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2 years ago today

SaltyDonutSaltyDonut member
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Was the saddest day of my life when I had to say hello & goodbye to my first son, Scottie. In the two years since I lost him there isn't a day that goes by I don't think of him. Unless it's my S/O people barely mention him and it bothers me but I don't feel the need to make a deal of it because honestly will come out in a way that wouldn't honor my son's memory, which in my opinion is the most important thing. I want to be the kind of mom that he is proud of even if it is in Heaven. But today early in the morning out of the blue I get a text message from a former coworker turned friend acknowledging Scottie's birthday and my broken heart and it has really taken the edge off of the day. But it makes me even more grateful for a friend like her. 

I really didn't know who else I could share this with, aside from my S/O but u know men so the most i'd get will be "that's nice", because this board you ladies got me through 2013 hands down. 
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  • shandorfml2shandorfml2 member


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    Happy angelversary to Scottie. Big hugs mama, I'm glad your coworker remembered him

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  • ikrystalikrystal member
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    Happy angelversary to your little one.  Sending love and prayers. 
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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
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    What s wonderful friend. I'm so glad she showed you that Scottie is remembered. Sending hugs your way on his angelversary.
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  • Morena MamaMorena Mama member
    Happy angelversary to your Scottie. Big, big hugs!
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  • stefugestefuge member
    Happy angelversary to your Scottie. Big ((hugs)) mama.
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  • Vicki1985Vicki1985 member
    Happy angelversary to your sweet boy Scottie <3 love and hugs to you 
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  • bunnybun4bunnybun4 member

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    happy angelversary, sweet scotty!

    what a sweet friend!

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Happy belated birthday, Scottie!  And I'm so glad your friend remembered and acknowledged your little guy.  Hearing others acknowledge our angels is the most wonderful feeling.
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  • msunshine123msunshine123 member
    Happy belated birthday to Scottie and I'm glad your friend remembered too!
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  • luckyclover0922luckyclover0922 member
    edited January 2015
    **siggy warning** Happy belated birthday Scottie!! It is such a wonderful feeling when people acknowledge our little ones that are no longer with us. Over the holidays I had a really hard time with my parents when they did not even talk about Our Christopher and discussed to others that we are having our first child... Which she is not. I think a lot of people think that by mentioning the children that we lost that it might be hurtful to us but it is actually quite lovely... I wish they understood that we never forget our babies and love to hear that other people remember them too. ((Hugs)) to you.

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  • Littleowl913Littleowl913 member
    Happy Belated Birthday Scottie! That was so sweet that your friend remembered him. It makes me tear up when hearing that people acknowledge our angels. Unfortunately that's not always the case ((hugs)).
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  • mrswheelomrswheelo member
    edited January 2015
    Happy belated birthday Scottie! What a great friend! I agree with @luckyclover0922‌ . I wish more ppl understood how nice it is to hear them talk about our babies. It lets me know they aren't forgotten. But most ppl are too uncomfortable :-<
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  • jonahsmajonahsma member
    Happy belated Scottie! ((hugs)) mama
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