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Extended BFing Weekly Check-in- 1/6

vvvvvfeevvvvvfee member
edited January 2015 in Breastfeeding
For the purposes of this check-in, we will define extended breastfeeding as breastfeeding beyond 1 year. Please feel free to suggest questions for future check-ins! :)

1. How old is your LO?
2. How many times per day does your LO nurse?
3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be?
4.
Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it?

Pregnant & BFing Moms: How are you doing this week? Any issues with supply, pain, aversion? Questions for other moms?

Non-breastfeeding question of the week:
How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances?

Re: Extended BFing Weekly Check-in- 1/6


  • 1. How old is your LO? 28 months
    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse? 2
    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be? Since getting pregnant, I'm really limiting the length to about 5-7 minutes total. Before that he'd go for 15-20 minutes if I let him.
    4.
    Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it? DS gets 1 cup of WCM a day at daycare. He also has a few hot beverages per day at home that we add milk to (like non-caffeinated tea and Dandy Blend, a coffee substitute similar to Postum). We started giving him WCM in a straw cup once he was over 1 year- he always loved it, so it wasn't a big deal to transition once I stopped pumping and ran out of freezer stash.

    Pregnant & BFing Moms: How are you doing this week? Any issues with supply, pain, aversion? Questions for other moms? Still having some aversion, but it's been better since 10 weeks. I'm having more overall breast soreness. My breasts feel fuller, but I think it's pregnancy-related and that my milk production might be slowing down. Sometimes it seems like DS is losing interest... like I have to prod him to keep sucking instead of just staying latched on doing nothing. I'm not sure if it's due to supply/taste changes or if he's just getting tired of how impatient I can be when he's nursing. I'm simultaneously wishing he'd self-wean and feeling guilty about wanting him to. :(

    Non-breastfeeding question of the week:
    How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances? 1, + 12 weeks pregnant with #2. DH and I knew we wanted at least 2. We talk about wanting 3, but this pregnancy has been hard so far, and we have to see how well we can survive with 2 kids first. If I had started younger so we could space them out more, and we had more money coming in so I could work P/T or SAH, maybe we'd have 4. After growing up as an only child, I think it would be fun to have a big family. 


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  • 1. How old is your LO? 17 months in a few days.

    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse? 4-6 times

    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be? Anywhere from 5-30 minutes

    4. Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it?

    He just recently started taking soy milk after refusing it for a few weeks. We recently confirmed he has a milk protein intolerance. I would prefer him to drink goats milk but I have offered it many times and still no luck. He does like goats milk yogurt so I an happy he takes a serving of that almost every day and about 8-12 oz of soy milk.


    Non-breastfeeding question of the week: How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances?

    DS is my first. I'd like two or three total, at least one more would be great but we can't think about that for a while, DS needs a lot of attention right now. In an ideal world I would take three or four.
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  • 1. How old is your LO? 19m
    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse?
    2x/day
    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be? morning is short - usually 10mins; evening can be upwards of 30 mins if she's feeling really cuddly.
    4. Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it? she will now drink some WCM, but it took 6 months for her to be interested. We tried mixing it with BM at a year, but when we got to 50% she refused it and simultaneously dropped bottles cold-turkey. So we didn't try to introduce it, and only started offering it again when she showed interest in a friend's sippy of milk.

    Non-breastfeeding question of the week:
    How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances?
    The plan is 2 kids (have just one now). I'm totally torn between saying 2 is plenty and wanting 3 or 4, but that would be a fantasy-land scenario where no one has to pay for college ;-) (though fraternal twins do run in my family, so I suppose it's possible that 2 could be a surprise 3!)
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  • 1. How old is your LO? 28 months
    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse? 4-6
    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be?  They're usually under 10 minutes.  The longest one is usually when we get home from work/daycare.  She still (sometimes) nurses in the middle of the night and I don't know how long those last.  I do remember she asked at 2 last night and then again at 4 and I told her no.  We bedshare, so I know she cried/whimpered for a minute or two (which I felt bad about), but then fell back asleep.  I've never told her no in the MOTN and had her accept it.
    4.
    Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it?  A little bit of cow's milk at daycare.  It's probably about 8 oz., if that.  I've never really pushed it and I think daycare just offers her a cup at lunch. 



