/laparascopy
    Laparascopy revealed mild endometriosis
    Benched until September 2014 for recovery and healing
    October 2014 - First letrozole, HCG trigger, TI cycle, 18mm follie
    November 2014 - BFP - loss at 6 weeks
    January 2015 - Green light to try again 18mm follie, letrozole, HCG trigger 
    January 2015 - BFP - two ultrasounds and strong heartbeat found on Doppler!!!


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  • May14th2011May14th2011 member
    I had a loss in May and didn't get pregnant until December. We tried every month. Very disheartening, but it worked out the best way possible I think.
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    Congrats to all of you ladies and thanks for sharing! Praying I can join you soon :)

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • bebebbbebebb member
    I had a loss in may. I temp and I had 5 anovulatory cycles after my miscarriage. My first ovulatory cycle was January and I got my bfp so it took me 6 months. I'm so very sorry for your loss and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon.
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  • kjanderickakjandericka member
    So sorry for your loss. I know waiting for a BFP after MC is hard. I miscarried in August and my doctor advised us to wait one full cycle to try again. We started trying again in the end of September and I got pregnant in the end of November. The second time around was very similar to the first. It had taken us a little less than 3 months to get pregnant the first time (which ended in the MC) and about 2 months the second. We are expecting our baby boy in August 2015.
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    Congrats to you both of you and best of luck!! Thanks for sharing :)

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • TasWahidTasWahid member
    Hi, I got married in Dec 2013, fell pregnant in Aug 2014... Doctor said she's socked it happened so quickly because I have PCOS...that was the 1st time I've ever heard of PCOS..anyway, I had a miscarriage in October 2014 at 16w5d....the doc that did my D&C said we can start trying immediately or wait as long as we needed to grieve our loss...this time it came sooner than expected...I'm 6+4 :x
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    TasWahid said:
    Hi, I got married in Dec 2013, fell pregnant in Aug 2014... Doctor said she's socked it happened so quickly because I have PCOS...that was the 1st time I've ever heard of PCOS..anyway, I had a miscarriage in October 2014 at 16w5d....the doc that did my D&C said we can start trying immediately or wait as long as we needed to grieve our loss...this time it came sooner than expected...I'm 6+4 :x
    I am so sorry for your loss and Congrats on your rainbow!! XO

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • MerVerMerVer member
    I'm so sorry to hear about the loss! :,( We also had a miscarriage in the beginning of November after trying for over a year. It is not easy and I pray that you and your mate will be comforted and take the time you feel is best for yourselves to heal. After I had a MC we didn't start preventing or stop trying, we just lived our life and took a break from thinking about all of it. But we were surprised when I got a positive test at the beginning of this month (February)! I hope and pray that you do become a mommy in God's perfect timing! <3<3<3
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  • MirandaC1984MirandaC1984 member
    We miscarried in October 2014 as well. We took November off and began "trying" again in December. I got my BFP on Valentine's day! First ultrasound today and I am terrified. We haven't had a positive ultrasound experience yet so I'm a wreck. Good luck to you!
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  • levirogerslevirogers member
    I had a loss in July 2014 at 20 weeks, conceived November 2014...18 weeks right now. Nervous as I dont know what about the upcoming weeks.
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    Thank you ladies so much for sharing and for your kind words, wish you all the best and that you enjoy your pregnancy and have beautiful healthy babies! Hope to join you soon, much love! XO

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • MirandaC1984MirandaC1984 member
    I miscarried on Oct 26 and got my BFP on 2/14. 
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  • gatormom73gatormom73 member
    It took me a little over a year.
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  • angetralalaangetralala member
    Started TTC in December, got pregnant that month, miscarried at 4W5D. Didn't try in Jan, tried in Feb, got preg, miscarried at 4W5D. Didn't mean to try in March, but here I am at 5W2D!
    It's a difficult and lonely road! Just make sure to take care of yourself and your relationship above all else. Hang in there, everyone here has been in your shoes!
    Angela

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  • tpete12tpete12 member
    I miscarried in June 2014 and finally became pregnant again in January 2015.
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  • adrimolinaadrimolina member
    I am on my 6th month after my mc and even though I am trying it is not happening for some reason, but your stories make me happy and hopeful! Thanks for sharing your experiences, it means a lot  XO :)

    Me: 38 DH: 42.
    Married: 9/2008.
    4/2010 - BFP (Natural)
    12/2010 - DS born.
    8/2014-TTC#2 
    10/2014 BFP
    10/2014 Confirmed MC at 5 weeks
    5/2015 BFP
    8/2015 MMC & D&C at 13 weeks  :'(
    11/2015 BFP then CP at 6 weeks.
    3/2016 Started IVF+PGS
    4/2016 ER, only 5 eggs but 3 Frozen embryos made it to freeze. Only 1 PGS normal embryo.
    DOR
    Hypothyroidism
    MTHFR
    DH Sperm with Chromosomal Issues (high % FISH)
    AMH .65
    8/2016 FET #1 BFN
    9/2016 IVF-ER #2  1 normal embryo.
    11/2016 IVF-ER #3  0 Embryos
    2/2017 FET #2 BFP CP at 6 weeks.
    5/2017  BFP Natural. 3 Betas were ok. First US 5-31-2017. Hope it sticks and is healthy!!


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  • CharmndmomCharmndmom member
    We got pregnant on our third month of trying again.
    Me: 33, DH: 32  
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  • yodelaineywhoyodelaineywho member
    We lost at 8wks in November. We conceived almost 5 months later. It can be a mental struggle and then a fearful waiting game. Best of luck to everyone.
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  • CharmndmomCharmndmom member
    Three months.
    Me: 33, DH: 32  
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  • Mrsg305Mrsg305 member
    We had been TTC for 6 months. I lost the first pregancy early August 2014 and didn't start trying again until the end of October. Got pregnant the end of December. I am 39 yrs old.
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  • vera1127vera1127 member
    Lost my first in Oct 2008, was pregnant March 2009 and had my son Nov 2009. Lost another Oct 2014, pregnant April 2015...6w2d now :)
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  • AlainnaMarieBrummertAlainnaMarieBrummert member
    Took us 6 months to conceive again, I am 6weeks 5days. I miscarried just before my ultra sound at 8 weeks last time. I'm a nervous wreck. But finger crossed, it will go smoothly this time around. I wish you all luck! ❤️
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  • MommaBear+MommaBear+ member
    edited April 2015
    Took us 3 months to conceive again. We found out at 12 weeks that the babys heart stopped at 10 weeks. Now we just found out we're prego again, only 4 weeks. Fingers crossed for all of us that things go smoothly this time! ❤️
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