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still not sleeping through the night....

Anyone else still not sleeping through the night? In fact it seems like the waking has gotten worse? I'm not talking about a growth spurt or something lIke that. Any of you that are so lucky to get to sleep all night how do you do it??: I bf , but lo gets bottles whIle away from me

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    He wakes up more now than he did as a newborn (like 3x a night). Blah. But he also just cut his first tooth this weekend so I don't feel comfortable doing any sleep training (and he's not even 6 months yet anyway).
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    Yep. Still waking up 2-3 times/night. Also refusing naps. :neutral_face:
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    Every 2 hours here. Though I just introduced brown rice cereal and I'm feeding now after a 4 hour stretch! I'm slowly trying to help her learn to self soothe but will do some legitimate sleep training once she hits 6 months in a month. I keep holding out hope that she can work into healthier sleep patterns on her own.

    My goal is not sttn but to reduce to 2 and then 1 wakeup per night.
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    Still every 1-3 hours here. Introducing solids didn't seem to help at all.
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    I'm in the 1-3 hour club. Solids didn't help us either. Nursing is the only way to get her back to sleep.
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    Yeah solids don't seem to help us at all and weve been looking for teeth, if nothing else but for an explanation and we've yet to get any :/
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    Yes. DS wakes up once, maybe twice per night. Plus, my 17 month old.....she has never slept through the night. I pray that your Lo's give you rest soon. It's a bitch!!

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    Mine was waking up every one to two hours. So we gave up and started bedsharing this weekend -- put our mattress on the floor and everything. I'm getting a lot more sleep now though I'm sure someday I might wonder if this was really a good idea.
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    So I thought I was a baby whispering rock star when LO transitioned to the crib from the RNP with no problems the first night.  

    Welllllllllll, the subsequent nights have been hell on earth.  Up every 1-2 hours and he's all like "what the eff is THIS!?  This is NOT cozy!  I demand to be nursed!"  

    So far I've resisted putting him back in the RNP, but if this is the new normal I am totally screwed.
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    Same here. LO slept great (up to 7hr stretches) until about 4mths which is also about when we transitioned from RNP to crib..now she is up every 3 hrs. Waiting until 6 mths to start any type of sleep training though. was hoping that she would start STTN on her own but doesnt look like that is going to happen :(


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    Up for 1-2 feedings and another 1-2 pacifier fixes. She is starting to self soothe, sometimes she fusses for a few minutes and will quiet back down. This is a huge improvement over where we were a month ago.

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    Up 3x a night usually. She won't be rocked or soothed, just wants the boob. She slept SO well a couple of months ago, then this started. Hopefully we'll be back to sanity soon! LOL, though I doubt it...

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    Thanks for posting this, I'm in the same boat as all of you. Ugh!
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    Usually up 3x a night here, too. Every once in awhile I get 2 times, and often it's 4. Getting her to sleep at night is the worst. I'm so glad I'm not alone! I'm ready to not be a zombie at the office.
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    DD will usually only wake once between 3-6 AM, but sometimes she's up 3 or more times. Luckily, she's easy to get back down and she knows how to fall asleep on her own.
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    Our little munchkin is waking up about 10 times within the first two hours of putting her down...and it goes on from there. She's had two colds in the past 6 weeks, I'm hoping it is related to this and will pass. Once the clock hits about 11:00 and she wakes up we take her in to bed with us, THEN she sleeps like a baby all night long. I'm just a little worried that we are starting a bad habit, but I can't deal with getting out of bed every half hour, and I don't think the baby is happy with all this waking up either, so bed sharing seems to be the temporary cure for us.
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    Yawn. I'm in the same club.

    He STTN 12 hours straight for 3 weeks at 3 months old, and for the last 3 months, he's been up at LEAST 1-2 times a night, every night. And his waking is actually getting earlier.

    I attempted the moms on call approach of pushing back feedings by checking/soothing every 5 minutes of fussing, no luck.

