Would you do it? A friend of mine is in 2nd trimester with her surrogacy & I think it's wonderful.
I love the idea & I am thinking about it in the future after we are done with our bio-family. I'm a bit worried I'd get attached & have a hard time letting the baby go. H & I are taking it over. He's on the fence & that's ok.
How would you feel?
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Otherwise, you couldn't pay me enough. I had the easiest pregnancy and labor/delivery was fairly smooth. But the postpartum hormones were evil evil evil for me. Darkest times of my life. It wouldn't deter me from having another, but to go through it and not keep the baby? Nah.
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I think surrogates are wonderful, and a great option for those that can afford it and who are willing to do the emotional homework necessary for it to be successful and healthy for all those involved.
I have a friend who has been a surrogate at least once. I'm not sure when this was, since she also has 5 kids under age 9. I think it was somewhere in between her personal pregnancies.
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If/when I do it, it would have to be a donor egg, I think it would be healthier for me emotionally to not form as much of a connection with the child.
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Haven't posted on here in a while but I would for a close friend or family member I think. It would be tough in a lot of aspects but to help someone like that would be incredible.