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Anyone nervous about doing the deed again after D&C?

sassyfrass321sassyfrass321 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I'm just curious because I am. The doctor said to wait 2 weeks after the surgery to start having sex again and I have a few days left but I'm weirdly nervous about it because it's like I'm afraid it'll hurt for some reason or be tender or something. I know it's weird but anyone else have these feelings? Am I the only one? lol
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Re: Anyone nervous about doing the deed again after D&C?

  • ronniesgirl1981ronniesgirl1981 member
    I think it's totally normal to be nervous. FWIW I didn't experience any pain or tenderness. It's weird, but also nice to get some normalness back. But if you need more time, that's ok, too.
    Me: 34 | He: 40
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  • Nikolie93Nikolie93 member
    I don't think it's weird at all. Although I didn't have D&C's with mine, I felt the same way.

    As a side note, I was also emotional as hell afterwards and I cried. They may be weird lol
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  • doveshoesdoveshoes member
    I was told to wait 6 weeks after mine. I wonder why the difference??

    Anyway....I'm kinda glad for the long wait because I am also scared, lol. You are not alone!
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  • rosesandpeoniesrosesandpeonies member
    Definitely not alone!  I was thinking about that yesterday.  
    DD (8/12/09), DD (2/8/11)
    BFP 12/16/14| EDD 8/19/15 |MMC 1/15/15 (9 weeks 1 day)
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  • Ann612Ann612 member
    I was told 3 weeks.  I imagine the first time we'll be taking it a little slow to make sure there's no issues.  
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  • laxdixdarlaxdixdar member
    I have 5 days left and I'm a little nervous. We were on pelvic rest for almost 6 wks before my miscarriage, now the 2wk wait after d&c. I have this feeling I'm going to be fragile emotionally and physically, but I'm probably being a little silly.
    Married the love of my life: 11/12/2009
    1st BFP ever : 11/19/2014
    1/9/2015 our miracle baby was welcomed in heaven.
    BFP #2 : 4/21/2015
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  • elsiefayeelsiefaye member
    Yes I am definitely scared!. I haven't told my bf, maybe I should. I had so much bleeding during my pregnancy and after the miscarriage/ D&C that it's already been months. I'm not in any rush at the moment.
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  • atn714atn714 member
    I recently had a miscarriage/d&c and I was told to wait two weeks as well. Also I've heard that it's ideal to wait until you have your next period before ttc again. When I saw my doctor (yesterday which was 16 days after the d&c) she said that medically we were fine to start trying again as long as we were mentally okay. She didn't mention anything about waiting for a period either! So we did the deed last night and I was nervous at first but nothing hurt, not even the initial entry, and it was just like it was before! =) The main thing is to be mentally prepared before you do it again and the physical part will fall into place!
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  • tcann320tcann320 member
    I'm not scared....just wondering has anyone stop completely bleeding yet? I have 4 more days and hope the bleeding will be gone so I can do the deed.
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  • erysapplepieerysapplepie member
    I am very afraid! But my MC was just on friday so I am still in pain and bleeding and emotionally just a wreck. I am craving the comfort it will bring but I guess I just cant imagine anything even coming close to my lady parts right now. Praying that part will pass soon and this emotional roller coaster will slow itself down.
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