This weekly check-in is for anyone using/considering or who has used a 3rd party method of reproduction, including: Donor egg, donor sperm, embryo adoption, gestation carrier, or surrogate - also Donors, GC's and surrogates are welcome as well! If you don't check-in for 3 weeks you'll be removed from the list but we'll happily add you back next time you check in!
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Check-In: How is it going? What are your next steps? How are you feeling?
QOTW:Do you celebrate Valentine's Day? What will you and your SO be doing this year?
Currently Cycling/Scheduled @refeek1 – DEg – FET in February. GL with your transfer on Feb. 13th!! @Thespis7 – DS – IUI #5. In the dreaded 2WW!! Hang in there.
Waiting to Cycle
@Lacyj67 – DEg – Has AF has shown her ugly face. What has your RE said about everything? I'm so happy to hear the adoption is going well. FX for everything!! @ceemonkey – DEg/DS – Matched gearing up for transfer Late Feb/early March. @Km672 – DEg/DS – on a break while waiting to consult with Dr. KK. @mm29 – DEg/DS – Looking for a new donor.
@chicagobride07 – DEg – FET #4= BFN (((Huge Hugs))) @Jzyla - GL at your RE appt Feb. 20 and GL on your research for cycling overseas. When you have time please share what you have learned.
Love4Labs326– DEm/IP-GS –Welcome back!! Good luck with your new path!
Pregnant! @datingbettyboop – IP-GC – EDD 2/17/15 - It’s a GIRL!! You haven't checked in for a while. Any updates? @1220winterbride – DEg – EDD 5/25/15 - It’s a GIRL!!! @IRR - IP-GC - Feb 13th is just around the corner. I'm so excited to hear what you are having. EDD 7/23/15. @RunCC37 – DEg – EDD 8/4/15. One beautiful little fighter!! Congrats on graduating!! @StephieMK– DS – BFP!! EDD July 17, 2015 - It’s a GIRL!!! @CinciSurro – GC – BFP!! EDD 8/4/15. Twins. Congratulations x2!! @doodiebug18 – DS – Twins!! EDD 08/18/15. @vibeee - DEg - SG’s 3:1 program. BFP! When is your EDD? You haven't checked in for a while. Any updates?
Parenting
@BeckyP005 – DEg – Baby Girl was born 02/3/15! Congratulations!! @DoublePortion – DEm – Boy/Girl twins born on 6/30/14! @e74 – DEm – Twin boys born in 2013! @lincoln79 – IP-GC – Baby Boy Squirt born 10/29/14! @Lacyj67 – DEg – Parenting foster son! Baby g @sammer818 – IP-GC – Baby boy was born 11/21/14! @TRexsMum – IP-GC – Baby Girl was born 01/07/15!
::: Married June 2003::: TTC #1 since: Aug. 2008 Me: 34, DOR, MTHFR-A1298C (heterozygous), decreased blood flow to uterus, Mild Endo DH: 38, Balanced translocation 5&10, unexplained MFI, normal SA and SCSA Tx History: IUI 1&2= BFN IVF# 1 W/ICSI= BFN IVF# 2: cancelled d/t no response IVF# 3= 1 egg retrieved=immature/not viable IVF# 4= c/p ***CCRM ODWU*** Found DHs BT and Me-decreased blood flow to uterus Recommended DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. Decided to cycle locally ***New RE*** DE IVF# 1(cycle #6) w/pgd, (freeze all): 30R, 23M, 15F, slow/poor embryo development, 4 biopsied, 1 Normal "Norm"; DE IVF w/PGD, incorporate electro-acupuncture. IVF# 6: (OE/DS) cancelled IVF# 7: (OE/DS) 1R, 1M, 1F, arrested day 5 Plan-DE IVF# 2 (cycle #8): DE/DS in May 2015
Hi there! We are on for our FET Friday. We probably won't do anything this year for Valentines Day. I hope you all have a great week.
TTC #1 since May 2010
OE IVF #1 9/2/13Cancelled- poor response
DE IVF #1 3/12/14- BFP 3/17/14- ectopic, right tube removed 4/11/14 @ 7 weeks
DE FET #1 7/3/14-Transferred 2 5AA 6 day embryos Beta 7/13/14 BFN
DE FET #2 9/5/14-Transferred 2 4BB 5 day embryos Beta 9/15/14 BFN
DE FET #3 in December- Cancelled, didn't respond to meds
DE FET #3 (2nd try) 2/13/15- Transferred 1 4BB and 1 4BA 5 day embryos Beta 2/23/15 BFN again (CP)
DE FET #4 - last 2 frosties....5/22/15- Transferred 1 4BA embryo...only one frostie thawed properly. Beta scheduled for 6/1- BFN (beta 2, 2.81, 6, 23, 49.4) 6/15/15 Discovered ectopic in left tube. Methotrexate given. Moving on to a new donor. Hoping to transfer by the end of the year.
Cant find a donor that is healthy and available. Looking at being happy with just the two of us.
I am starting the process again with a much larger clinic this time. My embryos were just transferred over. Not sure if this will do the trick, but since this is likely our last attempt, I had to change something up. Right now FET is scheduled for early March.
