TTC After a Loss

=====Tuesday Crazy Train=====

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Feel free to chime in, offer hugs, give your interpretation of a chart stalk and share your knowledge!

This is a thread posted daily for any of us who need to get out our frustrations about waiting to O, the 2WW, or vent about our cycles.

If you find yourself checking FF obsessively, MF is getting the best of you, or you just want to pee on all things, let it out here! In order for the conductors to be better able to help you, please make sure you either have a FF chart link in your sig, or make sure you post a link.

Don't chart? You should consider it, not only will it give you a lot more insight to your cycles, but conductors will be able to answer a lot of your questions just by looking at your chart!

To learn more about charting, check out the charting course that FF offers:https://www.fertilityfriend.com/courses/

The CT is not the place to post a BFP. If you have a "squinter" or if you have a line that appeared after the time frame, please do not post about it here. Take a step back from the board, test again with FMU, and good luck!

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Don't forget to punch your ticket and complete the questions below!

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Crazy level from 1-10:

CD/DPO:

Can I just ______ already?!:

Signs/Symptoms:

Explain your Crazy here:

Chart link:


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Re: =====Tuesday Crazy Train=====

  • Alright, I will start :)

    Crazy level from 1-10: 6.5

    CD/DPO:  18

    Can I just ______ already?!: O

    Signs/Symptoms: watery cm, negative opk (but getting darker)

    Explain your Crazy here: I know it is still early for me. MH is going out of town Friday-Sunday and I really hope my body continues the trend and I O before then. I just POASopk in the multi-stall bathroom at work. Someone came into the stall next to me as I was waiting for it to work. I felt like an idiot b/c it was obvious I was just standing there. So I pretended to pee again. LOL.

    Chart link: My Ovulation Chart">My Chart

    And this is why I decided to use digital OPKs so I could use FMU at home ;)

    I hope you get a +OPK soon! Worse case scenario is you HIO on Thursday which gives you O-3 if you O'd on Sunday.

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  • Quick question : I normally don't temp during AF at all because I know these temps can fluctuate way more. I temped this time when I was bleeding because I wanted to get back into the swing of things but those temps are certainly way off. Would it be okay to just remove them? Or should I just leave them and remove them later if there is a problem?

    Chart Link

    Married 9/13/14

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    Me: 24 / DH: 24

    BFP#1 10/15/14 - EDD 6/19/2014 - MC 10/23/14

    BFP #2: 12/18/14 - EDD: 8/31/15 - MC 1/4/14 5w6d

    **Currently Benched until TBD**

    My Chart


  • Quick question : I normally don't temp during AF at all because I know these temps can fluctuate way more. I temped this time when I was bleeding because I wanted to get back into the swing of things but those temps are certainly way off. Would it be okay to just remove them? Or should I just leave them and remove them later if there is a problem?

    Chart Link

    I would wait and see if you have any issues with FF later. They should be early enough that FF will not have a problem giving you CHs if you O around your normal time.

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  • I'm kind of back on. More like feeling depressed for this cycle.

    Crazy level: 5

    CD/DPO: 27/10

    Can I just ___ already?! Be done with this cycle, I guess.

    Symptoms: Nada. Seriously. Can't even tell I'm taking progesterone.

    Explain your crazy: so the shitty thing about testing out the trigger is that I now know I have a BFN at 10dpo. Normally I only test if AF doesn't come bc this is depressing. If this cycle is going to be negative Id rather just stop the progesterone so I can get AF and move on already. Someone remind me 10dpo is still early?
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

  • nikiswimr said:
    I'm kind of back on. More like feeling depressed for this cycle. Crazy level: 5 CD/DPO: 27/10 Can I just ___ already?! Be done with this cycle, I guess. Symptoms: Nada. Seriously. Can't even tell I'm taking progesterone. Explain your crazy: so the shitty thing about testing out the trigger is that I now know I have a BFN at 10dpo. Normally I only test if AF doesn't come bc this is depressing. If this cycle is going to be negative Id rather just stop the progesterone so I can get AF and move on already. Someone remind me 10dpo is still early?

    10DPO is still early, but your chart looks good. Best of luck!
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  • nikiswimr said:
    I'm kind of back on. More like feeling depressed for this cycle. Crazy level: 5 CD/DPO: 27/10 Can I just ___ already?! Be done with this cycle, I guess. Symptoms: Nada. Seriously. Can't even tell I'm taking progesterone. Explain your crazy: so the shitty thing about testing out the trigger is that I now know I have a BFN at 10dpo. Normally I only test if AF doesn't come bc this is depressing. If this cycle is going to be negative Id rather just stop the progesterone so I can get AF and move on already. Someone remind me 10dpo is still early?
    (((hugs))) lady. I never tested out my trigger during med cycles. Are you going to keep testing or wait a few days to see if AF shows? And symptoms or lack thereof are no indication of pregnancy...even if you're taking Prog.

