Look for a Baby Wearing International group near you so you can try before you buy. K'tan is an easy to use carrier, but you need to make sure you get the right size.
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Baby Boy M, born December 2013
Angels: Miscarriage @ 9 weeks, May 2015, Chemical Pregnancy November 2015
I absolutely LOVE my K'tan... make sure you order by the sizing guides. It also says that if you are shorter 5'2 or 5'3 or shorter to order a size down. My LO loves to snuggle into it.
I wanted a k'tan but was told the material is too stretchy and as baby gets bigger, they hang too low so doesn't work with bigger babies. The ring slings were given better reviews because they're more adjustable and fabric remains tight. As for carriers, I've heard the Tula is fabulous. The ergo requires an infant insert that some people say makes LOs very hot. So if you're in a cold area probably not an issue. I'm in south Florida so that gets tough. I heard good things about the beco Gemini also. No infant insert required. I was also advised to look for a baby wearing international chapter. They have "lending libraries" so you can try stuff out
Married 2007 3 Clomid IUIs -- BFNs IVF #1 never made it to transfer On "egg health" cocktail DHEA/CoQ10/FRC/Pregnitude/Melatonin Starting IVF #2 for Feb 2013 Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix Cancelled mid-cycle due to high P4 levels early on. OCPs again for IVF 2.5 mid-March. IVF 2.5 transferred two "gorgeous" 5-day blasts and BFFN. Even REI is baffled On indefinite hold until a huge stroke of serendipity led me to IVF 3 May 2014
Testing found positive cardiolipins/APS, now on lovenox and intralipid infusions
Transfer of 2 5-day blasts and (FINALLY) BFFP!!
1st ultrasound shows two sacs and two HB, but one is sluggish, almost expecting vanishing twin
Subsequent ultrasound confirmed vanishing twin, but my other Little critter looks fantastic!
"You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it." -- Margaret Thatcher
Hands down-- the best carrier you can buy is a lillebaby. Newborn to 35 lbs, with no insert needed like many of the other carriers. K'tans are hard because you have to get sizing just right, and tula isn't recomended until 15 lbs or more so you can't use it immediately out of the box with the newborn, you'd have to get the insert as well.
I use my lillebaby complete with my 10 month old and my three year old. Has a pocket on it (!!!), lumbar support so there's no back pain, and allows you to carry the baby in 6 positions. It is literally the only carrier you'll ever need to buy!
Second the lillebaby. I'm a FTM but carried my nephew in the Ergo (which I did like, but lillebaby has the pocket and is cooler and can hold an infant) and got a bebo for my newborn, but hated all the wrapping. Just got the Lille and started using it at 3 1/2 weeks! It's great!! Have gone on little walks and get complements at the grocery. I got whatever the mesh one was in anticipation of the summer in champagne!
I got a ktan and my baby seems to enjoy it, even falling asleep in it multiple times after looking around for a bit. I got it online at bed bath and beyond since we had a gift card there. Only downfall is I love to garden and still cannot get low enough with the ktan to do what I want there. For household chores though it's a win.
My little one is the same way, can't put her down or else she cries. I have a Sakura Bloom ring sling and love it; it is easy to learn to use and works well for a small baby (my dd was born 4lbs 14oz and is up to six and change now). Very convenient, and easy to get a sleeping baby out of it, which is a plus. You can get them made of different materials - the one I have is light, breathable linen, great for warm central CA.
Re: Carrier/sling rec
I have the Tula and love it!
3 Clomid IUIs -- BFNs
IVF #1 never made it to transfer
On "egg health" cocktail DHEA/CoQ10/FRC/Pregnitude/Melatonin
Starting IVF #2 for Feb 2013
Follistim/Menopur/Ganirelix
Cancelled mid-cycle due to high P4 levels early on.
OCPs again for IVF 2.5 mid-March. IVF 2.5 transferred two "gorgeous" 5-day blasts and BFFN. Even REI is baffled
On indefinite hold until a huge stroke of serendipity led me to IVF 3 May 2014
Testing found positive cardiolipins/APS, now on lovenox and intralipid infusions
Transfer of 2 5-day blasts and (FINALLY) BFFP!! 1st ultrasound shows two sacs and two HB, but one is sluggish, almost expecting vanishing twin Subsequent ultrasound confirmed vanishing twin, but my other Little critter looks fantastic!
"You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it."
-- Margaret Thatcher
Mommy by the Sea