I am a FTM. I've always planned on breastfeeding and then pumping when I go back to work, but I'm somewhat concerned about how to make it work. I go back at 6 weeks and am gone for 12-13 hrs per day, so pumping will definitely be necessary. What concerns me are things I've read about nipple confusion and pumping/ breastfeeding schedules affecting supply. Is there any harm in skipping breastfeeding from the start and exclusively pumping, or at least exclusively pumping after a month or so? It seems like breast milk is breast milk so it wouldn't matter, but I'm obviously new at this and most here seem to be pro breastfeeding. Just wondering if there are health benefits or if it's a preference thing. I just don't want to mess anything up and have to use formula. I have a breastfeeding class scheduled for March but you ladies seem very knowledgeable and experienced. Thanks for the help.
Re: Not sure if this is a dumb question
It took 5 days for my milk to come in and by then DS had begun losing weight. AT that point DH and I went on a frenzy of ‘fatten the boy up’ mode and started giving him some formula along with BM. He never did latch very easily so I just always pumped because it was more important for me to ensure he ate, regardless of the method. Everything I’ve read says your baby is the key to increasing your supply. I wish I’d been able to nurse at the beginning to get a good supply going but it didn’t work out that way, so I’m just an exclusive pumper and I’m unable to get a stash going as he eats whatever I pump within 24hrs and usually we have to supplement with formula at night because he at all the BM. He’s still about 60% Bfed but I wish it could be more, I pump around 17-19oz a day, and I pump 4x a day - it feels very time consuming, but I plan to keep this up as long as possible. Definitely get a pumping bra (I bought a cheap slightly tight sports bra from Wal-Mart and cut holes in it – LIFESAVER!) and it made things so much easier, I was stupid and didn’t get one until about 5wks in and wish I’d gotten one sooner.
I’d say nurse early on to get things really going then once your supply is established you can go to pumping..