Trouble TTC

Horrid night need some love warning this might anger you(children mentioned not mine)

chealsylchealsyl member
edited January 2015 in Trouble TTC
Let's start with I have a race truck which explains my profile picture. As we usually do all the car fanatics in my town meet up on Saturdays to show off talk about cars and what not. Tonight we had just met up and we hear tires squeal and all the lights on the street go out. A drunk driver hit another truck, slammed into a pole and snapped it in half. We run to the truck and see a man unconscious and a woman screaming. As we get them out we noticed a car seat so we immediately start trying to find the child asking the woman if there is a child in the car (there was not and no child was hurt) and she keeps yelling my babies my babies. Finally we get her to calm down enough to tell us her kids are at home. After we tend to her husbands head wounds and get her calm she tells us her 10 month old 3 year old and 5 year old are at home ALONE. Its 11pm and she's so drunk she can't stand!!! It took every inch of restraint I had in my being to not break her jaw! I had to calm this woman and comfort her so we could get her husband the medical attention he needed since he did not speak English. Im sorry ladies I know I'm not very active in here and every once in a while I comment on your posts but that's about it. This being only my second post Im sorry its this situation but, right now I'm so far in my own heading and trying to figure out how this horrible person can have 3 children and I'm fighting to have one. My faith in a lot of things were shaken tonight. Why? Again I feel like I'm whining and I'm sorry but, I know some of you have felt this way too. How do you keep going? How do you pull through?

Re: Horrid night need some love warning this might anger you(children mentioned not mine)

  • This is horrible!  I, too, feel like it's unfair when people who act like this are lucky enough to have children.  The only way to get through this is to have a little hope, research your condition and do the best you can to have it treated.  Best of luck that someday you, I and the others here will get pregnant!
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  • My husband is a firefighter/paramedic and some of the stories he brings home about abused/neglected children just breaks my heart. Try and find comfort in the fact that there are also good people and parents out there. Pray for the children who didn't get so lucky that there hopefully is someone looking out for them. You and I and all the wonderful women when we get our chance to to mothers will do everything in our power to love and protect them. Maybe some of us may end up fostering or adopting some of the children who didn't get so lucky the first round of parents.
    Me: 28, DH: 32
    Married 8/10/13 
    TTC since Oct 2013 
    Met with RE Jan 2015 
    Me: Elevated thyroid levels 
    DH: All good 
    Unexplained infertility 
    IUI #1 scheduled for May 2015
  • I have stage 2 amenorrhea. Sadly being 50lbs over weight they aren't going to do much until I loose weight. I have 30 more to go so fingers crossed. Its mainly because you can be born with amenorrhea which cause really sparce cycles or in my case none at all due to a hormone deficiency. They think if I can get my weight in check it might get things back on track and if not we will start the talk of other treatments. Mother also had amenorrhea and she has my brothers and I so hope not lost just a long road. It took two failed years of my husband and i trying before we decided to see what was up and speak with an RE. The officers at the wreck convinced this woman they were taking her home so she'd lead them there. The children are now with child protective services and she is on her way back to her country. Not the best endings but, at the very least they aren't in her custody any longer.
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