Best of luck to all currently cycling!
QOTW- DH, me and our DD are going out to dinner on Saturday night. It's always nice to get out of the house- especially when you have a toddler!
DOR and AMA
2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts; 6 frosties = BFN;
Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
Follow up testing in September all clear;
Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
12/12- Officially an OB patient!
Level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks shows vasa previa and VCI
Referral to MFM and mandatory c section for delivery
Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks
Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
Trying for sibling: FET # 2- May 2014; beta 5/31, BFN
FET #3, early July 2014; beta 7/14, BFN
DE IVF # 2- August 2014; 14R, 13M, 11F, 5dt of 2 blasts (3 AA), 5 frosties = BFN
FET #4- December 2014, yet another BFN
Dr. KK work up shows borderline uterine blood flow, elevated NK cells, and MTHFR mutation (homozygous for c677t)
Added baby aspirin, prednisone, supplements, Metanx, and intralipids
Switched to large clinic for final attempt; had endometrial receptivity testing in January; FET March 2015 = yet another BFN
We are finally in the 2nd trimester and unfortunately I'm still pretty sick. We did get to see the twins last week and they were wiggling and moving all around. Our next US will be early April where we will find out the sex of the babies.
QOTW. My H and I don't really do much for Valentine's day I've been craving chocolate covered strawberries bad though so hopefully he'll surprise me with those.
I feel great. Chunky but really good. No bad symptoms, except swelling feet by the end of the day.
Next week I have my glucose test.
Taking a 4 week natural child birth class in March! Shiz is getting real. Baby shower on the book for March. My friend is hosting at a lovely venue and I am so thrilled. It is going to be surreal after all these years of TTC.
QOTW: We don't go crazy for Valentine's Day. sometimes i'll make a special meal or pick up cookies. DH sometimes gets flowers and a card. This year we are having a lovely "babymoon" so it's going to be a weekend on the beach in Captiva Island, FL. I am just completely thrilled to get away and be together and not have work. I am really needy right now.
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
So much excitement this week! Honestly, there is nothing new here and probably won't be for a bit. I had surgery two weeks ago tomorrow and the healing is incredibly slow! I'm supposed to be back to work on Monday and I'm not looking forward to going back to work still in pain.
QOTW: DH just picked up a second job so I never get to see him awake anymore. I doubt we will be doing anything for Valentine's Day, we normally don't anyway.
TTC #1 Since May 2011 ~ Everyone Welcome
Me (34): DOR d/t chemo/radiation, Immature Endometrial Lining, Hypothyroidism
DH (35): MFI d/t testicular torsion and removal, Low T, Oligospermia, Anti-Sperm Antibodies, Currently on T supplements Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!! March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16 July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?! 7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291 7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac 7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
We're still in limbo waiting for the RE appt on the 20th. I'm starting to get really worried about how she'll react to our intention to go to CZ for egg or embryo transfer. DH and I still have to sit down and discuss whether we want to do egg/embryo and go through the reams of documentation I've compiled about prices and success rates and treatment protocols. My guess is late Summer 2015, we'll be on our way!
QOTW: Hubby spent almost 2 months with no work until recently due to the oil economy, so V-day celebrations were minimal - not that we ever went over-the-top. We had some grocery store steaks and watched some TV together! Pretty glamorous!
30 yrs, healthy & TTC since April 2010
DH 32yrs & healthy
*unexplained infertility*
Regularly access alternative medicine to supplement a lack of resources in our geographical area.
Three rounds of clomid (50mg days 3-7) were useless.
IUI#1 w/clomid & HCG in May 2013, BFN.
IUI#2 w/clomid & HCG on July 23rd. BFN.
IUI #3 in August cancelled last minute, due to lab error.
IVF#1- Started Gonal F stims October 13 2013 for IUI. Over-responded with too many follicles, so converted to IVF. Retrieval October 29th - got 5 eggs, 4 fertilized. Had 2 perfect little embryos transferred on day 3 (Nov. 1). The remaining 2 didn't survive to freeze. Got our BFN on November 13th 2013.
IVF#2 - Started stims August 21st. Triggered with Suprefact, started on dostinex due to risk of OHSS. Retrieval September 5th - got 27 eggs! 21 embryos on day 3. Embryos deteriorated quickly. ESet 5day blast on Sept 10. No embryos high enough quality to freeze. BFN came Sept. 22.
Reserved a semi-known proven donor in August .
Waiting for consult/screening and protocols with estimated fresh cycle timing in October
I have been on my meds for a couple weeks now and have my lining check this week, on Thursday. If it goes well then I'll be set for transfer, will just have to see how ED is doing and when the actual transfer will be. I'm expecting it to be 3/6 but we'll see.
QOTW: we went to dinner on Friday night to avoid the crowds. That's about all we do really. My DH got me flowers, a card, and a new golf bag because I've been wanting one. I didn't get him anything, LOL. I'm a bad wife.
SAIF Always Welcome
TTC #1 since Fall 2008
High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s
DE + DS IVF #2: 3/14/13 - c/p
DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.
