TTC After a Loss

May Ladies Check In

Hi all, I'm doing a shortened version of this today, still trying to figure out completely who is where. If you are just lurking and don't want to be a part of this check-in please PM me or post below. I want to be sure no one gets left but I will be mostly posting on the other board going forward. (Check your pm's)


This is a check-in for anyone who had a loss or an EDD in May (of any year).  I will post every other week. After the first week please do  not bump the thread up. If you are having a rough time feel free to PM me.

 

I am so sorry for each one of your losses. I hope that this can be a place to give support and help each other through this difficult time. Members, give us an update on how you are doing. If I didn’t tag you with specific questions, it’s only because we didn’t hear from you last week (or for a few weeks) - please jump back in. Please pop in and let us know how you’re doing even if you don’t have time to respond to everyone individually this week! New members, introduce yourself so that we can get to know you.

 

If you get a BFP, please PM me and let me know so that we can congratulate you on PgAL. I try to lurk on PgAL often, but sometimes it’s tough and I might miss it. Please send me a PM also if you are taking a Bump Break. 


~*~ Our Members and Our Angels’ May EDDs ~*~

@King26- EDD 5/4/15, @alm288 - EDD 5/27/14, @cavewmn- EDD 5/19/15, @Km380 - EDD 5/5/2014, @linkloveszelda26 - EDD 5/13/2015, @Menrandes - EDD 5/4/14, @nikiswimr- EDD 5/22/15, @ScubaDiva- EDD 5/14/15, @ElsieMae EDD 5/23/15, @MellyMel15 – EDD 5/6/15 @23Tez23 – EDD 5/4/15, @sweetcalttc1 EDD 5/25/15 

PgAL welcome


Married 6/11/2011

Me & Hubby: 34

TTC journey started 12/2012

BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

Also have hypothyroidism

Started TTC again 12/2013

 

IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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Re: May Ladies Check In

  • Hi @Km380, I am here. I hope you are doing well. Thanks for the check-in. Nothing going on with me... Just finding my new normal post D&C. This month I will be using an OPK for the first time and hopefully temping more regularly. 

    How is everything going with you? 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
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  • Hi @Km380, I am here. I hope you are doing well. Thanks for the check-in. Nothing going on with me... Just finding my new normal post D&C. This month I will be using an OPK for the first time and hopefully temping more regularly. 


    How is everything going with you? 
    Hey hon, good luck temping. I could never quite get the hang of doing it.

    Not much here, Just prepping for FET next week. Eek!

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • Hey lady, thanks for checking in.
    Not much going on here.  Debating if we want to TTA this cycle.  Reasons being our bike trip.  I think being in the first month of a pregnancy on a bike trip like that would make me nervous, even though I know it would ok.
    So, I'm not sure yet.
    Other than that, just more bike trip stuff.  I have to keep my mind on something, and it looks like the trip is what I am occupying my brain with!
    We met in middle school. We got married 15 years later in a February blizzard of 2010. 
    TTC since February 2010
    Diagnosed with Lyme Disease June 2010 Diagnosed with PCOS March 2011 Diagnosed with Celiac Disease January 2013
    BFP #1: August 25th 2013 EDD May 4th 2014 SCH MC October 3rd 2013
    BFP #2: February 14th 2014 EDD October 25th 2014 CP February 17th 2014

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  • Menrandes said:

    Hey lady, thanks for checking in.
    Not much going on here.  Debating if we want to TTA this cycle.  Reasons being our bike trip.  I think being in the first month of a pregnancy on a bike trip like that would make me nervous, even though I know it would ok.
    So, I'm not sure yet.
    Other than that, just more bike trip stuff.  I have to keep my mind on something, and it looks like the trip is what I am occupying my brain with!

    It's awesome the bike trip is keeping your mind occupied! Tough one on TTA, I totally get what you are saying about being nervous. Let us know what you decide

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • cavewmn said:

    BFN today. At least this means my appendectomy can happen anytime. We are now TTA until after it happens. I am still waiting to hear from the hospital to set up my surgery.  :-w


    Trying shakes that are suppose to help with energy in the morning. Now for most of the day I am not fighting sleep but I still don't have energy. 
    :((

    I wish this ball would roll faster. I just want to know what is wrong with me! 

    ***BFP's Mentioned not mine. ***

    Since we have been TTC I have always had 3 people around me pregnant.  
    I have 7 people around me pregnant right now. No bueno.....
    One I am stuck seeing monthly. Another if I have to make more doctor appointments. 
    My niece gets married in March and I really thing in a month or two she will be pregnant herself....
    I am feeling like a real debby downer lately. 

