I am laying on the couch, DH got home less then an hour ago and was putting the baby to bed. He comes out to heat up dinner and make me some tea and sees someone park in front of the house. His father. Sweet.
I have had 3 nights of toddler free range while I make sure she doesn't kill herself from my perch on the couch. There are toys everywhere, an unfolded basket of laundry, and crap everywhere. I stood up way to fast trying to at least move my dinner dishes in the kitchen and pile up some of the crap. They walk in 'oh, we do t care what your house looks like...' I told them I did and I was embarrassed that they dropped in on us while I was recuperating. FIL didn't bash an eye and gave DH his body cards and had him open them...step MIL at least apologized, asked that I was OK, and went to the entryway to get FIL to leave.
Seriously, he usually drops by with little notice. That I tolerate at least because 20 minutes is enough for me to hide the mess, but none? Plus I moved to fast and now I am in pain. Ugh.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube #11 or IVF with scarring still inside? 1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
No shower today, no bra. Trying not to cry at the sudden pain...5 minutes was too long.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube #11 or IVF with scarring still inside? 1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
Were they at least dropping off a meal or some kind of treat? What was the reason for them barging in unannounced on a Fri evening 2 days after you had surgery?
What bothers me is that they could have given you a heads up. Even if it was 5 minutes! They had the cards, they knew they were coming over. Grr.
My inlaws called DH Thursday and said they were outside my house. I was picking up Winn. So DH said to go on in. My nasty bra was on the couch. So I came in and cooked dinner in my coat because my floppy boobs were out. Then after a half hour DH asked if I was going to take my coat off and I laughed and said sure, if he'd go get my bra off the couch. It takes at least 5-10 min to get to my house from anywhere. There is no excuse for drop bys with cell phones!!! What is wrong with people?
It was so chaotic too. Them telling me they didn't mind, me telling them I did. Trying not to cry from moving too quickly, DH feeling terrible because he knows I hate surprise guests.
The worst part is, they were supposed to come over this morning (Saturday) not last night so it took us completely by surprise.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube #11 or IVF with scarring still inside? 1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
ILs can really suck ass. I hope you're feeling better today. I told DH on Saturday that since we moved into our house in July of 2010 that there has never once been a week where we didn't have a member of his family in our house. And 80% of those are unannounced drop ins. It has led to so many fights between us but he refuses to ever say anything. He hates confrontation and is afraid of hurting anyone's feelings. I think I'm just going to sit around naked all of the time, that will probably discourage the unannounced drop in.
Emma Rose - 9.14.05 Beckett - 5.26.07 Sawyer - 9.22.12 Lennon Mae - 9.26.14
No one normally drops by because I am a huge bitch. That is why DH was so surprised and essentially kicked them out. He apologized to me for the next 2 days after that - ha!
I am feeling much better. I didn't take any painkillers until bed last night - mostly so I could drink beer during the game, but it wasn't anything I couldn't power through. Today I am home with L by myself (DCP is sick) so no meds at all again. I will save them for bad days now.
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Kid #2 - maybe???
Diagnosed with Severe Ashermans Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube #11 or IVF with scarring still inside? 1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
Re: OMG just had a THT IL moment
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
ETA-ahhhh I reread. Birthday cards for DH.
What bothers me is that they could have given you a heads up. Even if it was 5 minutes! They had the cards, they knew they were coming over. Grr.
My inlaws called DH Thursday and said they were outside my house. I was picking up Winn. So DH said to go on in. My nasty bra was on the couch. So I came in and cooked dinner in my coat because my floppy boobs were out. Then after a half hour DH asked if I was going to take my coat off and I laughed and said sure, if he'd go get my bra off the couch. It takes at least 5-10 min to get to my house from anywhere. There is no excuse for drop bys with cell phones!!! What is wrong with people?
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh
Emma Rose - 9.14.05 Beckett - 5.26.07 Sawyer - 9.22.12 Lennon Mae - 9.26.14
Nancy James 9.1.12
Calvin Donald 8.27.14
Kid #1 - 09/03/12
Hysteroscopy #10 - scar tissue grew back reblocking my right tube
#11 or IVF with scarring still inside?
1 lone embryo from September 2016 retreival, dx with Trisomy 16, starting fresh