Late Term and Child Loss

who is sticking around?

shandorfml2shandorfml2 member
edited January 2015 in Late Term and Child Loss
So, the bump has exploded. Who is sticking around? Anyone jumping ship? I made an account on the other site but its hard to figure out. It totally sucked this happend...TB has been part of my life for three years and has gotten me through the darkest days of my life.

Where do you stand?

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Re: who is sticking around?

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    I'm sticking around. I'm not even fully sure what has happened, I just keep seeing moderator posts. I'm not super active on the other boards, just this one. As long as this board stays a safe haven, I'm staying.
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  • I'm staying here not really sure what is going on but I've really enjoyed this board so far and found the women so supportive and friendly I hope that a good deal of you ladies stick around.
    Noah Gabriel due:4/21/15 born sleeping 12/22/14

    Hoping for a Rainbow in 2016
  • I set up an account at the other board today, but I don't know. I'm not really active on any other boards other than this one, and like ikrystal, I'm not too sure what has gone down. I'm happy staying here or going there - I guess whatever the bulk of you ladies are doing.
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    DS1 born 6/5/10 at 40 weeks via emergency c-section due to fetal distress and IUGR caused by placental insufficiency
    DS2 born still 8/28/13 at 32 weeks via emergency c-section due to a complete placental abruption - cause unknown
    Baby #3 on the way, EDD 2/29/16.  Originally twins, but we said goodbye to Baby B at 8 weeks.
  • 99% sure I'm gone. I have seen this board through from the time it was just an idea, and what happened today feels like such a slap in the face. It makes me sad to leave, but it think my time here is done.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • ***siggy warning


    I'm staying, but I did create a profile on the other site as there are women there i'd like to continue to stay in touch with.
    This is the board I'm staying for. So long as it doesn't change I'll be here.
  • ikrystal said: I'm sticking around. I'm not even fully sure what has happened, I just keep seeing moderator posts. I'm not super active on the other boards, just this one. As long as this board stays a safe haven, I'm staying.

    All of this...

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • I do both. When the SAHM board exodus happened a few months ago I went with. I mostly lurk outside of this board on TB now.
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  • angelsnightangelsnight member
    edited January 2015
    Ticker warning

    I'm staying for this board at least. I made an account today but haven't used it yet. Even if I use the new one (which so far only has one board for both early and late loss, which I don't like) I'll be here as well. I feel safe here.

    Edit: disregard the part in parenthesis, it's been changed)
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  • I don't really know what's going on... but im staying. im here to give support (when I can)

    I just can't leave the ladies here have been by my side for the last 14 months.

    im here for the long haul

  • Petra made a "tell all" post about what really happened in ttcal before jumping ship. I didn't think there was anything to worry about after reading the updated terms, but the actions of the BG have been very shady. All of the mods have been "fired" & are being replaced with outside, paid mods. Not sure how much it will change this board, but things are getting weird....
  • I agree that this board is the reason I am staying. PgAL and my BMB took a big hit and a lot of people have left. I will probably hang around both, as a lot of ladies I want to stay in touch with went to the other site. But, the other site does not have a specific late term loss board. I think we've created a pretty safe haven here, and I really hope the drama stays out of it. (It has since I've been here!)

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  • I did see they have a late loss board over there. I will probably lurk on both.

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    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013

    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

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  • **ticker**

    I'm really glad the drama stayed out of this board. I went lurking on the other ones and good grief.... I really hope we can continue to make this board a supportive place for everyone.
  • Littleowl913Littleowl913 member
    edited January 2015
    TTCAL took a huge hit after all that went down so I've been over on the dark side since but still intended to come back here for this Board only. After Petra's post yesterday, I felt sick to my stomach coming over here so I'm staying there for good. I was relieved to see a bunch of us over there - the board's title is Late Term Loss. 

    I don't know what I would have done after Ronin's death without this Board. I didn't know how much comfort a group of strangers going through their own loss could give me. It made me feel as if it was my duty to give back that support to those who needed it. It makes me teary eyed thinking about not coming back but I hope to see you guys over there!

    ETA: name of the Board
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  • I'm in both places. I'll keep checking this board as long as it is here and active.
    Abigail Grace 9/7/10
    Nathaniel Willis born sleeping 2/6/14
    Felicity Hope 4/6/15

  • I'm staying here for this. Nothing has happened in this board so why bother jumping ship? BMB exploded, but I don't really care enough... This was the reason I visit the bump so much.
  • ***Ticker Warning***

     

     

    I am sticking around. I am also going to check our the other board.

