My husband says I am being too overprotective of our 5 month old. I'm very cautious with my daughter with his family because of some of the things that they have said to me before and done lately. I know my husband was trying to be romantic by planning a surprise trip for our first anniversary but he didn't tell me that we where going to leave our daughter with his mother. They planned this and I felt ambushed. I don't like leaving her with them because they done listen to me and how I want them to treat her. I want them to do things how I want them done but they just laugh at me and go on doing things with her that I don't like. It all started when my daughter was a few weeks old my husband fell asleep with her on his chest and he is a very heavy sleeper and she ended up falling off of him onto her head on our concrete floor. They told me that things happen and it's ok that she was dropped. They even tried to make me feel better by telling me that my SIL hit her oldest sons head on the door jam and her youngest son rolled off of their bed a few days after having brain surgery. My daughter is a wiggle worm and is never still even when sleeping and they are constantly telling me to go lay her in my MIL's bed unattended. Like pillows are going to keep her from rolling off. My husband also takes everything they say to heart and he thinks that we should do everything that is mother and sister have done not what I want and feel is right to do with our daughter. I have been trying to be nice and not burn any bridges but it's getting to the point it's not going to matter if I do or not. Am I being unreasonable or is my instincts right?