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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    My Chart


    ***** All ALers welcome *****

  • nikiswimr said:
    I'm kind of back on. More like feeling depressed for this cycle. Crazy level: 5 CD/DPO: 27/10 Can I just ___ already?! Be done with this cycle, I guess. Symptoms: Nada. Seriously. Can't even tell I'm taking progesterone. Explain your crazy: so the shitty thing about testing out the trigger is that I now know I have a BFN at 10dpo. Normally I only test if AF doesn't come bc this is depressing. If this cycle is going to be negative Id rather just stop the progesterone so I can get AF and move on already. Someone remind me 10dpo is still early?
    (((hugs))) lady. I never tested out my trigger during med cycles. Are you going to keep testing or wait a few days to see if AF shows? And symptoms or lack thereof are no indication of pregnancy...even if you're taking Prog.
    This! 10dpo is WAY early. Your chart is pretty. Deep breaths and keep yourself occupied for the next few days. Does your doc automatically do betas or does he wait for you to test? ((Hugs)) sweetie. 
    Multiple TTCAL 1IF 3
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    DX: stage 2 Endo 2012, PCOS 7/2/14,  HSG 6/11/14, Lefty open!!
    BFP#1, EDD: 4/27/14, Missed EP confirmed: 9/23/13, R tube removal: 9/25/13 
    Clomid/TI #1=BFN, 
    Clomid/TI#2=BFN, Clomid/TI #3=CP
    BFP #2 CP, EDD 7/12/15
    On a treatment break: 2 natural cycles. Saving money, sigh*

    Goodbye my sweet babies. We miss you so much
    All Welcome


  • Yeah no more testing for me until 1/17. I think next time I'm going to ignore the trigger and just test 15dpo. My RE has me call with a positive test, no automatic beta. But if the test is negative I have to stop progesterone so I can get AF.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

  • nikiswimr said:
    Yeah no more testing for me until 1/17. I think next time I'm going to ignore the trigger and just test 15dpo. My RE has me call with a positive test, no automatic beta. But if the test is negative I have to stop progesterone so I can get AF.
    FX for good news Saturday!!

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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    My Chart


    ***** All ALers welcome *****

  • mrspippmrspipp member
    edited January 2015
    @nikiswimr 10 dpo is crazy early! Here's a handy chart to reinforce that. 

    HPT Accuracy DPO
    10 dpo : 35%
    11 dpo : 51%
    12 dpo : 62%
    13 dpo : 68%
    14 dpo : 74%
    15 dpo : 80%
    16 dpo : 88%
    17 dpo : 92%
    18 dpo : 99%


    @heartbot I was also stalking you, and yay for CH! I'm in awe of your FWP this month...

    eta: words
  • nikiswimr said:
    Yeah no more testing for me until 1/17. I think next time I'm going to ignore the trigger and just test 15dpo. My RE has me call with a positive test, no automatic beta. But if the test is negative I have to stop progesterone so I can get AF.
    10 dpo is early to test but, if you had an HCG trigger, by testing and getting a BFN, you know it is out of your system. 

    Your RE has you test on 14 dpo and just go with that if it's negative? Maybe I'm paranoid but you can still get a false negative on 14dpo with an HPT. If they don't do blood draws then I would wait a couple more days to test again before stopping progesterone . . .

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  • @heartbot‌ nice CH and nice timing! @buggirl72‌ after seeing that chart (only 76% positive at 14dpo?!) I think I will wait. Thanks everyone for helping me escape the crazy.
    Me: 32 DH: 32
    Met: 4/25/2004, Married 8/14/2010
    Off BC 1/2013 TTC (actively) since 5/2013
    5/2014 started testing with RE, me:  HSG normal, normal AMH, no cysts; DH: great sperm
    Unexplained IF + unexplained anovulation (post-pill vs hypothalamic)

    7/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFN
    8/2014 Clomid (monitored) + TI: BFP #1: 9/12/2014, EDD 5/22/2015, MMC 10/11/2014 8w1d
    11/2014 Clomid + Novarel + IUI 12/5/14: BFFN
    12/2014 Comid + Novarel + IUI 1/3/15: ???

    **PgAL/PAL welcome**

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