TTC after 35

My TTC over 35 Intro

Hi All!

My name is Leah age 39 w/ type 1 diabetes, my DH is 45 and we have been TTC #1 since Mayish 2014.  Started ovulation test sticks in December, first run was a BFN as of yesterday.  Hoping for success in the near future, the box did say it usually takes 3 or 4 months, but I wonder if my age bracket is included in that time frame.  :-)  

Not sure that we will try anything more "medical" than the sticks because of the diabetes, but we will cross that bridge if we need to when we need to.

Re: My TTC over 35 Intro

  • Welcome!
    Me: 37
    DH: 35
    Married: 9/26/2011
    Hormones: All normal except AMH: Sept 2014 .022, Jan 2015 .05

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    My Ovulation Chart
     

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      Me:39, DH:40

    DD born 8/96, DS born 8/04

    TTC#3

    NTNP since 2006, active trying 1/13

    Natural M/C 3/13 at 7 weeks

    CP 2/14

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  • Welcome!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
  • Welcome!
    41 & single; DX:  PCOS
    TTC #1 with IUI and donor sperm
    First IUI May, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Second IUI July, 2014, Clomid + Trigger = BFN
    Third IUI Dec, 2014, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = BFN
    Fourth IUI Feb 2015, Femara + Follistim + Trigger = C/P :(

  • Welcome to the board and good luck!
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    Me 36 DH 39

    DD 3/29/12
                      BFP 6/4/14 ~ MMC 7/7/14 ~ D&C 7/15/14            
    BFP 11/28/14 ~ MMC  12/29/14    

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  • Welcome!
    me:41   dh:43 
    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

    Occassionally mess with the chart below to see "what if" and learn (not to make it pretty but because FF stays drunk with me).  

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    My Ovulation Chart
  • Thanks for all the welcomes!  I really appreciate it!

    I have aquestion, how do yall get a tickler to show on your posts?  I apparently am notdoing something correct.  Thanks in advance!
  • It's tricky. You have to do it from the icon in the upper right not from the main page where you would think. I'm on mobile now, but if noone has found it by the time I get to a pc I will seems the link
    me:41   dh:43 
    Off Mirena Nov 2013, On Nuvaring end of Jan, Back off Sept 2014.  Never ending cycle starting end of Sept... 
    11/14 Provera failed... cycle continues 
    12/14 High FSH (57 "midcycle")  OBGYN had no clue... about anything 
    01/15 More lab results coming back from RE. U/S showed small (1")cyst on left ovary, thin lining, and couldn't locate right ovary so  possibly straight to DE and IVF 

    Occassionally mess with the chart below to see "what if" and learn (not to make it pretty but because FF stays drunk with me).  

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    My Ovulation Chart
  • Welcome and good luck!
    Nicole  
    NYC
    39 y/o DH 45 
    Married in April 2014 
    TTC since May 2014
    Oct 2014: RE Consultation
    Nov 2014: Submucosal fibroid removed
    Dec 2014: Letrozole CD 3-7. IUI canceled. BFN
    Jan 2015: Letrozole CD 3-7. Ovridel HSG Trigger. IUI#1 BFN
    IUI#2 next
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  • Welcome and good luck to you!

    I'm also on mobile so I have no link, sorry
    I am not sure how to say this without getting a "solicitation" warning so I guess I just say that I am not longer active on THIS site. 



  • Welcome, good luck to you!
    **Losses Mentioned**
    Me 41, DH 38 
    TTC #1 since 9/2014 AMH 3.68, FSH 6.6
    IUI#1 12-02-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 12-17-2015 beta 1=72, beta 2=64, beta 3=10 MC 12-20-14 
    IUI#2 01-08-2015 Letrozol, Gonal-F, Pregnyl, Acupuncture, BFP 01-23-2015 beta 1=151, beta 2=450, beta 3=6524, beta 4= 29380 u/s at 7w5d baby with heartbeat measuring 6w2d. u/s 2-24 gestational sac only, beta 59400 MC 2-24-15 @ 8w6d D&C 2-27-15. Pathology results 47XX +20

    Diagnosis AMA and compound heterozygous MTHFR
  • Welcome and good luck to you. 
    I haven't figured out the ticker thing yet.... I create one and can never get it attached to my signature. Sorry I'm no help

    ****Loss Mentioned***
    Me: 41 Him: 41
    TTC since December 2013
    HSG 9/18/14 = Tubes open but T shaped uterus
    IUI #1... 1/6/2015 + 50mg Clomid = BFN
    IUI #2... 1/29 & 30/2015 + 50mg Clomid +Tigger +Progesterone = BFN
    3/14 BFFP! Natural w/acupuncture & herbs only
    EDD = 11/22/15;  No heartbeat = 7/21/15
    Cooper Midnight Johnson born sleeping 7/25/2015



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  • Welcome! You can change ticket in your profile (I think - it's been awhile for me)
    I had gestational diabetes and had a very healthy boy delivered just barely full term (37 weeks). Once I was dx I just had a lot more appts and more u/s, stress tests,etc. I personally had a hard time with it but LO did great and that's all that matters. There are lots of women on the high risk board that either have diabetes or GD and are very helpful.
    Good luck!!
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  • Welcome, Leah!

    [child mentioned]
    You might want to consider a fertility monitor instead of continuing to rely on the OPK sticks. When I was 35, I used the sticks for a few cycles without luck, and then went to the fertility monitor and we conceived my daughter after a few cycles with that. My understanding, from a book I read, is that OPK sticks often miss your window by a day. With the sticks, when you get a positive result, you may have already ovulated a few hours or several hours prior, and then you may miss your window, especially if you wait to have sex that night. Apparently your highest fertility is the day before you ovulate, and the advantage of the fertility monitor is that it tells you when that is -- the fertility monitor indicates when your levels are "high," the day or two before "peak." The sticks only tell you when you're at peak. So if you can identify the days before peak, and have sex then, you might be making the most of your opportunity every given month.

    The monitor is pricey ($200ish, I think?) but in the grand scheme of what assisted reproductive technology treatments cost, or what raising a kid costs, that's not that much. Anyway, good luck to you!

  • Welcome!
    36, DH 31 TTC #1 since we got married, July 2014. http://FertilityFriend.com/home/522fa4/
  • welcome & good luck!
  • just wanted to say welcome and good luck!
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  • Welcome!
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

  • Welcome and best wishes!  Over 35 gets 6month ttc then you are ok to move to RE if desired.  Most here stick to charting bbt with help of fertilityfriend, opk use is great too, but only shows an lh surge not O confirmation. 
  • Welcome, it's not the same as a fertility monitor but the digital OPKs do tell you high days and peak days so if you can't spring for the $200 one, go for the digital OPK which you can find by the regular OPKs. 
    Me: 37
    DH: 35
    Married: 9/26/2011
    Hormones: All normal except AMH: Sept 2014 .022, Jan 2015 .05

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    My Ovulation Chart
     

    My Babies 
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  • Thanks everyone for all of the great information! This is all very helpful, looks like I have some researching to do!
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