Me: 28 MH:35
Married September 2012. TTC since September 2013
June 2014 - Dx w/ significant PCOS and referred to RE.
July/August 2014 - Testing complete: Testosterone & AMH very high, FSH slightly high, Vitamin D low, tubes and lining all lovely. DH SA: A+
Cycle 1 (Nov 2014): 2.5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI = BFN
Cycle 2 (Dec 2014): 5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
Cycle 3 (Jan 2015): 5mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
WTF consult scheduled for 1/29
Re: Stepparent Check-In 1/10 ***WARNING: Children Mentioned***
Bitch...just no.
When we have the boys literally every day of the week at our house, how do you think you have custody? Even after we sent her screen shots of the custody papers showing THEY ARE BOTH CONSIDERED THE CUSTODIAL PARENT and the financial aid website showing that it should be OUR information on the form, she still won't budge. I don't want to fight it too much because I know that her and her husband make substantially less that DH and me so it will work out better for DSS but her rationale for it pisses me off! She thinks since she gave birth to them she trumps us. Always. This has been a pattern with her and it drives me seriously insane. There is no arguing with this woman. Okay, rant over...sorry.
QOTW: When DH has to work and one of the boys has plans, the other boy always knows that means "date night" with me. I let them pick what we do and where we go to dinner. The one on one time with them is priceless. I always learn so much about what's going on with them. Always good for LOTS of laughs!
Me (29) DH (37)
Married 7/11
Actively TTC 3/12
DX: PCOS
Current treatment: Break from IUIs until after the holidays
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Me: 28 MH:35
Married September 2012. TTC since September 2013
June 2014 - Dx w/ significant PCOS and referred to RE.
July/August 2014 - Testing complete: Testosterone & AMH very high, FSH slightly high, Vitamin D low, tubes and lining all lovely. DH SA: A+
Cycle 1 (Nov 2014): 2.5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI = BFN
Cycle 2 (Dec 2014): 5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
Cycle 3 (Jan 2015): 5mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
WTF consult scheduled for 1/29
QOTW: My favorite time is during dinner. He likes to help make it, and no matter what it is, he always says I'm the best cook. Just makes me smile knowing he has a routine and gets good meals when he's here, compared to all the fast food he gets when he's with her.
Me(28) & DH(43)
Married: July 26, 2014
TTC Since: July 2013
Diagnosis: PCOS(Me) & Morphology(DH)
Treatments: Oct. 2014 - Metformin ER 2000mg/Day + Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
Nov. 2014 - Metformin ER 2000mg/Day + Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel + TI = BFN
Dec. 2014 - Metformin ER 2000mg/Day + Clomid 100mg + Ovidrel +TI = BFN
Jan. 2015 - Metformin ER 2000mg/Day + Clomind 100mg + Ovidrel + IUI #1 = ???
Qotw..... We all purchased onesie pajamas in the fall and everytime we have my sd we get in our jammies, eat a yummy desert and watch a movie.... Family movie night!
@AnnaClaire256 I am so sorry for the drama the ex is causing. What added stress you don't need going through all of this, but I love how you have date nights with the boys. How special and something they will always remember.
Well DSS returned from his 3 week vacation, he stayed with his mom for 3 whole weeks. This is like a record. We knew we would have to breakdown 21 days of brainwashing. But DH's ex and her mother did something ultra low. A couple of months ago my DSS's grandmother (DH's ex's mother) said she was going to Western Union him $40 for his birthday. She never called with the details about when to pick up the money. So DH and I just figured it was another broken promise to DSS. Well his grandmother and mother told him the grandmother sent the money and we must have kept it. WHAT!!!!!
Now this is wrong on sooooo many levels. But my stepson already has an issue with stealing. I just thought we were all on the same page about trying to break this horrible behavior. But his own grandmother lies to him and makes him think that we stole money from him. Who does this kind of stuff?! Really?! DH was so upset he called her on speaker and asked her about it and she hung up. I just feel so sorry for my DSS being put in a position where he has to choose who do I believe my father or my grandmother. We have decided he will not being going out there for Spring break.
QOTW: DSS loves the Walking Dead. So while I find zombies repulsive, I still make sure I sit down and watch it with him every week. We also really like to play video games together as well. It's like reliving my childhood.
Eta: clarity
Hey everyone! First time posting on this board. I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds it amazing yet so hard to be a step mom! We have my DSD and DSS 1 week on 1 week off. They are 4 and 5 about to be 5 and 6! They are at such a great age and entertain us, daily! There are some days though, that I find it so hard (inside) to be a step mom, because I want so badly to have a child of my own! I feel so guilty having these feelings and find myself holding back tears when they say "I miss mommy" or question why their "mommy and daddy aren't together anymore." Like, am I not enough?!?! I find myself fighting the tears constantly! It hasn't always been this way, as I've been in their lives since they were 1 and 2, but now that we are facing IF issues, it becomes harder and harder with every damn BFN, every DAMN month!
I've never really known anyone in "my same boat" so to speak. So, it's nice to be able to talk to ladies who know EXACTLY how I feel! I love my 2 step kids dearly and wouldn't trade it for the world, but there are just some days fighting back the tears is harder than others. Needless to say, today is one of those days! Not sure what is up with my emotions today, maybe it's because our next IUI is approaching, but I almost freaking started crying at the gym.....listening to Journey....Don't Stop Believin! Who the hell starts crying to DON'T STOP BELIEVIN!!
Ok....rant over! Whew! Thanks for listening! You guys rock!