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An orgasm you say? Oh, it's just a clicky poll....

edited January 2015 in Trying to Get Pregnant
Since the topic of sex has been brought up, is it weird to ask how YOU get off? I've been reading too much smut lately which amazes me to no end the amount of good sex those characters have. 8->

An orgasm you say? Oh, it's just a clicky poll.... 201 votes

P in the V
19% 39 votes
P in the V + California attention
46% 93 votes
California Love only
30% 61 votes
What's an orgasm?
3% 8 votes

Re: An orgasm you say? Oh, it's just a clicky poll....

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  • I lurve the honesty. I agree with the learning. Childhood abuse left me shy and inexperienced and prudish until I decided to take control and allow myself to enjoy myself. After the first earth shattering O I was hooked. Only took me 27 years to get there!!! Oh and DH is much happier too haha

    Me: 28 
    DH: 34

    IUD out 8/29/13 and TTC since then.
    BFP 12/29/13
    Bleeding 1/17/14 with LO showing 10 days smaller.
    NMC 1/26/14

    Continued trying every month. Began seeing RE 7/2014.

    12/2/14 got first Rx for Clomid for following cycle.
    12/3/14 BFP!!!
    No heartbeat at 8w4d. D&C scheduled for Jan 7, 14 

  • I had no idea until recently that lots of people don't have an orgasm with just P in V. Either DH is very good at what he does, or I'm weird. No assistance is required for me.
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  • I need me some California attention along with the P in the V.

    The wi-vibe has been good to "help things along" ;)
    Married since 9-27-14 
    TTC since Oct 2014
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  • Joy2611 said:
    It took me a while to master the P+V=O without assistance from a bullet/fingers.
    It's a skill.  That I worked at.  And think it was worth every minute to learn.
    So much this.
    TEACH ME YOUR WAYS ;)
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  • I always had trouble with P in the V until I found this great invention called the Rabbit. I've broken two of them but now I don't seem to have the issue anymore. So yay for the rabbit.
    Also DH is a California love pro. It's one of his best skills.
    Met 6/5/10, Married 11/11/11, TTC #1 -8/14
  • I wish I had some sort of cool romantic story about DH being the first partner to get me to orgasm.  I've had orgasms since my first partner.  I can orgasm with P in the V, with a little bit of California love.  DH has mastered the simultaneous orgasm which is cool stuff, brings new meaning to the song "Come Together" . ;)) now we laugh whenever we hear it on the radio.  He's also the first partner I've had that can consistently get me to orgasm in missionary position - I had trouble with that before him.  I have found that over time in our relationship, my patterns have changed.  I enjoy certain positions more now than I used to, some less enjoyable now than they once were.  I'm just glad I can orgasm, as I know some women can't! 


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  • California attention with fairly vigorous P+V action. ;;)


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  • I am by no means an expert, but I think that concentrating on Kegel flexing during sex could help provoke an orgasm. However, concentrating on them instead of the act kind of takes the fun away for me.

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  • P in the V is my favorite way to get off and I am able to have multiple orgasms that way. I can also get off with some California love but I'm very sensitive afterwards so it's a one and done thing for me.

    Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
    TTC #1 since November 2013

    BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14

    BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
    D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14

    BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15

    January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing

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  • Where's the SS option??  B-)
    Dammit!  I don't think I can edit..... Hmm.
  • Oh, haha, I guess I'll add since I started the damn poll and then never relevantly commented.  I'm in camp Cali love all the way.  It definitely takes a while, but I won't complain :)  Although, I do wish I could *thoroughly* enjoy a random quickie...maybe one day.
  • I Enjoy a little of this and a little of that. P + v works and Cali lovin is great too! Toys are always fun!
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  • California Love first, then I can manage a few more through P in V. I can't seem to master the O through P in V alone.
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    BFP: 01.17.2014 / MC 02.05.2014
    BFP: 03.08.2014 / MMC: 05.07.2014
    Dx: Gestational Trophoblastic Disease
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  • SS: PnV with husband .....but only when I am on top. It's rare that I will O in any other position.

    And then Cali love when I'm by myself.

    Does anyone remember The OC theme song, "California.....californiaaaa here we cooomme!"

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  • How does one confront their partner about the sex being a total snore fest? I mean no passion. No fun action. Just missionary or being face first in a pillow. We're in such a bad rut. 
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