    We just came back from vacation on Saturday, where he slept til 5am 3 nights in a row, and stopped immediately when we got home.

    Last night, out of desperation, I experimented with a little CIO with 1-3-5 minute checks and he was infuriated.

    I am beyond the point of exhaustion. We were considering a third, but I can't even imagine that right now.
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    We're up 4-8 times a night. Every.damn.Night. 
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    BPer said:
    We were considering a third, but I can't even imagine that right now.
    That's crazy talk!  :)
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    Started sleep training cio and now he is up 2x down at 8pm- up at 1 am to feed them wakes around 7-8. Before sleep training he was waking every 2 hours to eat! Finally getting sleep!
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    You ladies just made my night! My baby was an angel sleeper until 3 months old.. Since then, she gets up at least 2x every night. I'm too tired to not just shove a boob in her mouth
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    I'm glad I'm not the only one whose kid slept well prior to 3 months. I wondered if I had done something wrong that I didn't realize! I miss those 4-7 hour stretches!
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    I've told Dh that I won't start trying for another until she sttn. Not that we were in a hurry anyway but that's my new qualifier. I remember how exhausting pregnancy was...
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    My almost 3 year old doesn't SSTN yet. Soooooooo needless too say I'm up all night long between the two. God bless coffee! ~O)
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    Thank goodness for this thread! Makes me feel a little less crazy.

    LO starts the night in her RNP (still haven't tried to make the transition to the crib) and then usually wakes up 2-3 hours later and I end up bringing her into bed with me because I'm too tired to care (of course we practice safe co-sleeping). But these days, even in bed with me, she's waking every 1-3 hours. Most nights I nurse her back to sleep.

    DD is already 6 months old and I'm about to start some sleep training this coming Friday.

    Anyone interested in me starting a sleep training thread for when others start or attempt to sleep train their LO's so we can document progress and offer support?!

     
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    I can't even begin to know where or what to do as far as sleep training goes!  ZZzz
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    Yes to sleep training thread, but idk when I will start sleep training. I'd love to see what has worked and not worked for others.
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    DD has decided to scream now when she wakes up instead of just cry. Only thing that stops the screaming is me. Not DH, unfortunately. As much as I love that she obviously loves her mama, I would like it if she would love her dad, too. Running on about 5 hours of sleep today. Ugh.
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    I'm glad I'm not the only one whose kid slept well prior to 3 months. I wondered if I had done something wrong that I didn't realize! I miss those 4-7 hour stretches!

    Same here exactly. I thought I had an amazing sleeper until she hit just over 3 months. Little did I know.
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    DD has decided to scream now when she wakes up instead of just cry. Only thing that stops the screaming is me. Not DH, unfortunately. As much as I love that she obviously loves her mama, I would like it if she would love her dad, too. Running on about 5 hours of sleep today. Ugh.

    You may not believe this but our LO ONLY screams. No crying. It's infuriating and nerve wrecking.

    Agree with PP, third kid= not a fat chance. This one did us in.

    DD is terrible at sleeping. Way too dependent on paci. I'm thinking of ditching that paci soon. Like this weekend.
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    Our DD has flat out refused to sleep at all the past 4 nights unless she is in our arms. Nothing works. We cannot live like this (taking shifts all night, every night). I don't understand why she is like this all of a sudden, but I have no idea how to get her to stop. Nothing seems to be working and my DH and I are both admittedly going a bit crazy.
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    LO refused to sleep at all last night unless he was on the boob.  I couldn't even take shifts, @january bride!!  This is definitely what they call "unsustainable"!!!
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    For us the swaddle is the key to her sleeping TTN. She likes one arm free. Now if she breaks out that other arm its a rough night. Problem is, she can't be swaddled forever. I will likely be in the same boat as you girls next week since we decided we will transition her off....
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    Same here. Everyone swore it would help. He also rolls over to yummy now to sleep. And still wakes up a lot.
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