    Non-breastfeeding question of the week:
    How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances? Just 1 child for now.  I definitely want at least 2, but I'll wait to make that final decision until after I've had another child.  I've always imagined I'd have 2. 
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  • MRoxy0628MRoxy0628 member
    edited January 2015
    Hang in there @zembits!  I think all that really matters is how you and your son feel about it.  I know it's hard to tune out what others are saying though.  I haven't gotten any outright negative feedback, but I think people side-eye it a bit.  To me this is another thing that falls under "my body, my choice". 

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  • @zembits hugs! you're doing a great thing for your LO. keep on keepin' on and don't worry about what others think. i think it's great to be open about extended BFing-- you may be helping someone you know in the future by normalizing what is really a normal and natural process!

    kellymom has a great page with a list of benefits of BFing past one year:
    https://kellymom.com/ages/older-infant/ebf-benefits/

    they also have some nice suggestions on responding to criticism about BFing:
    https://kellymom.com/bf/concerns/mother/criticism/

    i also really enjoyed the book, our babies, ourselves: how biology and culture shape the way we parent-- it shows just how much of what we think are "normal" ways to parent or respond to our children are really just social constructs. and our western social constructs don't always best serve our children's development. 
  • mshukhmshukh member
    edited January 2015
    1. How old is your LO?
    18 months

    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse?
    2-4 (4 on the weekends or when I'm home) which is up from once a day a few weeks back since he was sick and I was home so much during the holidays. 

    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be?
    15-40+ minutes. Almost always nurses on both and about 10-20 minutes each. 

    4. 
    Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it?
    Just offered in a straw cup one day and I'm sure we made different porrige with it prior to that. I never knew it was a big deal to transition. 

    Non-breastfeeding question of the week:
     How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances?
    Just one for now. We definitely want 2. Hubby is dead set at no more than 2 for now. I think once we cross that bridge we can decide. I've always wanted 3-4 as I love the idea of a large family. Unfortunately we didn't start earlier and I get nervous about being pregnant past 35 y/o. So it may just be 2 for us. 

    Question for others: so I wonder how some of you deal with the growing toddlers. When we nurse, it's the cradle position and it is becoming less and less comfortable for me as he is heavy and long. Do I need to worry that eventually this position will no longer be possible? 
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  • @mshukh
    have you tried having your LO sit on your lap facing you to nurse? that worked well for us for a long time.

    now that both DS's sessions are in bed (wake up/bedtime) he just nurses next to me for one side, then kind of flops over my body for the other breast.
  • @vvvvvfee well we have, but it seems even less comfortable mainly because he nurses to sleep at night and sitting prevents him from sleeping. Also, I feel like he pulls at my nipple more and I'd like to avoid that. 
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  • lauranicole91lauranicole91 member
    edited January 2015
    1. How old is your LO? She will be 3 in March

    2. How many times per day does your LO nurse? Once or twice on a busy day out of the house but 8-10 on a normal lazy day around the house.

    3. How long do your nursing sessions tend to be? Most are 5 minutes, tops. But the morning and post nap sessions are usually about 30mins.

    4. Does your LO drink other milk besides BM? How did you introduce it? She drinks whole milk finally, as of a few months after her 2nd birthday. About 16oz a day. We tried to introduce it at 15m when she was labeled FTT (failure to thrive) but she didn't take to it. She then went to feeding therapy, a GI specialist, and a nutritionalist who all determined she had a oral sensory issue. She was then put on prescription pediasure. I'd have to bribe her to drink the pediasure by telling her she couldn't nurse until she finished "x" amount. It sucked. I'm sure my answer was overkill, sorry.

    Pregnant & BFing Moms: How are you doing this week? Any issues with supply, pain, aversion? Questions for other moms? No pain since week 6. No aversion. My supply is definitely dwindling. And the color of my milk is changing.

    Non-breastfeeding question of the week: How many kids do you have? How many do you want? How many would you have if you lived in fantasy-land, under totally ideal circumstances? We have one daughter now and a son on the way (19.5w pregnant). I want 3, DH wants 5. We will probably stick with 3 unless he gets an awesome high paying job or we win the lottery. Haha.
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