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I guess I've come to terms

MrsRustyGriswoldMrsRustyGriswold member
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I always, ALWAYS, envisioned having 3 kids my whole life.  DH only wanted 2, so 2 it was, because I definitely agree that no child should be unwanted in any way.  I did have to struggle with it though.

I went to see a newborn cousin over the weekend and I was prepared to have my feelings attack me and bring on the baby fever.  I held her for an hour, and nuthin' so I guess I'm really ok with being 2 and through.  Not what I expected at all, but I'm glad about it.

Anyone else unexpectedly NOT have baby urges when you thought you might?
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  • Mysterious_wifeMysterious_wife member
    No. I was the exact opposite. One and done! Then every baby made me want more.

    Where is your H standing now?
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  • bumpuser794640bumpuser794640 member
    I have always wanted more than one, and I still want some more, but I also love our family how it is right now.  I still have strong urges to experience pregnancy, but unless a miracle happens, that's just not in the cards for us.
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  • MrsRustyGriswoldMrsRustyGriswold member
    Mysterious_wife said:
    No. I was the exact opposite. One and done! Then every baby made me want more. Where is your H standing now?
    He's standing strong on his position.  Even texted me a potential vasectomy date yesterday, which I'm actually excited about because, if we're really done at 2, I really REALLY do not want any oopsies even though I'm religious about taking my BCP.
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    GnomeSweetGnome said:
    I have always wanted more than one, and I still want some more, but I also love our family how it is right now.  I still have strong urges to experience pregnancy, but unless a miracle happens, that's just not in the cards for us.
    I still hope you'll get your miracle, but not in a false hope way.  I hope you know what I'm trying to say.  Words are hard.
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  • bumpuser794640bumpuser794640 member
    MrsRustyGriswold said:
    GnomeSweetGnome said:
    I have always wanted more than one, and I still want some more, but I also love our family how it is right now.  I still have strong urges to experience pregnancy, but unless a miracle happens, that's just not in the cards for us.
    I still hope you'll get your miracle, but not in a false hope way.  I hope you know what I'm trying to say.  Words are hard.
    Thanks.  I still hope so, too.  But it would be easier if I didn't! :)
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