April 6th due date joining...

kboesenberg · January 2015

I'm not sure what happened in the April community but it is REALLY screwed up! They completely filled almost all the pages with 24hrs of silence posts and it's really hostile.. I'm hoping to join the March birth club any other April due dates in here?!?

Capella99 · January 2015

I'm due April 6th as well

Whitfry · January 2015

karabrown said:

I'm not sure what happened in the April community but it is REALLY screwed up! They completely filled almost all the pages with 24hrs of silence posts and it's really hostile.. I'm hoping to join the March birth club any other April due dates in here?!?

I feel threatened by the fact that you are coming to a different BMB to speak negatively about your previous BMB. I don't feel comfortable that you will not then go elsewhere to try and spread negativity and unnecessary drama about A15 and also M15.

Just in case you have been unable to log-on recently, TB has released new posting guidelines in order to help us create a safer and more positive space. I feel like this post disregards those new guidelines that have been introduced, because this post seems as if it is trying to spread a less-than-positive image of members of this community. Please respect the members of this community and do not speak negatively about them, it makes us all feel vulnerable to needless drama.

I believe I speak for all of M15 when I say that we are committed to upholding the new safety standards that TB, in it's infinite wisdom, has imposed upon us. As such, I would ask that you desist in your negative portrayal of A15. Many of us in M15 have developed close and supportive relationships with members of that board, and it is hurtful to see our friends maligned. That not only attacks A15, but M15 and the whole inclusive and supportive community of The Bump.

If you cannot operate within the new guidelines and speak positively of your old boardmates, I will have to politely request that you refrain from bringing your negativity and drama to M15.

lawsonellis · January 2015

Seriously @whitfry you have the opportunity to have the biggest harem ever - just say the word. We're all in line. :P

Whitfry · January 2015

lawsonellis said:

Seriously @whitfry you have the opportunity to have the biggest harem ever - just say the word. We're all in line. :P

DH would be thrilled to death... he's been talking about an interest in voyeurism for years.

FrecklesInside · January 2015

This is hilarious.

kboesenberg · January 2015

I had no intention of bashing A15 and no future plans of leaving M15. I am for the rules that are put in place to keep the atmosphere respectful and positive. I really enjoyed reading the posts on A15 and when I logged in today and saw the whole board had been over thrown by nonsense I was shocked! As a first time mom I may not have a lot to post but I do enjoy following others progress and reading posts that could relate to what I'm going through.. After all isn't helping each other and being part of a community the whole reason for the BMB. I'm sorry you feel threatened by my switch and entry post but I can assure you there's nothing negative or threatening about me.

Whitfry · January 2015

karabrown said:

I had no intention of bashing A15 and no future plans of leaving M15. I am for the rules that are put in place to keep the atmosphere respectful and positive. I really enjoyed reading the posts on A15 and when I logged in today and saw the whole board had been over thrown by nonsense I was shocked! As a first time mom I may not have a lot to post but I do enjoy following others progress and reading posts that could relate to what I'm going through.. After all isn't helping each other and being part of a community the whole reason for the BMB. I'm sorry you feel threatened by my switch and entry post but I can assure you there's nothing negative or threatening about me.

Would you kindly clarify why you accused a board that just suffered a devastating loss hostile?

kboesenberg · January 2015

Sure! I don't take kindly to members telling other members to suck di** and fu** off.. Or that they don't give a fu** about what they are going through.. Just not my cup of tea.

janda426 · January 2015

karabrown said:
I had no intention of bashing A15 and no future plans of leaving M15. I am for the rules that are put in place to keep the atmosphere respectful and positive. I really enjoyed reading the posts on A15 and when I logged in today and saw the whole board had been over thrown by nonsense I was shocked! As a first time mom I may not have a lot to post but I do enjoy following others progress and reading posts that could relate to what I'm going through.. After all isn't helping each other and being part of a community the whole reason for the BMB. I'm sorry you feel threatened by my switch and entry post but I can assure you there's nothing negative or threatening about me.

So you're coming here like weeks before all of us are due, to this community we've had established since June, to tell us you're now joining and trying to educate us on how a BMB should work? Lol ok.

Your BMB just suffered a devastating loss. Were you there to offer support then?

kboesenberg · January 2015

If you look at A15 there's really no way to show support as it is filled page after page with the silence post... I'm not educating anyone on how BMB should work just looking for a more supportive community that is positive and useful.

Whitfry · January 2015

karabrown said:

Sure! I don't take kindly to members telling other members to suck di** and fu** off.. Or that they don't give a fu** about what they are going through.. Just not my cup of tea.

Disliking the varied opinions and debates shared by others and complaining about them is a "don't" within the new posting guidelines. You are, of course, entitled to your own opinion. However coming to another BMB to complain about your previous BMB is spreading unwanted negativity and spreading needless drama.

M15 does not need your negative attitude here. We thank you for ceasing your posting activity. You are, of course, welcome to disagree respectfully and continue to post here. But please be mindful of your tone and attitude, as it would be a real shame for you to get banned for harassing the members of M15 and A15 due to your need to create a poor environment for all.

janda426 · January 2015

karabrown said:
If you look at A15 there's really no way to show support as it is filled page after page with the silence post... I'm not educating anyone on how BMB should work just looking for a more supportive community that is positive and useful.

Umm that just happened TODAY, that board has been around since like July...

And again, you get what you give. Have you been supportive, positive and useful?

almeyer2013 · January 2015

I am feeling hostile right now... This may not end well..

DragonflyDreaming · January 2015

janda426 said:

karabrown said:
If you look at A15 there's really no way to show support as it is filled page after page with the silence post... I'm not educating anyone on how BMB should work just looking for a more supportive community that is positive and useful.
Umm that just happened TODAY, that board has been around since like July...

And again, you get what you give. Have you been supportive, positive and useful?

This exactly. You have had months to show support and love to members of the community.

Coming in and bad mouthing a group who has poured out support for a mom who has lost her child, that's just mean. We don't appreciate mean, here.

jnowosielski · January 2015

karabrown said:
If you look at A15 there's really no way to show support as it is filled page after page with the silence post... I'm not educating anyone on how BMB should work just looking for a more supportive community that is positive and useful.

Wait. The silence was for the members who had losses no? You are calling this screwed up and nonsense?

No.

Eta Didn't realize loss meant banned. That's weird.