Spoke too soon (loss)

Re: Spoke too soon (loss)

• mandyreads member

  January 2015

  I am so so very sorry for your loss.

  

  
  

  Proud Mom to Kaleigh (14yr) Emma (12yr) and Hanna (7yr)

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• NicoleWI member

  January 2015

  I'm so very sorry.

  

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• marijaa333 member

  January 2015

  I'm really sorry too. I hope you can take some time for yourself.

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• KateLouise member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs and prayers that you find peace as you move forward.

  
  

  Take care of yourself as you grieve.

  
  Elizabeth 5yrs old Jane 3yrs old

  
  

  
  
  

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• NeonNoon member

  January 2015

  I'm sorry for your loss.

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• JuliaLovesPugs member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry this happened to you.
  

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• jerseygirl227 member

  January 2015

  I am so very sorry.    Take care of yourself and know that thoughts and prayers are with you.

  

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• jessyluscious77 member

  January 2015

  So sorry for your loss

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Guennie member

  January 2015

  I can't tell you how sorry I am that you are going through this. I've just lost my sixth pregnancy and it doesn't get any easier.
  
  It does mess with your head and you will need time to grieve before you can work through it and decide how to move forward. Don't be surprised if you take several steps backward before you are able to get back on the path.
  
  It may take awhile if you're letting it go naturally. I will be hoping it can be over with quickly for you.
  
  So very very sorry. Please take care of yourself and reach out if you need support. Hugs to you.

  Me:41, DH:41 Positive for MTHFR mutations- one copy C677T, one copy A1298C. One daughter born on Thanksgiving in 2013. Six losses.

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• supersarah77 member

  January 2015

  Oh wow, you have really been through a lot. My deepest condolences for the loss of your baby. Thinking of you as you trudge through this.

  Me: 38, DH: 35

  

  
  

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• superlowamh member

  January 2015

  I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I never know what to say because words never help anyway....

  
  

  As Guennie said, it may take long weeks before it happens naturally, it may be hard to wait.... My baby died at 8 weeks, and at 12 weeks there were absolutely no signs that anything would start on its own. I chose a D & C because doctors told me I could wait another few weeks, and I just couldn't do that....
  

  
  

  My prayers are with you....

  
  

  Me: 41; DH: 49

  Married in 2010. 

  Laparoscopy for endometriosis - July 2010.

  BFP#1: Jan 2011; MMC March 2011

  BFP#2: Nov 2011; Blighted Ovum December 2011

  Diagnosed with high FSH and DOR - January 2012

  BFP#3: (Gonal-F, Trigger + TI) - May 2012; DD born Jan 2013 (c-section because of partial placental abruption)

  
  

  
  

  
  

  December 2013: FSH 27, AMH < 0.03

  A few medicated TI cycles in 2014.

  BFP#4: (Gonal-F, Trigger +TI) - Nov 2014; DS born July 2015

  
  

  
  

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• niknak1208 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry.  It is definitely heartbreaking. Unfortunately, I've been there too many times.  There is no right or wrong decision.  You just have to do what you feel is right for you and your family.  I would just watch and make sure that you pass everything because if you don't.. they will need to check and make sure or schedule a D&C.. you don't want to get an infection on top of going through all of this.   

  
  

  Hugs and prayers to your and your family.  

  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• topaz7777 member

  January 2015

  Devestating news.  I'm so sorry. 

  Factor V Leiden Homozygous, Advanced Maternal Age

   

  TTC #1, 5 yrs, PCOS, Femera + Ovidrel.

  IUI#3 BFP, DD 5/31/2012

  

  TTC #2, 2 yrs, PCOS, Femera+Ovidrel

  IUI#2 BFP!

  

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• wtbratcher member

  January 2015

  My condolences. Prayers for you and your family.

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• nyc2015 member

  January 2015

  IndyMom I am so very sorry for your loss.  I don't know what can be said to really help but please know healing thoughts and prayers are with you.  You'll get through this.  I had a miscarriage 3 years ago. There really are no words.  Life is so unfair at times.  But know you'll get through this.  

  Take good care of yourself.  Let us know how you're doing at some point. 

  Hugs. 

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• MySallyGirl member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss

  
  

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• cneiding member

  January 2015

  So so sorry.  Like others said, the wait for m/c to happen naturally can be many weeks.  The wait can be agonizing.  But as long as you don't get a fever or other signs you are not well, you should be fine to wait.  I think the most agonizing part of a dandC is that they do them in the surgery area of the hospital on the labor and delivery floor. So you have to go into the landD area with babies crying and new moms and those in labor roaming about.  When I had one, I even had to walk past the nursery area.  That whole thing was not pleasant at all.  All that I know who has gotten a DandC have had them in LandD. 
  