DE + DS IVF #4: 5/16/14 - BFN
DE + DS IVF #5: 9/3/14 - BFP at 5.5dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 9dp5dt: 438; hb of 133 at 6w5d, no hb at 7w1d
DE + DS IVF #6: 3/3/15 - BFN on HPTs through 7dp5dt, Beta 1 @ 8dp5dt: 19, Beta 2 @ 10dp5dt: 76, nothing at u/s
You miss 100% of the shots you don't take - Wayne Gretzky
Re: *third-party reproduction check-in* Feb 9th
TTC #1 since May 2010
OE IVF #1 9/2/13 Cancelled- poor response
DE IVF #1 3/12/14- BFP 3/17/14- ectopic, right tube removed 4/11/14 @ 7 weeks
DE FET #1 7/3/14-Transferred 2 5AA 6 day embryos Beta 7/13/14 BFN
DE FET #2 9/5/14-Transferred 2 4BB 5 day embryos Beta 9/15/14 BFN
DE FET #3 in December- Cancelled, didn't respond to meds
DE FET #3 (2nd try) 2/13/15- Transferred 1 4BB and 1 4BA 5 day embryos Beta 2/23/15 BFN again (CP)
DE FET #4 - last 2 frosties....5/22/15- Transferred 1 4BA embryo...only one frostie thawed properly. Beta scheduled for 6/1- BFN (beta 2, 2.81, 6, 23, 49.4) 6/15/15 Discovered ectopic in left tube. Methotrexate given. Moving on to a new donor. Hoping to transfer by the end of the year.
Cant find a donor that is healthy and available. Looking at being happy with just the two of us.
I am starting the process again with a much larger clinic this time. My embryos were just transferred over. Not sure if this will do the trick, but since this is likely our last attempt, I had to change something up. Right now FET is scheduled for early March.
Best of luck to all currently cycling!
QOTW- DH, me and our DD are going out to dinner on Saturday night. It's always nice to get out of the house- especially when you have a toddler!
DOR and AMA
2/12-5/12: 4 IUI cycles = all BFN;
7/12: DE IVF # 1 (with ICSI)- 20R, 16M, 14F, 5DT of 2 blasts; 6 frosties = BFN;
Lupus anticoagulant initially high, then found to be normal on hematology consult;
Follow up testing in September all clear;
Started synthroid for "high normal" TSH;
FET # 1- late October 2012- BFP on FRER; beta # 1- 21(low), beta # 2- 48 (still low), beta # 3- 132, beta # 4- 1,293; beta # 5- 5,606; last beta- over 100,000. First u/s 11/21- heard heartbeat
12/12- Officially an OB patient!
Level 2 ultrasound at 20 weeks shows vasa previa and VCI
Referral to MFM and mandatory c section for delivery
Beautiful baby girl born at 34 weeks
Finally home after 15 day NICU stay!
Trying for sibling: FET # 2- May 2014; beta 5/31, BFN
FET #3, early July 2014; beta 7/14, BFN
DE IVF # 2- August 2014; 14R, 13M, 11F, 5dt of 2 blasts (3 AA), 5 frosties = BFN
FET #4- December 2014, yet another BFN
Dr. KK work up shows borderline uterine blood flow, elevated NK cells, and MTHFR mutation (homozygous for c677t)
Added baby aspirin, prednisone, supplements, Metanx, and intralipids
Switched to large clinic for final attempt; had endometrial receptivity testing in January; FET March 2015 = yet another BFN
Likely OAD- NBC
Qotw: I am going out of town to a family reunion.
PG mentioned
We are finally in the 2nd trimester and unfortunately I'm still pretty sick. We did get to see the twins last week and they were wiggling and moving all around. Our next US will be early April where we will find out the sex of the babies.
QOTW. My H and I don't really do much for Valentine's day I've been craving chocolate covered strawberries bad though so hopefully he'll surprise me with those.
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Today is the big day. We checked in at 7am for the induction. Our GC is finally hooked up to the Pitocin.
Can't believe this piece of our journey is finally here.
So for Valentine's Day we will take turns napping
QOTW: We don't go crazy for Valentine's Day. sometimes i'll make a special meal or pick up cookies. DH sometimes gets flowers and a card. This year we are having a lovely "babymoon" so it's going to be a weekend on the beach in Captiva Island, FL. I am just completely thrilled to get away and be together and not have work. I am really needy right now.
My heart is as open as the sky.
Read about it on the blog
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
QOTW: Hubby spent almost 2 months with no work until recently due to the oil economy, so V-day celebrations were minimal - not that we ever went over-the-top. We had some grocery store steaks and watched some TV together! Pretty glamorous!
Reserved a semi-known proven donor in August .
Waiting for consult/screening and protocols with estimated fresh cycle timing in October
SAIF Always Welcome
TTC #1 since Fall 2008
High FSH, Sertoli Cell Only Syndrome
Unsuccessful with my OE, moving to DE + DS
DE + DS IVF #1: Dec 2012 - BFP, nothing at first u/s
DE + DS IVF #3: 7/12/13 - BFP! Finally! No heartbeat at 7w1d.