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horrible vivid dream (loss/death trigger warning)

asglover514asglover514 member
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So last nighy I had the weirdest dream. I can't remember all the details something about music and large groups of people but I was pregnant and a good friend of mine was (she's not in RL though). The only real detail. I remember of this dream is she went into labor and her and her baby both died during the birth. Like I said she's not pegnant right now only I am. I'm trying not to read into it but its hard considering with both my losses I had loss dreams and with this pregnancy I had a dream of having a perfectly healthy baby boy. Its just so confusing and I don't know what to make of it if anything at all and just had to tell someone. I sent my friend a message just saying I love you because I felt the need to but don't want to mention the dream. :/
Stephanie Lynn 
*BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • luciddreamer106luciddreamer106 member
    (( hugs)) Those types of dreams are stressful, but try not to take any meaning out of them. Pregnancy has brought on lots of very vivid dreams for me, too.
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  • tlc35tlc35 member
    I'm sorry. those dreams are stressful.  Remember that dreams like that can be a byproduct of anxiety in your subconscious.
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    @luciddreamer106 It was the first bad dream. I know pregnancy comes with some weird dreams. I would've just preferred a unicorn in the dessert or something.

    @tlc35 I think it is anxiety. I'm approaching my last milestone next week of when we lost Aaron so although I'm trying not to focus too much on it subconsciously I know it's coming.
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • Mel&John2013Mel&John2013 member
    I'm so sorry, I know how frightening and hard to shake dreams like that can be. But like you said, you're just anxious subconsciously and your dreams are trying to release the stress. Unless you're psychic (ARE you psychic?? :) If so, I have some questions about some lottery numbers...) the dreams are just dreams and don't foretell a thing.
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  • mommy0411mommy0411 member
    I have been struggling a lot with bad dreams this time. After two losses, this pregnancy has been much more anxiety ridden and my dreams have definitely reflected it! Sometimes they bother me for days. My best advice is to remember its just a dream and try to calm down the anxiety! Big hugs!


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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    @Mel&John2013 I wish I was psychic! Lotto numbers to a new person every week lol I could use that money right about now.

    @mommy0411 We need a pregnancy drug that suppresses bad dreams, being PgAL is hard enough without the added anxiety.

    *hugs* to all you ladies. Thanks :)
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • jap618jap618 member
    ((Hugs))

    I had a dream the other night that one of my cats accidentally jumped into a pond and drowned. I had jumped in to try and save him but my belly was too big and I couldn't swim down to get him. I could just see him lying there. It was awful. I don't like this pregnancy symptom at all :(
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    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
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  • BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    ((Hugs)) It's crazy pregnancy dreams coupled with anxiety, I think. I dreamed last night that my friend's husband died.
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    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
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  • nohalo21nohalo21 member
    I'm sorry this dream rattled you. Dreams are just that and part of our subconscious. I do a good job during the day pushing negative thoughts out so many times they creep into my dreams. It doesn't help the PGAL brain at all. Sending many hugs your way.
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  • KikiCohenKikiCohen member
    I agree with PP that it's probably anxiety. That doesn't make it any easier though. Hugs!
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  • asglover514asglover514 member
    *hugs* thanks ladies I'm trying to just forget about it. I did end up telling my friend because she asked if I was okay and she just told me not to worry about her cause she's fine and not to stress. 
    Stephanie Lynn 
    *BFP3:7/10/14 EDD: 3/19/15--Renley Alexander born 3/12/15!!*
    11/17/14-adopted a furbaby named Luna (born 9/05/14)
    BFP2: 11/25/11-Aaron Alexander born sleeping at 31 weeks on 05/31/12
    BFP1: 07/28/11-EDD:3/19/12, natural MC 09/12/11 at 12 wks-HB and growth stopped at 6wks
    S&A together since 05/14/11

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  • kate6214kate6214 member
    ((((Hugs)))) PGAL brain is no joke. I'm sorry the anxiety is creeping up especially with your upcoming milestone.

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    BFP #2: 12/23/13       Due Date: 9/6/14      MMC discovered @ 8w 5d    D&C: 2/6/14
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  • jms627jms627 member
    I'm sorry you're dealing with this :(  I've had some terrible dreams, too.  Remember, it's just your brain's way of working out all your PGAL anxiety, and doesn't mean anything bad will happen!

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  • peggels24peggels24 member
    ((hugs))
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