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The wait... uggg

sidey1sidey1 member
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First the TWW and now the excruciatingly long wait for my first OB appt. My appt isn't until I'm 9 weeks, which I know makes sense but I think I'm going to go crazy waiting until then, that's a month from now! Being a frequent loss momma doesn't help the situation. I need a hobby stat!!! 

Thanks for hearing my vent, lol. 

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Me 43 DH 48 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test.  *5th cycle after loss 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy born 5/6/2013!

TTC #2, bpf 1/15/15 Baby Girl due Oct 1! She's here, 9/26/2015! 

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  • NeonNoonNeonNoon member
    Waiting for that first US is very challenging.  Hang in there!
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  • maggs2015maggs2015 member
    Know exactly how you feel.  I work in an ER and took a test every day until my appointment.  They are super cheap at the dollar store if you're feeling super anxious!

    Hang in there.  
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  • cneidingcneiding member
    pregnancy...one wait after the next...isn't it!
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  • jerseygirl227jerseygirl227 member
    cneiding said:
    pregnancy...one wait after the next...isn't it!
    It sure is!
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  • sidey1sidey1 member
    That's so true, I was thinking we get through our 1st appt ok and then its another 4 weeks and all the testing before we can really settle in... it's always something!

    nate and teddy        <img src=http://flic.kr/p/hi2aWe width="150px">

    Me 43 DH 48 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test.  *5th cycle after loss 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
    ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy born 5/6/2013!

    TTC #2, bpf 1/15/15 Baby Girl due Oct 1! She's here, 9/26/2015! 

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  • KateLouiseKateLouise member
    Ugh waiting is awful. Hope the time passes quickly for you!!
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  • superlowamhsuperlowamh member
    Oh boy, one whole month till your appointment seems indeed like eternity... I assume morning sickness doesn't give you enough of a 'distraction' yet? It somewhat helped me between appointments because I felt so sick I could think of anything other than how miserable I was...

    Hang in there!!
    Me: 41; DH: 49
    Married in 2010. 
    Laparoscopy for endometriosis - July 2010.
    BFP#1: Jan 2011; MMC March 2011
    BFP#2: Nov 2011; Blighted Ovum December 2011
    Diagnosed with high FSH and DOR - January 2012
    BFP#3: (Gonal-F, Trigger + TI) - May 2012; DD born Jan 2013 (c-section because of partial placental abruption)

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    December 2013: FSH 27, AMH < 0.03
    A few medicated TI cycles in 2014.
    BFP#4: (Gonal-F, Trigger +TI) - Nov 2014; DS born July 2015

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  • topaz7777topaz7777 member

    I feel like the entire 40 weeks is just waiting after waiting.  Always waiting for the next step.  Then once baby comes out and the wait is over, life suddenly goes so much faster. 

    Good luck.  Know we are all waiting the same wait with you.

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  • nyc2015nyc2015 member

    Sidey!! Congratulations!!!!   I know just how you're feeling.  I found an obgyn at 5 weeks and when I called, they made my appt. for 9.5 weeks! I was surprised at my age (seem we are the same), they didn't want to see me sooner, but in a way, made me glad they didn't need to. :)

    So the time goes fast, trust me.  You will be at your first ultrasound quicker than you think!  Maybe all my morning sickness gave me a distraction.. I don't know!

    Wishing you all the best.  Take care~

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