OPP Tuesday ***babies, pregnancies, children, triggers mentioned***

Re: OPP Tuesday ***babies, pregnancies, children, triggers mentioned***

• Remylove1011 member

  January 2015

  I had a bit of moment this weekend. MH and I are best friends with a couple (worked out super nicely that we met them as he wie is now my BFF and her husband and MH are seriously soulmates) and hang out with them and their two small chilren on the regular. The husband as a four year old son rom a previous mariage and they have an alost 4 month old together. I went out with my BFF to see a movie and when we got back MH was playing "football" with the four year old. They were throwing this horse puppet around and then the little boy would jump onto MH and he would flip him over to "tackle" him while he dissolved into giggles. It was just the cutest thing and made my heart happy and sad all at once. I want this to happen so badly and I think sometimes I loose sight of how badely MH wants it since he's not always talking about it. He's going to be such a great dad.

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• Remylove1011 member

  January 2015 edited January 2015

  @BlueFairy5 Sorry you had a rough Saturday morning! It's always hard to tell how a BFP will hit you. Some people you're able to be really excited for and some it just twists your guts. **HUGS**

  edit. can't type, need more coffee...

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• supermorena member

  January 2015

  @Remylove1011‌ I literally had tears rolling down my race. I can totally picture my hubby playing like that and get so sad that it may not happen. Plus my hormones are all jacked up this month so I cry at everything. Ugh.
  
  My OPP is not a huge deal, but just got to me. My good friend and I were at the gym yesterday. She doesn't want kids, but adores her niece and nephew. For like 20 min she went on and on about their trip to Disneyland, etc, etc. She knows a little aboutour struggle, but not wanting kids I don't think she can really get what it's like. She was just so excited talking, I didn't have the heart to tell her to stop. I hate that IF affects every little bit of life. It shouldn't be hard to listen to a friend.

   

  
  

  TTC since 4/2012

  Started testing 5/2013: all clear, official diagnosis is "unexplained infertility"

  7/2013: first round of Clomid + TI

  8/2013: more bloodwork, low progesterone, low estradiol

  9,10,11,12/2013: TI + hcg injections 3,5,7,9DPO

  1/2014: Clomid + hcg trigger + TI

  2/2014: Clomid + hcg trigger + TI, natural cycle due to cyst

  3/2014: Clomid + hcg trigger + IUI #1

  4/2014: hcg trigger + IUI #1.2

  5,6/2014: on a mental/emotional health break

  7/2014: hcg trigger + IUI #1.3

  8/2014: first succesful IUI! (but no bfp)

  9/2014: IUI #2

  10/2014: hcg + IUI #3

  11/2014: SHG (fibroid not an issue)

  12/2014: Clomid + hcg + IUI #4

  1/2015: Clomid + hcg + Estrace + IUI #5

  
  

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• theholmanherd member

  January 2015

  My OPP is for all the dumb celebrities getting pregnant on a whim. I usually scroll past anything on my FB feed about kids or babies, but the celebrity ones always catch me off-guard.

  Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
  PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole

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• Shauntee member

  January 2015 edited January 2015

  I just found out a co-worker is pregnant. It was sweet that she took me to the side and broke the news to me in a very infertile friendly way. However, it made me a bit sad that people have to go out of their way to break the news to me in a way that won't upset me. I appreciate the effort, I just wish I could handle these things better.

  Me-33 DH-36.

  Married 11/10 TTC 11/10

  06/11- diagnosed with PCOS 

  7/11- D&C and benched for a year 

  9/12-4/13-6 rounds of 50 mg Clomid- no sucess 

  6/13- new doc

  7/13-4/14- 6 more rounds of Clomid. 50 mg and then stepped up to 100mg- no success 

  5/14-7/14- took break waiting for new insurance 

  7/14-new insurance= new doc- actually a RE!!!! 

  7/14-HSG and blood test good-PCOS confirmed by new doc 

  10/14 looking forward to 1st IUI w/ Menopur. Blood Test= Negative
  11/14- IUI #2 w/ Menopur- Blood Test= Negative
  1/15- IUI # 3 w/ Menopur- Blood Test= Negative
  2/15- Self Benched this cycle
  3/15/15-Suprise BFP on natural cycle!!!! EDD-11/16/15
  
  

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