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• mum2lanabelliz member

  January 2015

  So very sorry. I wish I had the perfect words to say. Allow yourself time to grieve. I have both had natural m/c and d/c. I found that neither was easy to go through for different reasons. I pray you find comfort and peace. Lots of thoughts and prayers.

  

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• Radiantly member

  January 2015

  Oh I am so so sorry to hear this. I wish you strength and that you can find comfort and support in this difficult time. Prayers for your little angel.

  TTC#1 since Aug 2013, I'm 37, DH 41.  
  

  Maya Arvigo Abdominal massage (daily self care), plus TTC meditations.

  I'm very sensitive to diet (gluten, avoid processed foods) and environment. Have a history of inflammation and tendinitis before going off gluten in 2009.  
  

  July 2014 - RE Visit #1: Eggs look good, Endometrioma on R ovary, HSG showed blocked R tube close to ovary. DH SA normal 

  DX: Endometriosis probably the IF cause and gunking up tubes.  Since egg reserve is high, RE says I can wait a couple months and then get laproscopic surgery to remove endo & clear tube.  If that doesn't help then move to IVF. 

  Dec 2014 - Saw new RE - does not recommend surgery on tube as it isn't likely to help.  Doubts I have endometriosis.  My endometrioma shrunk to neglible size (yay!) 

  Seriously considering IVF in March/April

  12/17/14 - Natural BFP! 

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• AASykes member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss. *hugs*

  

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• xuxachi member

  January 2015

  I so sorry for your loss.

  DS born 10/25/11 **  DD born 6/24/13 **  DS born 4/20/15
  

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• Seh114 member

  January 2015

  So sorry for your loss! T&P coming your way.

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• GASuzuki member

  January 2015

  I am very sorry for your loss. Please take care.

  
  

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• happywifemomofone member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss.

  TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome

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• sidey1 member

  January 2015

  I'm so very sorry for your loss, I hope whatever path you choice going forward brings you some peace..Hugs..

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  Me 43 DH 48 Not actively ttc, surprise BFP on 1/6/11! 4/1/11 m/c our sunshine at 16wks after complications from CVS test.  *5th cycle after loss 12/6/11 BFP! Missed m/c at 9 weeks 1/21/12, trisomy 14. Two Chemical PG 3/12&7/12
  ** BFP 8/16/12 beta #1 148! beta#2 407 beta #3 4000 u/s 9.10 1 lovely hb 126, Baby Boy born 5/6/2013!

  TTC #2, bpf 1/15/15 Baby Girl due Oct 1! She's here, 9/26/2015! 

   

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• MsVox member

  January 2015

  I'm so so very sorry for your loss
  

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• mdogan29 member

  January 2015

  I'm very sorry to hear about this, hope you have a quick physical recovery and you are able to take the grieving time you need. *hugs*
  

  
  
  ME: 38, DH: 42, stopped BCPS 1/2013, TTC #1 2/2013, AMH 0.4, started acupuncture: 7/2013,
  BFP: 10/07/2013; MC 10/15/2013 @ 7 wks (natural), focused on health issues for 7 months.
  TTC again: 6/2014, 2nd round Letrozole, BFP 7/7/2014!!! --- EDD 3/18/2015!!!
  
  
  

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• imsoexcited915 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry this happened to you. My thoughts are with you and your family

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• jessandandy09 member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss.  Prayers for you and your family through this the most difficult of all times.  

  Aug 15 April Siggy challenge: Baby Shower fails:

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Regan1976 member

  January 2015

  Many many hugs.

  *bfp mentioned*

  Me: 38. Diagnosed PCOs 09, took 'em long enough. Low Thyroid 13.

  SO: 41. Diabetic. We are not married yet in the legal sense. 

  Together since Feb 09. TTC since Jan 11.

  6 Clomid cycles. Mostly BFN one BFP but chemical Aug 12.

  IUI #1-3 Menopur and Ovidrel BFN. 

  IUI #4 Gonal-F and Ovidrel BFN.
  

  IUI #5 Gonal-F and Ovidrel BFP 9/15 

  Maternit21 all clear and a boy!

  
  

  
  

  

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• deladie member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss and so appreciative that you shared.  We were just delivered similar news. So sad.  It is devastating.  We are trying to regroup.  Sounds like you are as well.

  
  

  Stay strong.

  
  

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• nyc2015 member

  January 2015

  IndyMom- thinking of you. I hope you are healing and doing okay.  Hugs.

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• nyc2015 member

  January 2015

  Hi again Indy, I hope you are healing well and have found some clarity as you said you were hoping for.  Our experiences sound almost identical.  At 9 wk 3 day scan today (had 2), no heartbeat.  Considering a d and c tomorrow.  I hope you are doing alright.   

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