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  • I had a hint of drama on another board months ago so I chose to be only active on this board which has been such a blessing. I will probably try to be active on the new board as well as everyone of you have been such an awesome support system.

    Married my rock - April 29, 2011
    BFP - June 4, 2011 EDD February 3, 2012
    Super T born @ 37 weeks - January 13, 2012
    Super T diagnosed with stage IV high risk Neuroblastoma nmyc-amp - January 2, 2013
    Super T cancer free - June 19, 2013
    Super T relapsed - January 2, 2014
    Super T earned his angel wings - January 3, 2014
     
    TTC for #2 beginning November 2014
    BFP #2 - Chemical Pregnancy - Confirmed May 29, 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS; HSG - Clear; SA - Clear
    Clomid #1 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #2 - BFN
    Femera Cycle #3 - BFP 11/10/15 - EDD 07/14/16
     
     
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  • ***sig warning***

    I am mostly only on this board, so I'm planning on sticking around.  I have never really noticed drama over here, and see it staying that way.  I might check out the new boards, but just out of curiosity. 

    Me 32 (Stage IV Endometriosis, short luteal phase) DH 38

    Married 5/2010

    January 2014- DS born healthy at 35.4 weeks

    February 2014- DS passed away due to complications from adenovirus

    February 2015- Rainbow baby DD born at 36.3 weeks

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  • I'm staying here. This board and all of the women here have been a huge support for me since I lost my son. I can't imagine going anywhere else.
  • *siggy

    So glad that everyone sees this board as a supportive, safe place. 

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    BFP # 2 8/7/14 EDD 4/22/15
    Please be our rainbow!!

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  • I will be here for as long as you guys and my friends on SIF are here. PgAL and my BMB are over there though so I'll be present over there for anyone who heads that way as well. You ladies are way too important for me to walk away over all of this TB craziness.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • I am checking both boards for now. Since there has not been drama on this board and you ladies are amazing, I'm not ready to leave yet.
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  • Wow. I haven't been on in a while, but I am so sorry things went crazy. I'm glad this board has remained a safe place, as it should be.

    Like like many of you, this board was literally my only support and I could not have gotten through those early weeks and months without you ladies.

    I don't come here often anymore, but I do feel that if I can maybe help someone the way many of you helped me, I should. So, I will be here when I can.
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    BFP #1 Jan. 2011 - mmc Mar. 2011 
    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
  • Carolee said:

    99% sure I'm gone. I have seen this board through from the time it was just an idea, and what happened today feels like such a slap in the face. It makes me sad to leave, but it think my time here is done.

    @carolee I will be sad to see you go. You have done an amazing job and helped many moms. Thank you for taking care of our little family.
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    BFP #2 Aug. 2011 - My sleeping angel Stella, born April 21, 2012 
    BFP #3 Nov. 2012 - mmc Dec. 2012
    BFP #4 April 2013 - mc May 2013
    BFP #5 Sept. 2013 - EDD 5.24.14
  • Good to hear from you @Bayberry12‌ hope all is well!

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    Please be our rainbow!!

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  • I've been clicking around other boards and wowsers--XO Group really screwed up. The Nest experienced a mass exodus to PB about 3-4 years ago and that is still a ghost town, so I think I'm going to apply for dual citizenship and head over to GBCB to join PgAL before I chicken out...again.

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    IUIs # 1-5 = BFFN
    IVF # 1(July 2012) = BFN
    IVF # 2 (November 2012) = BFP (MIssed MC D&C @ 8w3d on 1/10/13)
    IVF # 3 (June 2013) = BFN 
    IVF # 4 (September 2013) = BFP Fraternal twin boys! (Loss at 21w6d due to IC on 1/26/14...devastated.)
    3/21/14--TAC (transabdominal cerclage) w/Dr. Davis in NJ
    IVF # 5 (May 2014) = BFN
    FET (August 2014) = BFN

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  • I didn't realize so much had happened since I'd been gone...I'll be staying, for whatever my staying is worth! ;)
  • I'm straddling...the only board I'm really sticking with over here is this one.

    the formatting on the other board drives me crazy but i am trying to stick with it since so many of my pgal/bmb peeps have moved over there. 

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    8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)

    -5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)

    11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13

    8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF

    IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties

    12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!!  One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15

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