insensitive comments

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  January 2015

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• memilis member

  January 2015

  I feel stupid people with such comments don't even deserve a replay .

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• laurexx member

  January 2015

  I've heard that one before! My boobs were DD before pregnancy and have gone up at least a few sizes. From experience people never have a filter when it comes to breasts not just when you're pregnant. I agree tell them off.

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• chicago1985 member

  January 2015

  a coworker said I was looking big today...I said so do you!

  
  

  He was a thin gay man

  

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• shelles423 member

  January 2015

  People say so many dumb things to pregnant women. All you can really do is smile and say "I'll have a very Well fed baby" or something. I get compared to my SIL all the time and how i look like she looked at 9 months and I'm only five months. Drives me nuts!

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• lola2bee member

  January 2015

  Ask them why they are thinking so much about your boobs?

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• MissRissx3 member

  January 2015 edited January 2015

  Dude seriously my husband's grandma every fucking day comments on my boobs. "If those get any bigger I tell ya you're screwed!" And "you can't tell what's bigger your boobs or your stomach."
  And it's every.. single .. day

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• dec2018mom member

  January 2015

  My mother told me I was carrying baby weight in my ass. She saw me at 16 weeks and yeah my ass is kinda big...but I mean I was offended! Ive not gotten any rude comments. DH tells me that my belly is getting bigger by the day though, lol.

  

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• louloutte87 member

  January 2015

  I can't believe people actually say this stuff! Call me naive but wow.
  
  My hubs comments on the stretch marks (they're silvery but growing) every day, plus how hard belly is getting but he's allowed. Anyone else would just get a sarcastic comment I think!

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• beezybaby member

  January 2015

  I would say something along the lines of "careful, or I'll smother you, and it won't be with my awesome boobs!"

  
  

  My father-in-law was so annoying my first pregnancy, exclaiming over every bite I took, calling me the bottomless pit, etc...I was too unnerved to say anything.  When he started it up again in my second, I stood next to him, compared bellies, and said, "well, I have to catch up with you some how!"  He is a big bellied guy, bigger than I was at 7 months, and that pretty much shut him up.  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• JuliaRL member

  January 2015

  @beezybaby, you are my hero!

  
  
  
  
  BABY NINJA!
  
  

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• rosannewild member

  February 2015

  My mom started the comments before I became pregnant..."your body isn't going to look like that ever again" kind of taunting. She thought she was being funny. I finally sat her down and explained to her how stressful and hurtful her comments were. For once she actually listened and has been great since with shutting down other peoples stupid comments. Thanks momma!!!!

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• Nita2603 member

  February 2015

  Just shrug it off or tell them to shove it. People seem to lose their filters as soon as they see a pregnant woman for some reason. Why ever that may happen, it's a clear case of 'tell them where to go or just walk away' - no point in dwelling. Can't fix stupid.

  

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• sb184 member

  February 2015

  Luckily I haven't gotten any rude comments yet. Maybe it's because I tend to have a resting bitch face anyways, lol. But I do know if someone did say something it would not go over well!

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