TTC after 35

@KirstenAlecia Thinking of you today

****Loss Mentioned*****

Hey Darling.  I know today's procedure is not what you wanted.  But it is what is needed.  For you to start moving past and moving forward.  I hope after this surgery today you will start to find some relief in getting your body back into normalcy.

With my loss back in May, It took me 6 weeks to stop bleeding with an infection in between and getting real sick then a few months to get back to anything close to normal.  I would say the past 3 months I have been back in a normal like state with my body  It is reassuring to have that normalcy back and feel a little more back in control of your body and know what to expect.  You are making the right choice to help alleviate this extra stress off of you and your body. Creepy Cyber higs 
****Siggy Warning***
~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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Re: @KirstenAlecia Thinking of you today

  • sending positive vibes your way @kristenalecia. I don't have personal experience, but I can only imagine how awful this is. I hope that this keeps you from having further complications and you can begin to get your life back to normal.
    hugs.
    TTC #1
    me- 37, DH- 38
    Married 6.28.14, started TTC right away
    BFP Nov 2015, PPROM Feb 2016
    ER #1 May 2017, 15 retrieved, 10 fertilized, 3 day 5.
    ER#2 July 2017, 22 retrieved, 13 fertilized, 6 day 5/6
    9 embryos tested for pgs and pgd.  
    FET #1 9.29.17- 1 embryo-BFN
    FET#2 12.19.17- I embryo-BFP 1/1/18! Happy New Year to me! EDD 9/6/18
    Baby boy born 9.11.18- the love of my life!

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  • No experience but my thoughts are with you. (((Hugs)))
    41 & single; DX:  PCOS
    TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
    First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
    Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P :(

  • Sending thoughts your way.
  • Love to you @KirstenAlecia. I hope that you can heal in all aspects now. 

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  • Thinking of you today and sending lots of hugs.
    I hope the procedure goes smooth and recovery is easy. Take care of yourself the next few days.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

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    All welcome

  • Healing thoughts coming your way today
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
  • Thinking of you today!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    edited February 2015
    I hope everything went smooth and you heal quickly. Sending big hugs your way
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • Thinking about you today! I hope everything went smooth and now you can begin to heal.
    Me: 37  DH:39
    TTC #1 Since May 2014
  • Hey ladies! Thank you so much. I came back to one crazy looking bump and couldn't log in! I had a heck of a time. Old email that i no longer use linked to the account. What a pain.....but Im here!

    Well, the procedure went very smooth. Went to the hospital 8 am and was home by 2pm. My mom  came with me and hubby did too. I was emotional. When they wheeled me into the surgery room I started crying. So silly after all this time. I had a really great nurse though. And it was my OB who performed the procedure...so that was good...comforting somehow. Less scary. It felt like one moment i was there and the next i was in recovery with my mom and hubby near me. No physical discomfort after at all. None. Such a difference to what has been going on and off the last 9 weeks! 

    I have to say though that I know that Im sure Ive still had hormones running though me and they are changing the last day or 2 because Ive been on an emotional roller coaster. Hopefully that means Im getting back to normal and all will be well. Right now though.....I can be brushing my hair, or doing the dishes and I will just need to cry. :/ Hubby is being pretty patient about it. I think he realizes it has to be the changing hormones.....everything leveling out to pre-pregnancy. 


    SIGGY WARNING
    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
  • @KirstenAlecia‌ I'm glad that everything went well.
    I cried at odd times after my MC for a few months. So that is normal.
    I'm glad you are back with us.

      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

    Daisypath Anniversary tickers

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    All welcome

  • I am glad the procedure went well for you. Continue to take care.
  • @kirstenalecia I'm so glad it went better than you expected and that your mom and DH were there for you. Take care of yourself. Glad you are healing
    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
  • @kirstenalecia - gosh, i forgot about the crying.  all the crying.
    It still happens every so often - even though I got my girl.  You still think about it. 
    Big hugs with you and praying for your peace.
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


  • @KirstenAlecia, I am glad that you are starting to feel better. 

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  • I am glad things went well.  What you are going through is definitely normal.
    ****Siggy Warning***
    ~Formerly ABabyMabe4us



    Me(35) Him(35) Untied for life 4/1/2015.
    TTC Our 1st since 8/2014
    MC @ 7 weeks 5/2014
    Me: DD#1 3/2000, DD#2 6/2001, DS 5/2003
    BFP: 2/19/2015 EDD: 11/1/2015 IT'S A BOY!!!!

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  • thank you so much ladies!
    SIGGY WARNING
    Me 38   DH 34
    married 05-21-11 
    started TTC right away






    BFP- 10-16-14 EDD 6/13/15: MC 12-1-14 
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