    Oh sweetie I am so sorry. (((Hugs))) for the bfn. I hope you hear from the hospital soon. Keep us updated.
    And all those people in your life, shit. I'm sorry that is so hard (((hugs))) we're here for you

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • @scubadiva30 good luck with the temping/charting.  I like it leading up to O, so I know what's going on, but think I'm not going to temp in the 2ww anymore.  Too much over analyzing. 

    @cavewmn good luck with the appy, I hope you hear from the hospital soon.  And sorry things have been so tough lately.

    @menrandes, your bike trip sounds awesome!  At least that's something fun to occupy your brain.

    @km380 I'll be thinking about you next week!

    IUI #2 was a BFFN for me.  Stopped progesterone and now just waiting for AF so I can have a WTF convo with the RE on CD1.  I guess we're probably doing another IUI but I want different drugs as my response hasn't been great to Clomid.  I'm honestly really not feeling doing another cycle.  Trying to keep myself occupied with the move (next Thursday!)
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

  • nikiswimr said:

    IUI #2 was a BFFN for me.  Stopped progesterone and now just waiting for AF so I can have a WTF convo with the RE on CD1.  I guess we're probably doing another IUI but I want different drugs as my response hasn't been great to Clomid.  I'm honestly really not feeling doing another cycle.  Trying to keep myself occupied with the move (next Thursday!)
    Sorry you are going through this. Sucks. Hopefully your RE convo helps somewhat. Sending warm thoughts your way. 
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
  • @cavewmn

    Good luck with the appendectomy. Sorry you have to deal with all those ladies. That's tough...
     Me: 30, DH: 30. Dating since 2007- Married: 5/18/13. 
    BFP: 9/3/14, Found out we had triplets 10/10/14,  EDD: 5/14/15, Confirmed MMC: 10/14/14. D&C: 10/16/14.
    Formerly TashaCN and wonderigwhatmyfutureholds

    All AL welcome. 
  • nikiswimr said:

    @scubadiva30 good luck with the temping/charting.  I like it leading up to O, so I know what's going on, but think I'm not going to temp in the 2ww anymore.  Too much over analyzing. 


    @cavewmn good luck with the appy, I hope you hear from the hospital soon.  And sorry things have been so tough lately.

    @menrandes, your bike trip sounds awesome!  At least that's something fun to occupy your brain.

    @km380 I'll be thinking about you next week!

    IUI #2 was a BFFN for me.  Stopped progesterone and now just waiting for AF so I can have a WTF convo with the RE on CD1.  I guess we're probably doing another IUI but I want different drugs as my response hasn't been great to Clomid.  I'm honestly really not feeling doing another cycle.  Trying to keep myself occupied with the move (next Thursday!)
    (((Hugs))) I'm sorry the IUI was a bust. I hope he changes the meds if you decide to do another. My 2nd IUI was Letrozole and 1 follistim shot. Good luck with the move!

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • Hi ladies, I realize I gave a pretty brief update on me. I had my lining check yesterday and lining looks good. I'm starting pio shots tomorrow and FET will be Monday! Yesterday was my last shot free day for awhile. We are transferring 1 embryo and I'm also doing acupuncture right before transfer. I'm excited and nervous and terrified!

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • I'm still here.   Well got a BFN after IUI #4.  Oh well.  We were going to do IUI #5 this month but we are on vacation so I couldn't do the day 3 ultrasound.  So we are just doing TI this month.  We'll do IUI #5 in February, then IVF at the beginning of April.

    @KM380  Good luck with the FET!

    @scubadiva30  Good luck temping.  My temps were spot on until my loss.   Now they are all over the place.  I hope yours are more consistant! 

    @cavewmn  Sorry about the BFN.   Good luck on your surgery.

    @nikiswimr  Sorry bout the BFN.  Have you thought of trying another med?  I had a much quicker response to Letrozole then I did for Clomid and less side effects.
  • king26 said:

    I'm still here.   Well got a BFN after IUI #4.  Oh well.  We were going to do IUI #5 this month but we are on vacation so I couldn't do the day 3 ultrasound.  So we are just doing TI this month.  We'll do IUI #5 in February, then IVF at the beginning of April.

    @KM380  Good luck with the FET!

    @scubadiva30  Good luck temping.  My temps were spot on until my loss.   Now they are all over the place.  I hope yours are more consistant! 

    @cavewmn  Sorry about the BFN.   Good luck on your surgery.

    @nikiswimr  Sorry bout the BFN.  Have you thought of trying another med?  I had a much quicker response to Letrozole then I did for Clomid and less side effects.

    (((Hugs))) I'm sorry for the bfn. Where are you going on vacation?

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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  • Ladies, I'm out. I was holding on for a few reasons but I'm done here. I will check pm's for a little while but I will not be returning. You know where to find me (and if you don't pm me) and I truly hope to see all of you there. I could not leave without telling you all.

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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