I might be alone but...

ambmama · January 2015

I'm not migrating to the new board. I get why people did, and I get why people left and why people are mad. But, for me, I like this board and I already feel guilty that I'm not on here enough. I stepped down from posting on other boards (AL boards) bc I can't handle more than one board plus FB and IG in my life. It's a lot. So I'll be here. If this dies, then I'll kit over the other networks. I just don't feel like I'm going to add a whole new site/board to my mix when I literally sometimes feel stressed about silly social media already. I'll definitely miss all who left but I feel like it's just ONE MORE THING. And I'm not ready to give up on this board yet!

OhBaby+2013 · January 2015

I will be right here with you. I like it here!

DCKate · January 2015

Same here, mama!

Jessie333 · January 2015

I'm staying here too :-) plus I don't like the format on the new site.

Kyleedawn08 · January 2015

I feel the same. I feel the need to keep up with way too many already. I am not letting myself add another website to the mix

loreeann86 · January 2015

I'm sad that I just found my way back here and people are leaving. I've pretty much always been a lurker but have loved everything I've learned and the friends I've made. But I understand. I haven't checked out the other board yet.

OhBaby+2013 · January 2015

@chilibeansm0m‌ I must admit this made me tear up. I am sad to see you go. You are right it is "just the internet" but this board has meant so much to me and all on us that it definitely stings. I remember when you got attacked by non J13 members for speaking your mind and how you had to take a break because on it and how we all missed you. Sorry to see you go. I wish you nothing but good health and happiness! Hopefully you will let us know when baby arrives!

Sep5Bride · January 2015

I'm staying. It takes me too long to learn new things.

Mom2anAngel2 · January 2015

I'm not leaving. I mostly lurk in my other BMB, as I did here while pg with DS. I am hoping that, once everyone has their babies, it will settle into a more supportive board as this one did. I have already seen a difference, but I don't know if that is because people have left to the new board or if they are too busy with their LOs to sign in. Either way, I love how supportive you ladies are to one another and have learned so much just reading through posts.

jobiann · January 2015

I made an account on the other site but honestly only check it every few days. Let's face it, I pretty much only lurk and post on this board so I'm staying put! And I hope no one takes offense, but I'm really super selective of who I add to my FB page so if I'm not adding you, give me time!

@Chilibeansm0m

I'm very sad to see you go but completely understand your decision. Hopefully you'll check in when you can! We'll miss you! A little NPR to send you off!

jobiann · January 2015

We'll miss you too @2013mommy & @esmereldasspark!

I'll see you on the flip side every now and again!! I just got on over there a bit ago and I received a cookie badge from Patrick...I like him already! LOL!

OhBaby+2013 · January 2015

@2013mommy‌ and @esmereldasspark‌ you will be missed! Thanks for all of the support you have shown me over the pas t 2 years! Wishing you all the best and hope you will check in with us every so often!

gagirl2004 · January 2015

Ok someone tell me what is the new site so I can at least check it out. I have no plans to leave here but I could do both. Im always up for some new mama friends.

jjdillie · January 2015

I mostly lurk and rarely post so didn't want to friend request people on FB. I just hope this board doesn't die. I love reading along but most of the time my work computer won't let me post and I'm just too busy in the evening to catch up. I love how supportive everyone is here. I'm sad we are losing people. Hopefully I can start posting more frequently.

ambmama · January 2015

I will miss everyone who isn't here! But hopefully I have most of you on IG or FB!! I'm on them both a lot more than here, typically. Gosh this is such a mess.

Jessie333 · January 2015

@gagirl2004‌ ygpm

OhBaby+2013 · January 2015

@jjdillie‌ nice to see you, it's been awhile!
@ambmama‌ it is a total mess but I have faith we will make it!

ohiodoxiemama08 · January 2015

I will probably be here and there. I love all you ladies so much that I want to keep in touch. I also love IG tons. I probably like that best because we can see pics and I feel that our #jan13mamas club is so tight. I understand why people are staying and going though. It's been harder for me to stay active on any board here recently because I've been so busy with grad school and just exhausted with pregnancy.

It is crazy how much things are changing. I didn't post much while pregnant with DD but since she has been born this board has been an amazing support system. I've never been overly thrilled with my new BMB. It's not that I don't like it but it's just so busy and I feel like there is an "in" crowd that I'm not really a part of. So I'm not sure if I'll be active much there at all. Those ladies just aren't you guys!

ambmama · January 2015

By the way, all sticking around - I'll try to do the daily posts not being done anymore by people who left. I'm still hoping the other board has a site malfunction and they all come back, though

bennikki · January 2015

I'm staying here, but I may check out the other board. My board usage has declined greatly since having DS2 in November, but I just got back into the swing of things, and I will greatly miss all of you who are leaving. I get it, but you will be greatly missed! I can't believe DS1 is turning 2 tomorrow, and you all have been there every step of the way!

Can I get the other board's info please @Jessie333 ? Thanks!

JJsMum · January 2015

I know I don't post a whole lot, but I don't think I'll be coming back around here much anymore. I just don't like what has been done, and where the site is headed, and I can't support it. I am moving over to PB though, and would like to be part of the Jan13 FB group if you ladies will have me, I'm a lot more active on FB!

Jessie333 · January 2015

@bennikki‌ ygpm :-)

luvindanimals · January 2015

Can't leave you ladies totally. I will probably be more active on PB but I want to see what's going on here too. Still wishing this was one of my weird pregnancy nightmares and TB didn't go crazy and so many of you awesome ladies weren't leaving for good!

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spainy17 · January 2015

@JJsMum‌ ... I'll add you to Facebook just find me or shoot me your name!

I'm staying here. I love you guys. @chilibeansm0m‌ there were times when I felt like you and I were the only people with babies not sleeping in the world and I should have told you how much that meant to me, just to have someone in the trenches with me. I'm going to cry typing this and my husband is going to think I'm weird but I just hate this and we are just thinking about trying for number two and now I'm whining but I don't wanna do that without you guys and I don't want another birth month board or message board our anything. I just want you people to sit in your computers and be here forever dang it. I'm happy with the Facebook group because its easier to do on my phone and I feel like I can get to know you better without being as anonymous but I'm not leaving here. Ever. Unless you all leave me and then I'll give up and take up knitting or something. Sigh.

court115 · January 2015

@ClaryPax said it best. I feel like we're being forced to pick sides in a fight that I wasn't apart of and don't really understand. I did check out the other board but I didn't get the same feeling as I do here. The J13 board over there is great but I lurked on some of the others (including my new BMB) and it just seems sort of negative.

OhBaby+2013 · January 2015

@court115‌ that's exactly how I feel.

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