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June 2015 Moms
Addelie
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Total AW: DH outta line?
Addelie
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I know there's another thread about not-so-good DH's, but this isn't quite as serious an issue and is intended to be a bit light hearted.
So it's my AS tomorrow and DH knows I'm silly nervous about it. I've over-read and am overly worrying and realise that's my own issue and not his fault.
However, despite knowing I'm a bit scared, DH is currently out at a superbowl party! To clarify, we're in London, England - kick off isn't until 11.30 pm (in an hour) and he couldn't even tell you how American Football is played or who is playing - he's just there for a good time.
As he won't get home until around 5.30 am (and he's already pretty boozed) I've told him to stay at a friend's. He keeps calling and texting, mainly out of guilt, and says he'd come home if I asked - but I hate being one of those ball and chainers and he knows I won't do that as I think he should know himself what's right rather than me telling him.
So I'm in bed already just getting angrier and angrier that he doesn't realise himself that he should be here giving me reassuring cuddles! At this rate I will be getting no sleep whatsoever. As it's late on a Sunday night I can't sound off to my friends.
So, opinions please, is he being a selfish knobhead or do I only have myself to blame for being a neurotic whiner?
So it's my AS tomorrow and DH knows I'm silly nervous about it. I've over-read and am overly worrying and realise that's my own issue and not his fault.
However, despite knowing I'm a bit scared, DH is currently out at a superbowl party! To clarify, we're in London, England - kick off isn't until 11.30 pm (in an hour) and he couldn't even tell you how American Football is played or who is playing - he's just there for a good time.
As he won't get home until around 5.30 am (and he's already pretty boozed) I've told him to stay at a friend's. He keeps calling and texting, mainly out of guilt, and says he'd come home if I asked - but I hate being one of those ball and chainers and he knows I won't do that as I think he should know himself what's right rather than me telling him.
So I'm in bed already just getting angrier and angrier that he doesn't realise himself that he should be here giving me reassuring cuddles! At this rate I will be getting no sleep whatsoever. As it's late on a Sunday night I can't sound off to my friends.
So, opinions please, is he being a selfish knobhead or do I only have myself to blame for being a neurotic whiner?
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Re: Total AW: DH outta line?
@lovethatcolosun I totally get what you're saying, and believe me I am very pro him going out with his buddies - he has three trips abroad planned before "splashdown" (as he calls it) and has a very active social life. I was just hoping that this one night he'd kinda just want to make sure I was okay without me having to spell it out.
I'm gonna try and get some sleep at it's gone midnight here now. Go seahawks?!
I hope you manage to get some sleep. Insomnia is horrendous, especially with a perfectly content DH snoozing away beside you
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They believe you when you say stuff.. If you say nothing is wrong.. They won't go looking into it to find out if you are taking the truth. Save yourself the sleepless nights next time and tell him exactly how you feel.
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